Some girls don't like me........., ........coz I'm popular :( Options

[Emma Sue]

Hi guys.
I used to have some friends but they dumped me coz they say that i'm too perfect they hate me.
I'm very popular, u know i'm the kinda girl that everyone knows and likes. I've many older friends and they invite me to their parties and my friends used to get mad.
On Saint Valentine's day all my boy classmates brought me flowers and presents(almost everybody has a crush on me) and my friends wouldn't speak to me.
But really it's not my fault that every boy likes me. I just try to be nice and sweet w/ everyone. But i don't like anybody else, i love my bf.

A month ago my friend was like: Don't talk to me again. I hate you. U r so f****** beautiful, u r smart,u have the most amazing bohemian style ever, teachers like u, u do good at school, every single boy that meets u thinks u r the cutest and sweetest girl ever. But I hate you!!!!!!!!! Even my parents love u more than they love me. I'm fed up w/ you Emma Sue!!!!Emma Sue!The nicest name!!! I hate you!!!!! U r like England's sweetheart!!!!!!!

And since then she and her friends don't talk to me. I've got other friends but I can't understand why some girls don't like me only because I'm popular. It's unfair coz I'm totally nice and sweet w/ them. What do u think?

[*Programmer*]

jealousy is a thing some people can't control. you look good you look good. you didn't ask to be the way you are so enjoy it. Obviously they are not real friends if they let little crap like that get in the way. move on and enjoy life.

but on a lighter note might wanna tone it down on viewing yourself.
makes you sound kind of conceited.

[Nugget]

Wow.. you sound really cocky and conceited, Emma Sue. I don't think I like you either!

-Christine

[oXMuhNirvanaXo]

Just remember that not everyone in the hole world is going to like you.. Everyone has there ifs and buts.. and your one of them :-)

[-sincerely]

Wow.. you sound really cocky and conceited, Emma Sue. I don't think I like you either!

-Christine

I agree.

[x_envythis]

mm wow.. either your haters are just being retarded orr they actualy have a reason other than your "perfection" that you havent figured out yet, to hate you.

but i cant help you get your friends backk. not wont if youre wondering. youre on your own on this one girll! much luck xx

[Emma Sue]

Look, I'm not conceited. And why do u guys say u don't like me ?u don't even know me.
I'm sad cozshe doesn't speak to me anymore , i thought she waz a good friend. She was totally nice w/ me and suddenly it was like an explosion: she started yelling at me and saying all these things i told you.

I just can't understand why she waz like that.

[Smoogrish]

No offense, but it seems you're a bit over the top with yourself. Tone down a bit on your "i'm so perfect" things- if you go around saying things like that, people definitely aren't going to like you, in reality and online.

However, what your friends did was also wrong. They might've felt intimated, even, besides the whole jealousy thing. And if they got mad at you over that, I doubt they're worth the effort to maintain a friendship with anyways. They should like you for who you are, and not care who is "better" in your little group of friends.

[John Fu]

Look, I'm not conceited. And why do u guys say u don't like me ?u don't even know me.
I'm sad cozshe doesn't speak to me anymore , i thought she waz a good friend. She was totally nice w/ me and suddenly it was like an explosion: she started yelling at me and saying all these things i told you.

I just can't understand why she waz like that.

The fact that you told everyone they hate you because you're popular is just.. -___- it sounds like something you assumed. Don't say things like that. Maybe you changed personality because you are popular now Ever thought of that? Or maybe they hate how you think you're all that. Most people hate popular kids because they're so god damn concieted. Surely you probably did something so... concieted that got them hating at you.

[SarahxJoy]

Hrm, your attitude (if that's how you really are offline, assuming from the way you talked about yourself in that first post up there), seems a little stand off-ish. No one likes anyone who can't be humble.

But anyway, the world won't love you. The world isn't a bunch of guys having a schoolboy crush on you. If you've lost your friends, then make some new ones. If you can't, then make ammends with your old ones and at least try to be nicer and a little less proud.

Good luck.

[lalalaLANUH]

I basically agree with everyone else. Saying that they don't like you because you're popular does make you sound a bit conceited. If that's the way you are off line they may just be turned off by your attitude. How ever, they may just be jealous. And you can't blame that one friend for hating you if her parents really say they love you more than her. I mean, think about it. If your parents said that to you, wouldn't you be upset?

[aznxdreamer]

i dno...from what i've read, i wouldnt wanna be your friend either. "almost everybody had a crush on me". yeah...i doubt that everyone had a crush on you. i think you need to stop being so concieted and acting like your all that.

[*I Shot JFK*]

Hi guys.
I used to have some friends but they dumped me coz they say that i'm too perfect they hate me.
I'm very popular, u know i'm the kinda girl that everyone knows and likes. I've many older friends and they invite me to their parties and my friends used to get mad.
On Saint Valentine's day all my boy classmates brought me flowers and presents(almost everybody has a crush on me) and my friends wouldn't speak to me.
But really it's not my fault that every boy likes me. I just try to be nice and sweet w/ everyone. But i don't like anybody else, i love my bf.

A month ago my friend was like: Don't talk to me again. I hate you. U r so f****** beautiful, u r smart,u have the most amazing bohemian style ever, teachers like u, u do good at school, every single boy that meets u thinks u r the cutest and sweetest girl ever. But I hate you!!!!!!!!! Even my parents love u more than they love me. I'm fed up w/ you Emma Sue!!!!Emma Sue!The nicest name!!! I hate you!!!!! U r like England's sweetheart!!!!!!!

And since then she and her friends don't talk to me. I've got other friends but I can't understand why some girls don't like me only because I'm popular. It's unfair coz I'm totally nice and sweet w/ them. What do u think?

you remind me of Gretchen from mean Girls... when she apologizes because she's sorry she's perfect.

but ANYWAY.

meh. if they hate you for being who you are, tell them to f**k off.

*shrugs*

[nikkkkki]

Bottom line, you seem to be a little on the conceited side, and I think most would agree. You may be sweet, but you're not making yourself sound like it right now. And the fact that you've quoted the things your (ex-)friend told you, it almost sounds like you're flattering yourself.

[Looow]

Yeah well you sound really cocky.

& Emma Sue is not the nicest name ..

I don't really think its a NICE name at all.

[demolished]

Whenever you talk to anyone, dont talk about what you look like, what body features you have, and how GREAT your personality is. If you talk about yourself, people will start to realize that your're more than the looks which will lead to someone dislike you as well as jealousy. Its best not to tell them about yourself. They should realize you more ... by themselves (without you talking about yourself). They wouldnt hate you for that.

People who talk about themselves being pretty are usually annoying, disturbing, and unpleasant. Eventually, they are left with no "actual" friends to understand you, to love you for your personality, and sacrifice quality time for you.


There are ways to improve your image. You just need to change your clothes in a appropriate way that will discourage super shallow people, less makeup, bigger backpack , and make yourself to stand out less in the crowd.


If you’re one of the girls who scream like … “omgg!! Ahhhhhhhhh!! Awwwwwwm hehehe”, eliminate that too. It can attract attentions, people, and reputations.

[verbalistic]

to tell you the truth i wouldn't like you from the very start...

[*AngelicEyz00*]

You're kidding me right?

[demolished]

^
I dont like your either. No, i'm not kidding. i really HATE you.

[John Fu]

^haha Suzzette XD

[priyas]

Hi guys.
I used to have some friends but they dumped me coz they say that i'm too perfect they hate me.
I'm very popular, u know i'm the kinda girl that everyone knows and likes. I've many older friends and they invite me to their parties and my friends used to get mad.
On Saint Valentine's day all my boy classmates brought me flowers and presents(almost everybody has a crush on me) and my friends wouldn't speak to me.
But really it's not my fault that every boy likes me. I just try to be nice and sweet w/ everyone. But i don't like anybody else, i love my bf.

A month ago my friend was like: Don't talk to me again. I hate you. U r so f****** beautiful, u r smart,u have the most amazing bohemian style ever, teachers like u, u do good at school, every single boy that meets u thinks u r the cutest and sweetest girl ever. But I hate you!!!!!!!!! Even my parents love u more than they love me. I'm fed up w/ you Emma Sue!!!!Emma Sue!The nicest name!!! I hate you!!!!! U r like England's sweetheart!!!!!!!

And since then she and her friends don't talk to me. I've got other friends but I can't understand why some girls don't like me only because I'm popular. It's unfair coz I'm totally nice and sweet w/ them. What do u think?

I think their just jealous, personally.

[AnnahhbeL]

Shouldn't this be in relationships?
Well..try not to seem like the popular type of kid..

[flc]

To be perfectly honest, I'd hate you too. But I'm just a naturally jealous person.

I dunno what to tell you except to just let these things go..obviously these people have such low self-esteem, and they must look up to you constantly to compare themselves to you.

[whywasisostupid]

hehehahahehheahaha.
kk.

Wow.. you sound really cocky and conceited, Emma Sue. I don't think I like you either!

-Christine

agreed.

[AzNxBaBi]

Wow that sucks. Seriously as you can see or read from what everyone else posted .. you know what's wrong with yourself. You just need to really change the way you say things that's all. Sure if they say your perfect, nice this and that and i'm guessing you think so too .. You don't have to tell people you're "popular". It does make you look conceited. Besides how would you feel if your friend said she's popular and all the things that is happening to you is happening her, of course you would get jealous but to say you are popular is really off the meter in the "i'm a nice persion". -___-; &seriously not everyone is going to like you.

[demolished]

Is she going to cry ? This thread will make her sad and uncomfortable about herself.

[NERDFACE™]

Okay.
Naturally,I'm the kind of kid who hates kids like you.
the kind of kid who'd take your picture,and throw darts into your forehead all night for FUN.
but you know what?
you sound so.......needy.
I'm just gonna help you.

They probably dont hate you because your popular,though it might have come out like that.When you get mad at a person,you start thinking about all the things you don't like about them.Sometimes there are so many you forget your point and when your actually tell them it comes out completely different than what was meant to be.

Since your so "popular",you have other friends right?Well whoever yelled at you probably though that you were their BEST friend,and whenever you would go off with someone else,or not pay attention to this person because you were paying attention to someone else,they may feel a little left out.I know this is true,the same thing goes on with one of my friends.

you also sound a bit conceited,your firends might just be a little unhappy with how you veiw yourself.When you walk around talking about YOUR achievements,and YOUR gifts,talking about how YOUR special,does it really give them room to make them feel special too?No.maybe they were tired of you making them feel like sh*t.

[Emma Sue]

Is she going to cry ? This thread will make her sad and uncomfortable about herself.

Of course I'm crying. It's really depressing.
I hate myself right now.

Wow.. you sound really cocky and conceited, Emma Sue. I don't think I like you either!
-Christine

I agree.

No offense, but it seems you're a bit over the top with yourself. Tone down a bit on your "i'm so perfect" things- if you go around saying things like that, people definitely aren't going to like you, in reality and online.

Most people hate popular kids because they're so god damn concieted. Surely you probably did something so... concieted that got them hating at you.

to tell you the truth i wouldn't like you from the very start...

^
I dont like your either. No, i'm not kidding. i really HATE you.

Besides..since you're so perfect, you shouldn't need our help. :)

To be perfectly honest, I'd hate you too.

Now, everyone who checks out this thread says that I'm conceited, cocky and that he/she would obviously hate me.

[/size]

[size=1]

Yeah well you sound really cocky.
& Emma Sue is not the nicest name ..
I don't really think its a NICE name at all.

[font=Arial]I never said that Emma Sue is the nicest name. NEVER! Personally I hate it right now. My stupid parents chose it and it's not my fault..


And I have problems too:
I see my parents twice a year and they don't care about me and my brothers. Today is my brother's birthday and he is sad coz our parents didn't even call him. What do u all think about this?
I broke up w/ my boyfriend coz one of his friends threatened me that if I didn't she would do several things to my brother and to my boyfriend. Do u find this easy? I cry every day.
Since we broke up he started smoking and drinking. It hurts to see him like that especially when I'm so afraid to tell him what's going on.
I have many friends but I used to consider her as my best friend. That's why I asked 4 advice.
Now I'm even more depressed coz so may people I don't know hate me.
:( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(:( :( :(

[much2muse]

And the fact that you've quoted the things your (ex-)friend told you, it almost sounds like you're flattering yourself.

er... yea, i must say i agree.

I can't understand why some girls don't like me only because I'm popular

Thats not why they don't like you. They don't like you because you come off conceited and actually believe you're all the things your friend said about you. A modest person wouldnt say "they dont like me because i'm popular". You probably are nice and popular. =) I think you're nice actually. Just don't know you are.

Here's how:
Realize that..
1. Every boy doesn't like you.
2. Some people in the world will not like you.
3. You're not perfect.
4. You're not the cutest and sweetest person ever.
5. you are semi conceited.

^Once you've realized that and come to terms with it here's what you do:

Fix it, become less conceited. Then apologize to your friend, sincerely. Tell her you're sorry you've been kind of cocky lately and that you've changed and really miss her friendship.

you remind me of Gretchen from mean Girls... when she apologizes because she's sorry she's perfect.

^don't apologize like that.


If she's still mad, then she's not a very good friend.

[*I Shot JFK*]

And I have problems too:
I see my parents twice a year and they don't care about me and my brothers. Today is my brother's birthday and he is sad coz our parents didn't even call him. What do u all think about this?
I broke up w/ my boyfriend coz one of his friends threatened me that if I didn't she would do several things to my brother and to my boyfriend. Do u find this easy? I cry every day.
Since we broke up he started smoking and drinking. It hurts to see him like that especially when I'm so afraid to tell him what's going on.
I have many friends but I used to consider her as my best friend. That's why I asked 4 advice.
Now I'm even more depressed coz so may people I don't know hate me.
:( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(:( :( :(

why? surely if you dont know them, it really doesnt matter one little bit?

oh, and drop the sue from your name. emma is a lovely name. the sue kills it.

[NERDFACE™]

why? surely if you dont know them, it really doesnt matter one little bit?

agreed.
like HXC.
haha.

[*xcaitlinx*]

i don't think that your friends dumped you because you're "popular, beautiful, smart, perfect...", i think it's because YOU view yourself that way.

[magicfann]

i think emma sue is a fag

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

Quit being mean to the girl. She'll end up commiting suicide or being a wrist cutting maniac.

They don't hate you because you're popular and beautiful and everyone loves you. They hate you cos your cocky and concieted and they can't stand you. Quit being so full of yourself, learn a LOT of humbleness and people won't have a problem with you. Have you ever heard the saying 'He/She with many friends has no friends'. Stop rooting for world popularity, cos there will always be people who dislike you, no matter how perfect you think you are. That girl obviously isnt your friend, and you shouldnt miss someone who is such a bitch. Go and find all those other people who you say like you so much and make close bonds with someone. Its better to have 1or 2 really best friends than 100362732 friends.

Basically, get over yourself. Nobody is as special as you make yourself seem. Also like the saying, nobody is perfect until your in love with them. Seems like you're pretty much in love with yourself, which is the problem. It all comes to be humble.

[priyas]

On Saint Valentine's day all my boy classmates brought me flowers and presents(almost everybody has a crush on me) and my friends wouldn't speak to me.
But really it's not my fault that every boy likes me. I just try to be nice and sweet w/ everyone. But i don't like anybody else, i love my bf.

^^Your really full of yourself. MODESTY will make other people like you more.



I STILL think that they are just jealous though.

[John Fu]

[quote name='Emma Sue' date='May 28 2006, 7:28 AM' post='2064938']
Of course I'm crying. It's really depressing.
I hate myself right now.


Now, everyone who checks out this thread says that I'm conceited, cocky and that he/she would obviously hate me.

[size=1][/size]
You brought it upon yourself -_- If you can't figure out how...-_______- I lose hope on you. And don't get too depressed about these things. Not everyone has to love you (as many people said). The more you complain about people hating you the more you seem annoying. Stop making yourself seem like an attention whore

[*mipadi*]

Haha!

I'm sorry, I don't mean to laugh, it's just that we don't often get problems like this around here. Most people are upset because no one likes them or they have some sort of problem, not because they're well-liked and popular.

It seems everyone else is either telling you a) you shouldn't be upset because you have it better off than most people, or b) you're conceited. Now, it's quite possible that you are using your life and your friend's words to brag, but I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume you are really disappointed that your friend doesn't seem to like you anymore.

You seem to have learned a valuable lesson: All the popularity in the world doesn't matter if the one person most important to you (or at least very important to you) doesn't like you. And you make another good point that everyone who heeds this thread should take to heart: Even the person who seems to have it all has problems, and those problems bother that person, just like any of our personal problems bother us.

But a lot of people did make a good point: Sometimes, the reason you think other people don't like you, is not the reason they don't like you at all. Let me use a personal anecdote as an example. When I was a junior in high school, I had a great group of friends. But I was always really paranoid that they didn't like me, and that I wasn't their favorite friend. Long story short, by the beginning of my senior year, they all pretty much stopped hanging out with me. I thought was because I was dorky and "not cool", because I didn't drink and smoke and party a lot, because they were too wrapped up in themselves to be my friend, because I wasn't tall and handsome and didn't attract all the girls. That wasn't the reason at all, though. It was because I was f**king annoying. I was always talking about my problems and whining about how no one liked me. So they stopped hanging out with me.

My point? Maybe it's not because you're popular and every boy likes you; maybe it's how those things make you act.

It's not bad to be popular and well-liked. But it's bad to hang onto it so tightly, to broadcast it so loudly, that people get sick of you. I'm not accusing you of doing that—but you know if you are or not, so keep my wisdom in mind.

And finally…maybe it's a self-esteem issue. I'm not accusing you of anything, but let me ask you honestly: Do you like yourself? Are you happy with who you are? A lot of times (especially in high school), people who claim to have a lot of friends, and claim to have a lot of admirers, really suffer from a lack of self-esteem, and use their number of friendships to cover that up. Remember that it's not the number of friends, but the quality that counts.

Those are some thoughts to keep in mind.

[angelrevelation]

ok there's this popular girl that i absolutely hate... and everyone loves. why? because she's so FAKE. perfect- pretty, 'fun', talented (she seriously is), smart, etc. this isn't why she's fake. it's because she either fakes modesty, or is full out conceited and snobby to the ppl she doesn't hang out with. maybe it's just me. i don't know.

sometimes being confident can make you look arrogant.

[*This Confession*]

well.. no offense
but you did sound kind of concieted..
their jealous though
when you just go along with it as well and have a bf
its like rubbing it in pretty much to them.


^very true.
Although i rather have the person i care for the most then ever be popular for one day.

Actually
there may be something else this girl sees in you that she doesn't like..

^like above that fake part.
thats why i dislike people because their concieted and fake.
People shouldn't care what other people think and be content with who you are.
If no one likes you, you learn to accept it because people are different so some people aren't going to get along wtih others.
its life accept it.



Also if you go these friends and talk and talk about yourself.
sorry but thats being conceited and people don't want to hear it.

Basically, get over yourself. Nobody is as special as you make yourself seem. Also like the saying, nobody is perfect until your in love with them. Seems like you're pretty much in love with yourself, which is the problem. It all comes to be humble.

could have put that a little nicer..
Really no ones perfect
and you even if your in love its still not perfect.




Mostly. you need to change how you look at things
because how you pretty much explained it
you look at your life as its perfect and you have these group
of people because your so nice and stuff.

Maybe if you look at the situation in their eyes maybe you'll figure it out.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

^ I really don't know why you're quoting me and saying im mean when the hordes of other people are saying 'I think I hate you too' , 'Emma Sue's a fag ' and such. & I was just quoting an old saying with the you're not perfect til somebody loves you. Dont talk to me about it, talk to the person who made it up. Well, anyways In my opinion it's as nice as it could have been while forcefully getting the point through. Truth hurts honey.

[PrincessAda]

Wow..what a hard life

[Laotian_Doll]

In life, even though it sucks, not everyone is going to like you for some reason, and your friend probably has been thinking about those qualities of yours that probably bother her, but something you might have done, might have taken her to the breaking point to say those things. But either way, talk to her (screw her if she ignores you, you're just trying to be nice here) and find out what's really going on.

[starlette]

how can u be popular if everyone hates you? Thats something I never got. I was popular in school because I was friends with just about everyone. People liked me and I liked them. I was friends with freaks geeks goths band nerds and pretty girls. But I wasnt considered "popular." And then the popular people were the most hated a-hole bitches in the school. And they had no friends but eachother. How can u be popular if your on everyones hate list? no offense, but you dont sound very popular to me. Popular generally means people know and like you, and from the way you desribe urself, no one likes you. Because your conceited and probably assigned the title popular to yourself. Just be sincere with people. Stop talking and whining about your obvious lack of real problems. I have no sympathy for you. I'm sorry. When there are people out there being discriminated against because of the color of their skin or how small their house is and the fact they cant afford nice clothes or a good meal, I just cant give a sh*t about the fact that you are sad because you are popular yet no one likes you. Its time you take a good look in the mirror and change your priorities. And I'm not saying thing because I'm a jealous ugly person because as you can see I've no reason to be jealous. Expand your world of me me me and try to find out whats wrong with your friend instead of just whining because she doesnt like you. Maybe theyre all tired of hearing about how wonderfully beautiful talented and smart you are. Maybe they want you to tell them how beautiful talented and smart they are. Maybe they would like to go a day without hearing about your problems. Open yourself up for others. Being born pretty and smart doesnt make you anymore interesting, deseving, or better than the next person. Try making friends with people who might hurt your reputation, and try not flirting with every guy in your school. Nothing pisses a girl off more than another girl, who can choose from 500 other guys, going after the one she wants. And like I said be sincere. Care about those around you and move on to the world outside of your compact mirror.

[doom_diver]

You dont need friends like that..........

[xMayleex]

Haha ... you can't be serious.

Anway, like many people said, you sound conceited and cocky. If I'm honest I just think your messing about, because your making yourself seem so perfect .. people do have flaws you know.

If a friend was saying 'Don't ever talk to me again, I hate you' they wouldn't go on to give you compliements. Anyway if your being serious which I very much doubt then you can't please everyone, and people do get jealous. Just tell them to piss off, and get on with their lives.

[waccoon]

how can u be popular if everyone hates you? Thats something I never got. I was popular in school because I was friends with just about everyone. People liked me and I liked them. I was friends with freaks geeks goths band nerds and pretty girls. But I wasnt considered "popular." And then the popular people were the most hated a-hole bitches in the school. And they had no friends but eachother. How can u be popular if your on everyones hate list? no offense, but you dont sound very popular to me. Popular generally means people know and like you, and from the way you desribe urself, no one likes you. Because your conceited and probably assigned the title popular to yourself. Just be sincere with people. Stop talking and whining about your obvious lack of real problems. I have no sympathy for you. I'm sorry. When there are people out there being discriminated against because of the color of their skin or how small their house is and the fact they cant afford nice clothes or a good meal, I just cant give a sh*t about the fact that you are sad because you are popular yet no one likes you. Its time you take a good look in the mirror and change your priorities. And I'm not saying thing because I'm a jealous ugly person because as you can see I've no reason to be jealous. Expand your world of me me me and try to find out whats wrong with your friend instead of just whining because she doesnt like you. Maybe theyre all tired of hearing about how wonderfully beautiful talented and smart you are. Maybe they want you to tell them how beautiful talented and smart they are. Maybe they would like to go a day without hearing about your problems. Open yourself up for others. Being born pretty and smart doesnt make you anymore interesting, deseving, or better than the next person. Try making friends with people who might hurt your reputation, and try not flirting with every guy in your school. Nothing pisses a girl off more than another girl, who can choose from 500 other guys, going after the one she wants. And like I said be sincere. Care about those around you and move on to the world outside of your compact mirror.

"Some girls."

Anyways, I don't know why you're all attacking her, she has a problem she needs help with. Telling her how conceited she is really doesn't help.

[*krnxswat*]

Why doesn't this seem credible to me?

[NERDFACE™]

b' date='May 28 2006, 12:53 PM' post='2065184']
Basically, get over yourself. Nobody is as special as you make yourself seem. Also like the saying, nobody is perfect until your in love with them. Seems like you're pretty much in love with yourself, which is the problem. It all comes to be humble.

HA!
that made me think of some other word.
like,I was so proud.
because I'm not a very bright kid
anywho's.
I'm gonna be all "creative"

you sound really narcisstic.
like alot.
and if I actually knew you,
I'd be the kid you hated with a passion.
because I'd kick your ass.
kids like you seriousely annoy me.
get over yourself.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

^ .. Who are you talking to.

[starlette]

"Some girls."

Anyways, I don't know why you're all attacking her, she has a problem she needs help with. Telling her how conceited she is really doesn't help.

the thing is, the only real way to fix her problem is to work on her ego. No one like someone who cares only about themselves. Friends are the people who are supposed to be there for you. And to fix her problem the first thing she needs to do is fix herself.

[priyas]

Poor girl. Everyone's attacking her. She just wants help...geez. Tell her nicely, people. Calling her a conceited bitch doesnt help.

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

Poor girl. Everyone's attacking her. She just wants help...geez. Tell her nicely, people. Calling her a conceited bitch doesnt help.

*ahem*

^^Your really full of yourself. MODESTY will make other people like you more.

<<Conceited Girl.
I STILL think that they are just jealous though.

[John Fu]

Hezron says:

LOLOL. this is funny. I think everyone's overreacting a bit. So what if she's conceited? A lot of other people are. So what if your friend's jealous?

I mean, she's already sleeping with your boyfriend

[Yoshitoki Kunino...]

OOOH, TURN OF EVENTS!
THE PLOT HAS TWISTED! RAWRAWRAWR
How do you know her friend's sleeping with her boyfriend?

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

Hezron says:

Your friend is just saying everyone loves you more as a cover up while she sneaks up to your boyfriend and they kill some time and make babies

And Hezron thinks Emma Sue's a nice name. I'm pretty sure you're a nice girl, and I'm sorry your boyfriend's cheating on you with your friend

[marzipan]

well, don't go around saying "i'm so perfect." you say, "i'm very popular, the girl that everyone likes." yeah, people are really going to like you if you go around saying that. don't be so conceited, and maybe people wouldn't hate you.

[NERDFACE™]

b' date='May 29 2006, 1:38 PM' post='2066413']
^ .. Who are you talking to.

emma sue.

Not yew,don't worry dear.
your too rad.XXX

[lalalaLANUH]

Okay, getting past this conceited bitchy stuff. I sympatize for your problem(s). I really do Emma Sue. But we all have problems, numerous problems. You've learned a lesson here. That's why you have problems. To learn from them. You're not all that great. But you're not a "fag" and Emma Sue is a great name (though I must admit I agree with James. Drop the Sue). You shouldn't be affected by such talk. Focus on the problem: You need to humble yourself and see that you can't be perfect for everyone. You have to accept that. Once you realize this and change, I'm sure the world wont be half as dreary as it seems now.

[priyas]

*ahem*

^^I meant to take out the "conceited girl" part, but i never did.

[*I Shot JFK*]

well done in completely drivng her away from her own topic...

anyway, if she has a modicum of sense, she'll read michael's post, and ignore the rest of the nonsense.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

emma sue.

Not yew,don't worry dear.
your too rad.XXX

Oooh. Yaaay !

[Vera]

Oh my god...you have the hardest life.
I can't IMAGINE having to deal with that!
You can't help being the beautiful, smart, talented girl that you are. You can't help that you have a beautiful name either!

Those bitches.
C'mon now.
I think this is the best advice you're getting.
Besides..since you're so perfect, you shouldn't need our help. :)

xDD! Sorry I completely agree with her and I do think that since you describe yourself as one of those Stepford Wives, then you can work things out on your own. Maybe you should just lose some of the self-confidence and be a bit more humble?

[*jooleeah*]

Hmm.

Well. Move on from your popularity and tone your ego down a bit. Nobody likes a person who brags about themselves ;] I'm sure it was unintentional, but really, that doesn't matter. Being conceited is something that you don't want to risk in life.

[*Ox_Su`Zie*]

I think school is just a big popularity contest.. who has more money who has the best apparel who's prettiest who has the hottest boyfriend whos the nicest.. its all just bs.! because once you leave H.S its not even CLOSE to being like that.

[magicfann]

I think school is just a big popularity contest.. who has more money who has the best apparel who's prettiest who has the hottest boyfriend whos the nicest.. its all just bs.! because once you leave H.S its not even CLOSE to being like that.

well duh, but i have a suggestion for emma sue

#oglscrim
gg

[*slammin shelby*]

Is this topic a joke?

[AngelinaTaylor]

*dies of laughter*

This was hilarious.. Are you for real? Honestly?

"It's not my fault that every boy likes me" - THAT's what's wrong with you. You're too self-involved and you obviously think way too highly of yourself. You think you're perfect. Wake up, honey - NO ONE is perfect. We're all human, therefore we all have flaws.

And as someone else said - how can you be popular if everyone hates you? That sounds insane. And, oh my god, I cannot imagine what a hard life you have. You're just the only person with such "major" problems! It's so hard being you, isn't it?

You're the exact type of people I can not stand. Boyfriends and popularity aren't everything. When will you people get this through your thick heads?

And guess what.. Not everyone is going to like you!

Stop whining and get over yourself.

Taylor``

[lexaa621]

hmm. lots of "emma sue" bashing going on. haha
yeah this is all pretty pathetic. people keep saying the same stuff over and over again so i wont bother. but they're all right.

i guess when people start hating you, it feels better to think its because they're just jealous of how "perfect" you are. or how "popular" you are. obviously you're neither if this many people dislike you. "why's life such a popularity contest?" i forget who said that, but it's something you should think about. find other ways to be happy other than being "popular". it'll make you less insecure i guess.

anyways good luck. this should be a good life lesson. eventually all will be well again. hopefully you've learned from what everyone's told you, cuz it'll help you out in the future.

[*This Confession*]

Is this topic a joke?

I think so.
Looks like it. she never even came back so aparetly she doesn't need us anymore.

[Nior]

Wow.. you sound really cocky and conceited, Emma Sue. I don't think I like you either!

-Christine

I hate to say it, but I really agree. If you really think all of those things about yourself and you can brag like that, I wouldn't really want to be your friend.

[*This Confession*]

ah okay ty.

First off.
Most of us only find you conceited because we don't know you and we can only take what we read from what you left to gather who you are and what the real problem is.
If you followed Josh's help info. on your bf he may not be doing these drugs and stuff. You need to talk to your boyfriend.
Now if you don't want to lose this girl as a friend all you can do is go talk to her and tell her that your sorry. and try to reassure her that she shouldn't think like that about you. No ones perfect.

About your parents. Todays kind of families your not going to recieve any sympathy for that. Almost all families are broken up and no one really sees some of their parents.

So good luck.
Really its life.
you learn to get over it.

[marzipan]

^ yes, i agree.

i'm sorry if you don't get to see your parents very often. do you live with relatives or something? but like ^she said, good luck to you and learn to get over it.

[Your pain is not...]

There's nothing wrong with being confident with yourself and having a high self esteem. People just have a problem with people that have too much confidence.

Half of me hates the bragging that you do. But I don't hate you as a person. And the other half feels sorry that you have to be upset with that crap.

As people have said. Stop the ego. Everyone hates that. You might not have a problem with it. But everyone else does. And you will have a problem with others having a problem with it. Be modest. Step into others shoes. They don't only feel jealous if a person around them IS perfect, and it's worse if they brag. They'll hate themselves. Girls are naturally like that.

Your friends are jealous and they just hate feeling sh*tty and compared to when they're with you.

Off topic:
About the popularity. When I use the term "popular", I mean it to generalise those that have a huge group of friends. The "popular" people at my school are unworthy, shallow, some pretty, some fugly, rich/spoiled, etc. So I dislike them, very much.

[mylittleMiracle]

from this passage,i feel that you are kinda of cocky....

[Something Vague]

Mmmm... yeah. You see, I find it very unlikely that you are popular, Emma Sue.
Infact, you are so incredibly transparent, I can see right through you.


"Don't talk to me again. I hate you. U r so f****** beautiful" ....etc etc.

Haha. Who the hell says that?
No one. You said that.

"U r so f****** beautiful, u r smart,u have the most amazing bohemian style ever, teachers like u, u do good at school, every single boy that meets u thinks u r the cutest and sweetest girl ever. But I hate you!!!!!!!!! Even my parents love u more than they love me. I'm fed up w/ you Emma Sue!!!!Emma Sue!The nicest name!!! I hate you!!!!! U r like England's sweetheart!!!!!!!"


Emma Sue, you are indeed, a skank.

[radhikaeatsraman]

HAHAHAHA.

I freaking love this topic.
Keep it going, por favor.

[Stuckie]

^^ I dont think that would classify her as a skank.

I'm very popular, u know i'm the kinda girl that everyone knows and likes. I've many older friends and they invite me to their parties and my friends used to get mad.
On Saint Valentine's day all my boy classmates brought me flowers and presents(almost everybody has a crush on me) and my friends wouldn't speak to me.
But really it's not my fault that every boy likes me. I just try to be nice and sweet w/ everyone. But i don't like anybody else, i love my bf.

You seem conceited then a mutha f***a. You shouldn't have mentioned you are so popular and how you get invited to all the parties. You made yourself look like any other obnoxious, stuck up, popular girl. I can see why your old friends say they "hate you". And if you are as popular and consumed in party invitations as you say you are, you shouldn't even have the time to worry about your old friends.

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

^^I meant to take out the "conceited girl" part, but i never did.

even if you took out the "concieted girl" part you're still saying she's concieted by saying she lacked modesty -_-

[*krnxswat*]

Holy crap. We're on the fourth page and it's only been 3 pages. Why're we giving her so much attention? Any publicity is good publicity.

I believe she got the point.

Hopefully.

[*Statues/Shadows*]

Wait, since when was Emma Sue a nice name?

Anyway, on a more serious note, Michael is amazing.

[magicfann]

jew alert

[jenn_jenny]

Mmmm... yeah. You see, I find it very unlikely that you are popular, Emma Sue.
Infact, you are so incredibly transparent, I can see right through you.
"Don't talk to me again. I hate you. U r so f****** beautiful" ....etc etc.

Haha. Who the hell says that?
No one. You said that.

"U r so f****** beautiful, u r smart,u have the most amazing bohemian style ever, teachers like u, u do good at school, every single boy that meets u thinks u r the cutest and sweetest girl ever. But I hate you!!!!!!!!! Even my parents love u more than they love me. I'm fed up w/ you Emma Sue!!!!Emma Sue!The nicest name!!! I hate you!!!!! U r like England's sweetheart!!!!!!!"
Emma Sue, you are indeed, a skank.

YAH!

the name emma sue somehow reminds me of this countryfolkdude.
I can just picture you on my comp screen. Its very scary.

[Heartless Hero]

for some reason i always find girls who hate girls o.O

they just dont like em cause their too this or too that.

either way, if they left you cause your too perfect

the truth can be:

you might talk about your self or your life way too much

or

their just not truly your friends.

<3

[glitter_jazz09]

If you're really that perfect, how come you don't have a real picture to prove ur claim? Sorry, but what you just said is too hard to believe.

[Something Vague]

Mmmm... yeah. You see, I find it very unlikely that you are popular, Emma Sue.
Infact, you are so incredibly transparent, I can see right through you.
"Don't talk to me again. I hate you. U r so f****** beautiful" ....etc etc.

Haha. Who the hell says that?
No one. You said that.

"U r so f****** beautiful, u r smart,u have the most amazing bohemian style ever, teachers like u, u do good at school, every single boy that meets u thinks u r the cutest and sweetest girl ever. But I hate you!!!!!!!!! Even my parents love u more than they love me. I'm fed up w/ you Emma Sue!!!!Emma Sue!The nicest name!!! I hate you!!!!! U r like England's sweetheart!!!!!!!"
Emma Sue, you are indeed, a skank.

YAH!

the name emma sue somehow reminds me of this countryfolkdude.
I can just picture you on my comp screen. Its very scary.

Hahahaha... nice.

Also, Emma Sue, your spelling is very poor. 'smart'? Are you sure about that?

Anyway, I'm sure your getting off on attention like this. I'll leave it as that. But well done, Emma Sue, you completely made a fool out of yourself.

[*This Confession*]

Okay guys,
I really think she got the point.
And we should just quit messing with her.
She pretty much got some good advice
and then on the other hand got out that shes
"conceited" and somehow a "skank" -_-'

[Stuckie]

I still wanna know how WINTERBERRYxxx came up with the word "skank"

[*This Confession*]

Skank - One who is digustingly foul or filthy and often considered sexually promiscuous.

^yea me too.

[Jeng]

lol uhm......be yourself, who cares if no one likes you...

[iminlovewithTomD...]

hmm, i didn't take the time to read what everybody said, so this might sound similar to what other people have said, but here goes

a few of the things you said kind of reminded me of gretchen weiners, from mean girls... like the "i cant help it if everybody loves me" but that was only bad because it wasn't true. if the majority of people put you up on a pedestal, if you like being there, then stay as you are, and just screw the other people that hate you because people like you

but if you don't like being on a pedestal, don't wear perfect clothes, leave your hair a tiny bit unbrushed, don't wear a lot of(or any, if possible) makeup. make yourself a bit more unattractive... maybe miss a few answers on PURPOSE in school (NOT a lot... just to drop it down like 3-4 points..) if these girls give you sh*t cuz you're dressing down, then just tell them that you were sick of them bitching at you cuz you were "perfect", so you decided to let yourself go a little bit. and if they don't accept it after about a month or two, then go back up to the pedestal, because otherwise it's not worth it.

[Smilessss]

jealousy jealousy jealousy...they're just jealous thats all... just forget them since you have otha friends do you? *n.n* ehh being perfect... isnt a really good thing it culd be a good thing sumtime...but sumtime it just not...yeah has happened to me before but then i changed ALOT this year =)

[*Intoxique*]

Wow.. you sound really cocky and conceited, Emma Sue. I don't think I like you either!

Word.

mm wow.. either your haters are just being retarded orr they actualy have a reason other than your "perfection" that you havent figured out yet, to hate you.

Yeah, that's true. No one is "perfect".
Or if that's not that case, then go make some new friends & stop thinking so high of yourself .

[demolished]

Guys, you can be popular if people dislike you.

because popular people are usually wellknown, talented, and admire by people.

[jenn_jenny]

i wanna see what you really look like.
have any pictures to prove how pretty and beautiful you look?

[*This Confession*]

^ woo hoo
whos going to buy her next

[AngelinaTaylor]

^ woo hoo
whos going to buy her next

Sorry no chance.. I haven't got a spare cent.

Taylor``

[priyas]

even if you took out the "concieted girl" part you're still saying she's concieted by saying she lacked modesty -_-

I was trying to put it in a nice way instead of calling her a conceited bitch.

[TaiintedDesiires]

No offense but you sound like Gretchen in Mean Girls...

[marzipan]

Okay guys,
I really think she got the point.
And we should just quit messing with her.
She pretty much got some good advice
and then on the other hand got out that shes
"conceited" and somehow a "skank" -_-'

seriously. this has been going on for 4 pages. i think we should lay off.

[magicfann]

:O~ no one reply anymore so this thread can sink into the deep dark sea of stupidity that seems to overrun these forums...