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What does it mean?, follow your heart....
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post May 21 2006, 11:33 AM
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alright everyone is telling people to follow their hearts... seriously, what does it mean!!!! explain!!!!!!!!!!
 
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post May 21 2006, 11:38 AM
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It means to well...follow your heart. Go after what feels right, don't try to rationalize overanalyze things all the time like saying to yourself, "it can never work out between us," or "I'll never make it," or "the possibilities are too slim."

Sometimes it's better to go with how you feel than what your brain tells you.
Like when I first slept with my current lover. It was fast and all the signs pointed to no and I was thinking, "He's just going to use me, after this we're not going to see each other again. All he wants is sex, he doesn't want to be with me. He's going to block my screenname and ignore my calls after this," etc etc. But I just when with what felt right and hey, we're still together after almost 8 months <3
 
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post May 21 2006, 11:39 AM
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It means to do what you want to do. To do what you want to do without influence from anybody.

 
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post May 21 2006, 12:51 PM
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do what you think is right.
trust yourself, your gut feeling cause that's usually right.
 
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post May 21 2006, 12:53 PM
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it's like the Mulan song

True to your heart
You must be true to your heart
That's when the heavens will part
And baby shower you with my love
Open your eyes
Your heart can tell you no lies
And when you're true to your heart
I know it's gonna lead you straight to
me
(Got to be true to your heart)
 
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post May 21 2006, 10:56 PM
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QUOTE(priyas @ May 21 2006, 12:39 PM) *
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It means to do what you want to do. To do what you want to do without influence from anybody.




QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ May 21 2006, 1:51 PM) *
do what you think is right.
trust yourself, your gut feeling cause that's usually right.


the problem is that its USUALLY right, and not always right... you don't know what the right thing to do is in every situation... therefore you cannot just follow your heart through every problem you face.

i could, lets say... feel like screwing around with some other girl just becuase shes allover me and shes wicked hot... but does that mean that i should just do what i feel like doing? no, not at all!

QUOTE(Chii @ May 21 2006, 12:38 PM) *
It means to well...follow your heart. Go after what feels right, don't try to rationalize overanalyze things all the time like saying to yourself, "it can never work out between us," or "I'll never make it," or "the possibilities are too slim."

Sometimes it's better to go with how you feel than what your brain tells you.
Like when I first slept with my current lover. It was fast and all the signs pointed to no and I was thinking, "He's just going to use me, after this we're not going to see each other again. All he wants is sex, he doesn't want to be with me. He's going to block my screenname and ignore my calls after this," etc etc. But I just when with what felt right and hey, we're still together after almost 8 months <3


you may have taken a "right" turn, but do you always think that what you feel is the right thing to do... what about people who have an evil heart? what about the people whose hearts tell them to leave the people that care about them, just ebcuase they have taken up everything that is there? like people who leave their girls after they steal their virginities? becuase their heart doesn't tell them that they like them anymore... or how about people who cheta on their spouses becuase their heart says... CMON DO IT FOLLOW YOUR HEART, DON'T THINK ABOUT IT!!!!
 
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post May 21 2006, 11:31 PM
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for me, it means go over every angle and drive myslef crazy happy.gif But thats my way of making sure Ive thought out every possiblity and I usually end up making a good choice because i pick what i felt was the right thing to do.

I guess follow ur heart means to not make decisions so quickly, think things out and if something just doesn't feel quite, right...well, theres something wrong so u need to figure it out and be honest about ur feelings.
 
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post May 25 2006, 09:21 PM
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Do what you want..not what others want.
 
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post May 26 2006, 12:05 AM
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I think it means going with your gut instinct, doing what not your mind, but your body feels most comfortable doing, no matter what others say.
 
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post May 26 2006, 09:21 AM
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QUOTE(ms. independent @ May 26 2006, 1:05 AM) *
I think it means going with your gut instinct, doing what not your mind, but your body feels most comfortable doing, no matter what others say.



yes but is what your body feels most confortable doing always the right thing?
 
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post May 26 2006, 10:10 AM
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No. You have to use your head in situations. Your wisdome does not come from your heart. And I think that expression just involves the emotion or feeling of love or lust or whatnot, so really it all involves your head. You can't go into a situation saying that 'I'm going to follow my heart' when it comes to a relationship. Relationships are, I would say, more trust than love. Yeah, you can love the person, but you might not always trust them. Love is not some magical thing that makes you stay all high on life or gives you butterflies. It's not following your heart either. Screw that phrase. It sucks. I've never used it and I think it's gay. Gay people should be the only ones who use it. Then get AIDS. Haha. I think you'll like that one Josh.
 
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post May 26 2006, 10:21 AM
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Don't worry about every single little thing that could go wrong, to the point where you are just coming up with stuff that would probably never happen. Just go with what you know and do what you want to do, and what you think is right.
 
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post May 26 2006, 10:22 AM
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I concur.
 
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post May 26 2006, 05:34 PM
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agreed!
 
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post May 26 2006, 06:03 PM
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I think it is a lot along of the lines of 'do what you think is right.' Also, to 'go with your gut instinct.'
 
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post May 30 2006, 01:02 PM
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QUOTE(ashopely @ May 26 2006, 7:03 PM) *
I think it is a lot along of the lines of 'do what you think is right.' Also, to 'go with your gut instinct.'


your gut instinct isn't always right
 
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post May 30 2006, 02:18 PM
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Follow your heart means decide out of passion without thinking of the outcome. They say follow your heart, but that could lead to a broken heart. Thats from experience.
 
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post May 30 2006, 02:24 PM
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It's like doing what YOU've always wanted to do. You don't think of anyone/thing else D:
 
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post May 30 2006, 05:55 PM
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like they said..drop what your brain says..do not overanalyze..following your heart is mostly the best route.
 
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post May 30 2006, 06:06 PM
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"listen to your heart...when hes calling for you"

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post May 30 2006, 06:14 PM
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QUOTE(Tribal J_Rome @ May 21 2006, 10:53 AM) *
it's like the Mulan song

True to your heart
You must be true to your heart
That's when the heavens will part
And baby shower you with my love
Open your eyes
Your heart can tell you no lies
And when you're true to your heart
I know it's gonna lead you straight to
me
(Got to be true to your heart)


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post May 30 2006, 08:28 PM
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QUOTE(priyas @ May 21 2006, 11:39 AM) *
It means to do what you want to do. To do what you want to do without influence from anybody.
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Precisely.

No cliches here. No sappy quotes. Listening to your heart is not the same as listening to your head. It's following your emotional instincts, not your "logical" instincts.
 
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post May 30 2006, 09:21 PM
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well this is just me:

but it means follow what your heart feels is the right path.

your mind looks at things in every angle to see what it can do.

when you follow your heart, theres no second thoughts.

its like in movies, run for that girl you love before she leaves, thats following your heart

and then it can be like dont follow her! she has STD's! thats wut your mind would say XD

sorry for the weird reply just in a rush :D
 

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