Help! I girl made my life a nightmare!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!, ..........please guys help me!!!!!!!!& Options

[Emma Sue]

[font=Comic Sans Ms] Hi guys!
i'm new but i need lots of help!!!!

My bf Ralph is absolutely fantastic!!!I mean he's so mature and cute and sweet and funny. H e makes me wanna hug him all the time!!He's the nicest boy I've ever met (except my 3 brothers, of course!). We had been friends and although i knew he had a crush on me i wouldn't make the1st move so he invited me to his house and as we were watching a movie. He started cuddling me and telling me that he likes me so much and that he thinks i'm the most beautiful and sweet girl he's ever met and then eventually we kissed and since then, u know we are all the time together and he's just soooo sweet. He's two years older than me-he's 17 im 15 and - and he's great!!!
2 days ago we were out and as we were walking we saw some of his friends. He left me 4 some minutes w/ them and when he came back he gave me roses he had just bought All his friends were happy to meet me but a girl was not.

The next day,Helen(the girl) came to my house and we talked. And she told me that she loves Ralph but he never liked her and now she can't understand why he likes me coz she believes im just very beautiful but im not as clever and mature as she is. And then she told me that Ralph talks all the time about me and about how sweet and cute I am and she wants him 4 herself.

And she told me to break up w/ him and tell him idon't love him anymore otherwise she will tell to her father(her father is a policeman) that Ralph sexually abused her and hit her and then Ralph will be in a big trouble. She also told me that if I tell him, she will tell him that she caught me cheating on him and she will also persuade three other girls that like him to say the same thing so he will never believe me.

I don't know what to do. I mean yesterday Ralph told me that he truly loves me and I love him too. If break up w/ him, i'm sure he'll be dead dpressed and sad and he will soon hate me. I remember my brother Aaron when he lost his girlfriend, he was crying all day and it took him more than three months to forget her. I don't want to hurt Ralph i love him very much and of course i will never forget him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm very depressed! Guys help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THANX!

[typh-a-knee]

wtf don't listen to that jealous skank
it's not your fault he likes you.
tell her to step her game up.

[Emma Sue]

I wouldn't listen to her but I don't want to get Ralphie in trouble.. If he gets to prison or sth like that.. Omg, i don't wanna think about it!!!!! And if they tell him i'm cheating on him, omg he will be so hurt, he will hate me....Help!

Ralph tells me all the day "i love u" and i love him so much. I'm so depressed.

[Emma Sue]

[*incoherent*]

please dont double post

anyway, if she can persuade her friends things like that, it doesnt matter if they hate you. you can't get along with everyone, but if she tells her dad that, that is stepping outside the line and stooping really low. perhaps talking to her dad about it or something? i'm sure you have other friends and if people you just met don't like you, thats their problem and you can move on.

[silverwingz]

wouldn't it be better if you told your bf??

[gelionie]

Gosh. That girl is just being jealous.
She's the immature one.

If your boyfriend really loves you, he won't listen to those rumours spread by the other girls. And that girl can't accuse your boyfriend of anything because there IS justice.

Don't be intimidated by her. Stand strong to her. She'll feel defeated if you simply ignore her.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

Just tell him what's going on, and tell hi meverything the girl is saying she will do. Tell her father that she is planning on saying these things. If she would land him in jail for sexual abuse she doesnt lvoe him. She's a stupid immature girl and you shouldnt let her control you. Tell him whats going on, and tell her dad. Or file a police report as well for harassment.

[*mipadi*]

Oh, psh. Tell her to bugger off. Don't take her seriously. A person can't be charged on the testimony of one person without any evidence.

[*This Confession*]

you need to go talk to Ralph and tell him what all that girl said..

Shes just jealous
and i wouldn't take it to seriously
but i would still tell Ralph
you shouldn't break up with someone
just because one person told you to do it.

[_sarcastic_]

tell ralph everything, so he'll know what's going to happen
i agree with mipadi, i don't think he'll be charged since there's not going to be any evidence.
she's just immature, and jealous, ignore her don't listen to her

[priyas]

Just tell Ralph.

Talk to that jealous bitch. Tell her to back off.

[anoniez]

tell your bf what she said, tell her father, etc. make sure that she cant fool anyone into thinking what shes gonna say is true. dont you dare break up with him just cuz some girl is jealous
i mean, even if you broke up with him why would he go out with her anyway?

[PrincessAda]

Talk to Ralph.That girl is immature.

[misoshiru]

Tell him everything, from what she said of her going to accuse him of sexual harassment to the fact that she's going to tell him that you cheated on him. And the both of you should go talk to her dad to make things clear.

[Paradox of Life]

Um .. that girl that is trying to make you break up with Ralph is psychotic.

What I suggest you do is just tell Ralph about the problem, and DO NOT INTERACT WITH THIS GIRL. Just ignore her completely. Being scared of her (and showing it) telling her father will only give her more incentive to do it. If you don't give her a reaction, the conflict will probably just fizzle out.

If things are really bad, you may want to consider telling a trustworthy and responsible adult because falsely accusing someone to the police is slander which is against the law.

[CrazayChristian]

all is fair in love in war


But doesn't mean she's one clever bitch

[imm]

Even if she tells her dad, she won't have proof your beau harassed her. Even if she tells those other girls to tell him that crap, you guys should have enough trust in each other. So carry on with your life, don't pay attention to stupid whores like these. =) Trust me, I know fasho. I hope things work out!

[absinthe]

HA! what a bitch, i'd have bitch slapped her right there and then thrown her to the dogs. First off, do you even know for sure if he 'sexually harassed' her? If she's the bitch i think she is, then she's just spewing. Second of all, tell him whats up. Ask him about that girl. Put thing out in the open. You really don't need to handle this yourself. Tell him the girl came to your house, what you talked about, what she threatened to do, and then tell him how you're going to handle to clear up any misunderstandings inthe future. If he has faith in you, which is important in a relationship, things will work out.

[seremela_culnamo]

Tell her to smarten up, especially when she believes she's the clever and mature one. First off, she's not clever because if she really likes Ralph, she wouldn't run off squealing to her father about being abused by her. && why would he abuse her when they were never together? Lastly, this is by far one of the most idiotic stories I have ever heard. She's completely obsessed over him, but she doesn't think of the consequences, or how it will feel if she was in your shoes and another girl was doing this to her.

You should tell Ralph about this. He needs to know and that way, if anything does happen, he will be prepared to defend himself. & telling him means you're a loyal girlfriend =)

Gosh, I want to slap the desperate tramp.

[xmoon_lightx]

she doesnt have any proof in order for him to get in trouble she must have proof.
*that slut *