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 May 11 2006, 10:07 PM
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 for you,i will<3  Group: Member Posts: 37 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 398,267  |
okay..
i get jealous when he talks to other girls and I know their "just friends" but i always feel jealous.. i understand space and stuff. it really bothers me though how can i overcome it? 
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May 11 2006, 10:21 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
Well, you should probably out yourself in his shoes. How would you feel if you were talking to a guy you're just friends with and your boyfriend flips out or gets insanely jealous? Wouldn't you be frustrated that he's getting all worked up over something so innocent?
Jealousy causes unnecessary drama and rifts in your relationship if he's your boyfriend. In relationships, you need to have trust in one another. If you don't trust him, what's the point? Plus, if he gave you the title of his girlfriend, that means something. He's with you and chose you over the other girls. Those other girls aren't important enough to have the girlfriend title. If he's just a crush or just someone you're dating nonexclusively then you really don't have any right to be jealous because the relationship isn't serious. Moved to Relationships. |
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May 11 2006, 10:53 PM
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I was having this same exact problem...until I read Chii's post! Miraculous. =)
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| *My Cinderella.* |
May 11 2006, 11:26 PM
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Its already in your character. Don't worry, I'm a jealous person as well. Well the first way you over come it. I agree with Chii though, think of a time where you'd like to hang out with YOUR guy friends sometime. Would you want your boyfriend to get suspicious over them?
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| *This Confession* |
May 12 2006, 12:55 AM
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Could just be a part of your personality.
I use to be a very jealous person but I also had trust issues as well. I'm not saying you have a trust issue though, but there isn't a way to overcome it unless you really want to. and if you want to then you wouldn't be worried. You should be happy your with him, and hes yours. and no one elses and can't be. Although hmm, google helps i guess http://www.buzzle.com/editorials/10-28-2005-80092.asp |
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| *My Cinderella.* |
May 12 2006, 06:27 AM
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Another good way is what This Confession said. It maybe that you're insecure about yourself or you have trouble trusting your boyfriend. So be positive, and know that nothing's going to happen between them and that he only has eyes for you.
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| *Uronacid* |
May 12 2006, 09:13 AM
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I get jealous all the time... here's how i do it:
talk about it! tell your boyfriend you're jealous, tell him you know you're being obnoxious... tell him why your being jealous, and why you're worried when he hangs out with his friends. I know i get jealous when guys talk about my sunshines awsome female figure >:|... i get like, " hey, thats mine!".. but really i shoudln't worry about it... :P... i just tell her all about it. she understands me, and doesnt let it get to her.... thank god XD... eventually you and you rboyfriend will smooth out your insecurities :) but only if you talk about it... :) just make sure h doesnt stop hanging out with those friends becuase you feel jealous.... that will make you feel bad, like your taking something away from him that he will miss. erf... just talk to him about it |
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May 12 2006, 10:49 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 844 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 362,677 |
Chii said it very well.
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May 13 2006, 06:52 AM
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As stated before, put yourself in his shoes. You have to think in the mindstate of a boy or man. And try to imagine what he's thinking when a girl gets suspicious. Usually guys would be like "What the f**k, I'm pissed." Yadda yadda. You wouldn't want your boyfriend being all iffy with you. |
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May 13 2006, 04:24 PM
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 young enough to not give a f*ck Group: Member Posts: 1,149 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,060 |
jealousy is a monster.
=| i get jealous over stupid stuff. but i agree with them ^^ |
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May 13 2006, 11:22 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
Try to talk to him about trust and honesty and stuff.
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May 14 2006, 01:18 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 71 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 406,332 |
I'm jealous at this moment. My girlfriend is at some birthday party at some hotel. This guy that use to like her took her there and I'm pretty pissed. I called her a few and times and yell (I know it's wrong) and stuff. Everytime I see her talking and laughing with guys, I get this feeling.
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May 14 2006, 08:11 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 405,463 |
Dont you do that to him?
 Try to get to know his friends better 
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