Do you think sex is overrated? |
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 May 6 2006, 10:40 PM
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Alright folks. This is a good topic. I'm going to seem like a really big soft guy when I say this, but I think sex is overrated. It's not really that great if it's constant. I'd like sex to happen with at least a few months of a break. Unless, I'm feeling stressed. |
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May 6 2006, 10:41 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
I don't think it's overrated if you are with a person who you love and who loves you.
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May 6 2006, 10:48 PM
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Well, if being deeply in love is the case, then I'd say not. But if it was constant. It's definetly overrated. I know someone people that have sex almost every day and they don't get tired of it. I don't see how they do it. |
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May 6 2006, 10:53 PM
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QUOTE(YourPrettyFaceIsGoingToHELL @ May 6 2006, 10:48 PM)  Well, if being deeply in love is the case, then I'd say not. But if it was constant. It's definetly overrated. I know someone people that have sex almost every day and they don't get tired of it. I don't see how they do it. it's not overrated by far. |
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May 6 2006, 10:53 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
That's because when the sex is good, you don't tire. You want more.
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| *RiC3xBoy* |
May 6 2006, 10:59 PM
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No.
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May 6 2006, 11:21 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
yeah. sex aint THAT great. popsicles are better.
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May 7 2006, 01:15 AM
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Have not had sex yet.
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May 7 2006, 01:28 AM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(Rachel is love @ May 6 2006, 11:53 PM) That's because when the sex is good, you don't tire. You want more. I agree. I don't think it's overrated. I was talking to some guys in class the other day. They assumed that I was a virgin and told me that sex was overrated and that I wasn't missing much. I laughed at them and said, "Maybe it's overrated for you two." The sex with my lover is very good and I never tire from it...but then again it's only one day a week, multiple times but nonetheless, one day. I used to have sex everyday with my ex but it was horrible to begin with so I thought it was overrated then. I guess you just have to find a good partner. |
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May 7 2006, 10:32 AM
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I don't know! Maybe I have had bad partners and that's why I think it's overrated. |
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May 7 2006, 12:33 PM
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ive never had sex
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May 7 2006, 12:39 PM
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never had sex
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May 7 2006, 06:12 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
^Then why answer.
And Chii, I think that is true. Really, I never thought I'd be into sex and though it was overrated. Then, when I was in deep/real/whatever love, it was perfect. I didn't care when or where, if we were sober or drunk, I just always loved it. It was a connection and I knew we were both getting pleasure. Sure, sometimes weren't that great, but I would never say that sex is overrated. |
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May 7 2006, 06:23 PM
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no not at all
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| *Uronacid* |
May 7 2006, 07:16 PM
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no, i think sex is f**kin sweebish... LETS TALK ABOUT SEX BABY, LETS TALK ABOUT YOU AND ME, LETS TALK ABOUT ALL THE GOOD THINGS AND THE BAD THINGS THAT MAY BE.... lets talk about sex dadadadadadda....
alirght tho seriously, i think sex is awsome just as long as your doing it with someone you care about ;) Wisdom from jeremy: where a hat you don't want any kids... becuase they suck |
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May 7 2006, 07:36 PM
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i dont know about you guys. lol but if you do it right it is awesome. lol ahahah.
YAY MY THOUSANDTH POST. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 |
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May 7 2006, 07:41 PM
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QUOTE(Uronacid @ May 7 2006, 8:16 PM) no, i think sex is f**kin sweebish... LETS TALK ABOUT SEX BABY, LETS TALK ABOUT YOU AND ME, LETS TALK ABOUT ALL THE GOOD THINGS AND THE BAD THINGS THAT MAY BE.... lets talk about sex dadadadadadda.... alirght tho seriously, i think sex is awsome just as long as your doing it with someone you care about ;) Wisdom from jeremy: where a hat you don't want any kids... becuase they suck Of course. Don't be silly, wrap willy. Don't be a fool, wrap your tool. |
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May 7 2006, 07:43 PM
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Its good. Or i wouldnt be here right now.
 I've never had it. If i was in a greater that a year relationship, i would have it. |
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May 8 2006, 12:57 PM
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Nahhhh you kids just ain't doin it right!
Just kidding. Psychologically, nothing beats sex to make you and your partner more comfortable/lovey dovey with each other. If, of course, that's what you guys had in mind. Physically, it's okay. =) |
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May 8 2006, 08:34 PM
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it depends. for the people who say, oh i need sex every week or i go crazy, then i would say it is over rated because they are just trying to boost their rep. but as for me and my boyfriend. sex is just between us. we may seem like rabbits to some people, but its not because we feel as if its necessary it just the way we are. i love having that intimacy with him. even if its in the oddest of places...i dont think i could ever tire of it
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May 8 2006, 10:10 PM
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QUOTE(YourPrettyFaceIsGoingToHELL @ May 7 2006, 8:41 PM) Of course. Don't be silly, wrap willy. Don't be a fool, wrap your tool. omg thats a good quote!!! i like it!!!! |
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May 8 2006, 10:37 PM
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^^
Hahaha, thanks. |
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May 8 2006, 10:43 PM
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There is nothing overrated about sex. U just suck. Kidding. But seriously, its supposed to be the most intimate passionate experience we have. It clicks the happy hormones in your brain. Its supposed to be the end all be all sign of love and affection. If you aint feelin that, thats why you think its overrated. Because you arent sharing that connection and the best sex is with someone u love, and sometimes (i've heard) a one night stand, but for totally different reasons. (you know that whole be and animal cuz they dont know ur name and will never see you again) But yeah. Reconsider who youre tusslin with.
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May 8 2006, 10:45 PM
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QUOTE(starlette @ May 8 2006, 11:43 PM) There is nothing overrated about sex. U just suck. Kidding. But seriously, its supposed to be the most intimate passionate experience we have. It clicks the happy hormones in your brain. Its supposed to be the end all be all sign of love and affection. If you aint feelin that, thats why you think its overrated. Because you arent sharing that connection and the best sex is with someone u love, and sometimes (i've heard) a one night stand, but for totally different reasons. (you know that whole be and animal cuz they dont know ur name and will never see you again) But yeah. Reconsider who youre tusslin with. well, i agree with you exept for the one night stand thing.... i did that... its not true |
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May 8 2006, 11:00 PM
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RAWR. Group: Member Posts: 2,585 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,641 |
QUOTE(Uronacid @ May 8 2006, 10:45 PM) well, i agree with you exept for the one night stand thing.... i did that... its not true haha well in all honesty I really wouldnt know, but I have a friend who swears by them. But shes also a really big girl so its probably a low self esteem thing too. |
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May 9 2006, 12:49 PM
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QUOTE(starlette @ May 9 2006, 12:00 AM) haha well in all honesty I really wouldnt know, but I have a friend who swears by them. But shes also a really big girl so its probably a low self esteem thing too. right ;) i gotcha, she prolly thinks one-night stands rule becuase she doesnt have to worry about what they think aftwards ;) |
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May 10 2006, 09:07 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
No.I don`t think so.
P.S I`m a virgin so I don`t know.. |
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May 10 2006, 11:10 PM
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Yes.
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May 11 2006, 11:41 AM
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QUOTE Some say that sex is overrated, but they just aint doin it right - Ludacris Truer words have never been spoken. You think its overrated cuz you probably dont know what your doing. I'm not saying im Mr. Fantastic, but my ex never had any complaints. 
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May 11 2006, 01:48 PM
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Depends?
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May 11 2006, 02:04 PM
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 When the sun sleeps. Group: Member Posts: 532 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,628 |
I dont need it in a relationship.
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May 11 2006, 02:32 PM
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nope...it can be spectacular or it can be crappy...depends on the person.
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May 11 2006, 02:34 PM
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QUOTE(aznxdreamer @ May 7 2006, 12:21 AM) yeah. sex aint THAT great. popsicles are better. HAHAHA! What do you do with popsicles that supercedes the bliss of passionate sex? |
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May 12 2006, 02:09 AM
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.. i had to come back and explian my answer better
because someone got on my case about it I find sex to be over rated in some ways and i don't in others. I do find it to be over rated when people just do it because other people are doing it. Just for like brownie points and not have any emotional attachment what so ever. rather annoying.. and I don't find it to be over rated because I mean if your trying to have a kid or something then it can't be over rated and if you love the person and your doing it for the right reasons and you've talked about it and such and know the responsibilties of having sex then i don't find it over rated.. i think i could have explained that better but its 3 am.. |
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May 12 2006, 09:17 AM
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lol!, i wasn't talking about this post or any post in particular...
CHEATER :) |
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May 12 2006, 01:17 PM
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Though I never had it.
Hoyes it is. 
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May 13 2006, 12:38 PM
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In the wise words of Ludacris.
"Some say that sex is overrated but they just ain't doin it right!" 
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May 13 2006, 01:32 PM
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I have never had sex but!
It should be not be overrated because if you the the person then nope. |
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May 13 2006, 01:47 PM
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I've never had sex before.
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May 14 2006, 02:24 PM
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Mmm. Depends. For those school boys that can't get any, they thrive on the idea of sex and hence have the hugest collection of porn and etc. Overrated.
For those who have a healthy sex life, why should it be overrated? Its a part of life. :D |
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May 27 2006, 07:40 PM
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I think it's a wonderful thing if you're doing it right, with the right person. Not necessarily with "the one" or your soulmate or anything, though knowing that person actually is "the one" certainly wouldn't hurt the situation, but nevertheless someone you trust completely and won't regret anything after it's already happened.
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May 28 2006, 11:17 AM
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Well...
I'm going to have to disagree with most of you. I think sex is overrated. We all know, or atleast alot of us, should know that a majority of guys do make sex overrated. I mean that'swhat they talk about. We talk about clothes and fashion and boys. Guys talk about sex and pulling girls. Don't get me wrong. Not all guys are like this. But I do wish decent guys were easier to find. |
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May 31 2006, 08:26 PM
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N0.
I L0VE SEX. iT iS THE BEST THiNG SiNCE SLiCED BREAD.!!!! W00P W00P.SEX iS G00D iF Y0UR D0iNG iT WiTH S0ME0NE Y0U L0VE...
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Jun 2 2006, 03:19 AM
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I think it is even if sex with my partner is GREAT! But mainly I think it's overrated because a lot of my friends make a big deal out of it. Like its the BEST thing in the WORLD. Like nothing can top it EVER. I dont think that's true. Sure sex is healthy & good for you & releases all these chemicals that do all these good things, but its not the BEST thing in the WORLD.
Then again, I've had some shitty partners until now, so that could be part of my reason too. But mostly because I'm so tired of hearing my friends complain about how they dont get sex! Go masturbate & quit complaining!  Its really not that serious!
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Jun 3 2006, 11:05 PM
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no "Some say that sex is overated but thats cause they aint doin it rite" Ludacris
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Jun 4 2006, 02:18 PM
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QUOTE(RiC3xBoy @ May 6 2006, 10:59 PM) No. ROFL.. yeah I know they have tons of flavors and come in all sizes |
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Jun 5 2006, 01:44 AM
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I've never had sex.:}
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Jun 9 2006, 02:42 PM
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No way is it overrated. LOL An old friend used to tell me, "Even bad sex is still... pretty good."
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Jun 9 2006, 04:10 PM
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QUOTE(Rachel is love @ May 7 2006, 7:12 PM) ^Then why answer. And Chii, I think that is true. Really, I never thought I'd be into sex and though it was overrated. Then, when I was in deep/real/whatever love, it was perfect. I didn't care when or where, if we were sober or drunk, I just always loved it. It was a connection and I knew we were both getting pleasure. Sure, sometimes weren't that great, but I would never say that sex is overrated. I agree with her |
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Jun 26 2006, 05:35 PM
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not at all, if it's good.
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Jun 26 2006, 06:23 PM
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QUOTE I don't think it's overrated if you are with a person who you love and who loves you. yeah as long as it doesn't become a chore |
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Jul 5 2006, 05:38 PM
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 worship me or i'll stab you Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,634 |
yeah..the person above me is right
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Jul 7 2006, 06:41 AM
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I spose it depends at the time of how you feel like it's goin to be overrated if your not ready and I spose for a girl if its there first time but if you were having sex all the time you would enjoy it...but I think it all falls down to on How you feel as a person and also how much you trust and love the person you are having sex with...having sex with a stranger would make you feel like sex is overrated unless your a Sl*t and you love sex and would fuk anyone lol but yer It all depends on who you are having sex with!!
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Jul 7 2006, 07:18 PM
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like the others said...it depends.. i have guy friends who use sex to measure their coolness level... its what sex represents to them..their coolness/manliness - if theyre getting any.. and it boosts their self esteem if they get some.. like the other time my guy friend was like.. oh yeah..so and so gets alot..so hes up here ..and so and so..i think he gets alot too..so he's here ..and me.. i dont get any...and he made a hand gesture putting himself at the very bottom of the ladder
i think sex is overrated in the way that guys talk about/use it to mean - as a sign of coolness/popularity b/c thats not what sex was supposed to be about in the first place but then there r a few of my guy friends who are actually waiting for the right person/when they get married which is pretty amazing considering one of the guys hangs around the most sexually active crowd in my school and he has done everything except for sex but sex isnt overrated if youre doing it for the right reasons and not just to boost ur reputation |
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Jul 9 2006, 03:08 PM
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Personally I think it's a personal descion. I am for it if you both love each other but if that isn't what you want and you think it is overrated then you don't have to take part in it. Just don't give people who are active and grief, like I said it's your choice.
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Jul 10 2006, 11:06 PM
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I like.. the more romantic sex. IDK why.. =D Well I don't think it's overrated. But if you're doing it for no reason 24/7 just for the f**k of it.. maybe it is.
Depends on who it's with. |
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Jul 11 2006, 01:20 AM
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i don't think it's overrated, considering I have the right person now
maybe a year or two ago, i would have thought it was |
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