how can u tell when...., things move past being "just friends" Options

[SpedMonkee]

How can you tell when one of your friends starts to think of you as more than "just" a friend?
Is there a certain way to tell?

[BryMonster]

Usually, they'd feel more comfortable
with you. And not to mention they
would flirt an entire bunch with you.
If you have a suspicion, just to make
sure your gut feeling doesn't fail you,
have someone ask him/her..but don't make
it seem so suspicious.

[oXMuhNirvanaXo]

^ I agree 100%


They get so comfortable around you.

[xCrys]

^ Not always, sometimes they might start to seperate themselves from you, because they might be afraid to lose you as a friend. But otherwise I pretty much agree with whats been said...

[SarahxJoy]

If they ask you suspisciously if there's anyone you have your eye on..that's usually a telltale sign that they like you.

[*This Confession*]

^ Not always, sometimes they might start to seperate themselves from you, because they might be afraid to lose you as a friend. But otherwise I pretty much agree with whats been said...

^agree.

really instead of just guessing
why won't you just be completely open about it
and just ask.
if your that good of friends..

[-sincerely]

There's different ways to tell for different people, I believe.

[SpedMonkee]

^agree.

really instead of just guessing
why won't you just be completely open about it
and just ask.
if your that good of friends..

''just'' ask. u make it sound so easy lol.

because i somewhat have a feeling she doesnt like me that way, but thats more of my brain thinking things out too much and focusing on negatives alot...


what should i say when i ''just ask''?

[*This Confession*]

''just'' ask. u make it sound so easy lol.

because i somewhat have a feeling she doesnt like me that way, but thats more of my brain thinking things out too much and focusing on negatives alot...
what should i say when i ''just ask''?

start talking to her and just come up with it eventually
build up the confidence and do it
and don't get embarressed or nervous.

I mean if she doesn't like you in the end
then you should be happy you asked
instead of asking all of us and guessing

[SpedMonkee]

I mean if she doesn't like you in the end
then you should be happy you asked
instead of asking all of us and guessing

you mean CB doesnt know everything?!
lol. thanks

[*mipadi*]

Go with your gut. It'll tell you.

[colleen92]

it depends on the person. if someone likes you, sometimes the person will hang out with you a lot more, but other times they get really shy around you or even avoid you. sometimes it can be really hard to tell.

if you really want to know, get one of their friends to ask them for you. (preferably someone that's friends with you and with the person you want to know about)

[*My Cinderella.*]

Different people crush different ways. Some may become rather shy and try to not look stupid or try to impress you. Some may shower you with attention more than they have before.

[imm]

Girls will sometimes subconsciously do little things when they see you, like tuck their hair behind their ears, take their hands out of sweatshirt pockets (if they're wearing one), etc. They're just unnoticable things unless of course you look for them.

But all girls are different. Do what ya gotta do. Wish you luck.

[*Uronacid*]

no way, theres no real way to tell... you should just drop the quesiton and be firm about it if you dont like them in that wya justs o you dont lead them on... thats what i do... i lead someone on once by a mistake... and i regretted not telling them the way i felt afterward, it relaly hurt their feelings

[alcohol_bandages]

Usually, they'd feel more comfortable
with you. And not to mention they
would flirt an entire bunch with you.
If you have a suspicion, just to make
sure your gut feeling doesn't fail you,
have someone ask him/her..but don't make
it seem so suspicious.

I agree

[Gigi]

Usually, it's if a) they're very comfortable around you, or b) they become suddenly shy. The trouble with a), though, is that you can never be sure if you guys are just good friends or if there really is something more. With b), they can become really self-conscious around you, nervous, or unsure of what to say - probably because they're so in love with you. Haha.

[PrincessAda]

^^Aggh I agree.

[SpedMonkee]

it just sort of seems more and more that chances are she doesnt feel the same way.. i wish i knew for sure, but i just cant get up the friggen courage to say anything to her about it...

i can talk about doing these things, and giving advice to people, but then when it comes to be my turn i just cant seem to get anything done.


and i also feel like such a friggen idiot because of something i said ( but rather more what i didnt say) to her her yesterday. she got a bit of a sunburn and said something like ''now my face is peeling, and is uglier than before''
all i could reply with was ''what was wrong with it before?''
instead of saying something like it, ''there could never be anything wrong with your face'' or ''you could never look ugly'' or something, i come out with ''what was wrong with it before''.... i feel like such a griggen idiot

[*Hinata*]

You get really close to the person (or vice versa)... That was how it was with a friend of mine.

[killuh katy]

you will just.
know.


there isnt really away to tell.
you will feel it.

[SimplicityGirl]

Sounds like something I'm going through right now. This guy and I have been getting really close...and I'm pretty sure he likes me. I like him too. We hug, does *hug*on MSN, hangs out alone, link arms, and we've held hands before. We talk to each other a lot and we hang out alone together a lot. Basically, you will feel it. They will let you in their personal bubble space, and they will share personal things with you. For example, the guy tells me all about the games that he plays and he gets me to play them. He tries to to get stuff that I like. You just..can feel it. They'll be a whole lot nicer to you. You'll feel closer + more comfortable around them.

If you suspect/feel that they like you more than a friend, chances are, they do.

[xmoon_lightx]

When they call you for the smallest reasons