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 May 4 2006, 05:09 PM
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is it stupid that my mom is making me buy something for my boyfriends little brothers confirmation?
i personally think its dumb, but my mom is INSISTING its the right thing to do and its not normal to not get anything. |
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May 4 2006, 05:34 PM
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nah
well im sure it is in some ways.. but it will be nice and cute just do what she says.. as some say mothers know best.. although i dont' exactly agree. but what ever. |
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May 4 2006, 05:41 PM
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No, I dont think so.
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May 4 2006, 05:42 PM
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I don't think its stupid. If you and your boyfriend are serrious I think it would be cute, sweet, and thoughtful.
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May 4 2006, 06:16 PM
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 Diana =] Group: Member Posts: 1,318 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,147 |
Nah, just get a lil gift for him. It would be cute.
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May 4 2006, 06:18 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
Nope.I think it`ll be sweet.
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May 4 2006, 07:28 PM
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 sweetest sin... Group: Member Posts: 502 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,920 |
na it's acutally kind of cool, but sometimes parents can really get on our nerves..lol
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May 4 2006, 07:47 PM
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If you are attending the confirmation than yes, if not only if you feel like it.
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May 4 2006, 07:47 PM
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it's always good if you're nice to his family.
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May 4 2006, 07:50 PM
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 i think you're stupid. Group: Member Posts: 608 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,203 |
no i think it shows that you respect his family as well as him. my friend bought a present for her boyfriend's mom's birthday. i think his family will think a lot of you for buying his brother a present.
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May 4 2006, 07:52 PM
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 peace&love, earth flower Group: Member Posts: 651 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 398,938 |
Nah, I think it's the corteous thing to do, even if you don't know him that well.
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May 4 2006, 08:22 PM
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 × Dead as Dillinger. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615 |
I don't really think it is, because it would show that you care about your boyfriend's family too.
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May 4 2006, 08:31 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 3,459 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 328,021 |
I think it's a good idea.
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May 4 2006, 08:53 PM
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× Dead as Dillinger. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615 |
I guess it depends on how well you know your boyfriend's little brother. In my case, I don't know my boyfriend's little bro that much at all. We don't talk or joke around or anything. So yeah, it'd be weird for me to buy him a gift, but if everyone else was doing it and it was a really special occassion, of course I'd do it.
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May 4 2006, 10:17 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
I personally think it's a very cute idea.
Get him something small and fun. Maybe something edible lol. I mean it's probably the considerate/nice thing to do. It can't hurt either. I'd try it. |
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May 5 2006, 03:23 PM
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 mac & zee. Group: Member Posts: 243 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 376,265 |
I don't think she should make you buy it. It's a nice suggestion, though.
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May 5 2006, 03:41 PM
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I don't think it's stupid. It's a good idea, and it's very sweet.
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May 5 2006, 04:29 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
I think it's stupid that she has to make you do that. Isn't your boyfriend's family important to you? I'm sure his confirmation is important and etc, so it'd be nice if you gave him a gift. You and your boyfriend can both get him something so it's not overly awkward if you don't speak or anything.
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May 5 2006, 05:37 PM
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QUOTE(Chii @ May 5 2006, 4:29 PM)  I think it's stupid that she has to make you do that. Isn't your boyfriend's family important to you? I'm sure his confirmation is important and etc, so it'd be nice if you gave him a gift. You and your boyfriend can both get him something so it's not overly awkward if you don't speak or anything. i agree. if you want to have a good, long relationship with your boyfriend it'd be nice to have a good relationship with his family. you don't have to buy something extravagent. just sweet and simple. |
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May 5 2006, 05:41 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
i dont think so. it owuld be nice of you. my brothers gf gets me gifts and stuff and its very sweet.
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May 5 2006, 05:52 PM
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 When the sun sleeps. Group: Member Posts: 532 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,628 |
That is a good idea haha. Ur mom just wnats you to get close to the family..i think?
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May 5 2006, 07:38 PM
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I agree with all the "No I don't think it's stupid" comments, because I don't, and mostly for the reasons said above. It'd be cute ^^;
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