Figuring him out Options

[ChEeR A HOliC Xo]

I need your guy's help/advice with figuring this one boy out. We work together, and we're really good friends. I've however started liking him last year, and told myself that I can't like him he has a gf, and that's just the way it's going to be. Although he did flirt with me when he had a gf, to be honest I was shocked when I found out he was with someone.

Whenever we see each other he will always like bump into me or do something to get my attention, he pick's on me, and always find's a way to get me to laugh. Although over this winter I started not to like him, who he was. He's not very responsible, and just doesn’t care. He mention's girl's a lot, and talk's about how "hot" he wishes they were. And a part of me get's really hurt because it just put's me to shame I guess. He's 2 years's older than me, and we’re really opposites. I have morals and respect for myself; he is just looking for a good time, and always up to trying something new. But now things are different. He's single, and mentioned to me about likening/hanging out with a girl close to being my age. This can be good for me because at least I know he does date younger. He is doing different stuff this year. He's flirting a lot more, and even inviting me out to hang out with him and some of his friends. However he still has some of his old habits. I'm trying not to like him, because I can't figure him out, but when he's not around, I really miss him.

How do you think his feelings are towards myself, I don't want to be the one again this year, missing out on another relationship because of him.

[Paradox of Life]

Firstly, you can not deny your feelings for someone. If you like someone, you like someone. The only thing you can do is just be friends with him for the moment, but don't hang out with him too much. Focus on other things and eventually your infatuation with him will begin to wear off.

[littledreamer_x]

Firstly, you can not deny your feelings for someone. If you like someone, you like someone. The only thing you can do is just be friends with him for the moment, but don't hang out with him too much. Focus on other things and eventually your infatuation with him will begin to wear off.

I agree.

[ChEeR A HOliC Xo]

I do enjoy being his friend, but alway's wanted more. But the more I get to know him, the more I sort of disagree with his decisions. Only now he's flirting, more than last summer, which I don't get or come to understand. I try to be impressive, but stand up for stuff I believe in which might turn him off.

I just don't know if what he is doing is concidered flirting or being friendly to be it is, because most guy's don't usually do that to a girl without liking them, but then again he could just be friendly?

[Chii]

It's a good sign that he wants you to hang out with him and his friends. If his friends are good people and you leave a good impression, you'll have a very good chance with him.

Accept his invitations and try to get chummy with his friends. When you admit to him that you like him, he'll consult his friends and they'll tell him to go for it with you.