from tomboy to girly girl..need help! |
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 Apr 28 2006, 05:07 PM
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 Ruby Anne <3  Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 392,417  |
My friend is coming over tomorrow and wants me to help her be more girlie so that guys will ask her out or whatever...does anybody have any tips or links on how to become more of a girlie girl???
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Apr 28 2006, 05:21 PM
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talk about fashion. like the mall. wear skirts.
be REALLY hyper and peppy. and preppy. but if she wants guys to ask her out, then she should just act like herself. not someone else. i think this should belong in relationships though. or at least the girl's locker. |
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Apr 28 2006, 05:24 PM
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 Day's Nearly Over Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 |
Yeah. She totally should just be herself. Besides, guys aren't always attracted to girlie girls.
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Apr 28 2006, 05:25 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 3,459 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 328,021 |
^ That's what I was thinking. Don't make her try to be someone she's not, or it'll make it worse. Besides, I don't see anything wrong at all with being a tomboy. She'll find the right guy if she acts like herself- she can't just snap her fingers *shazam!*
 and be girly.
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| *This Confession* |
Apr 28 2006, 06:14 PM
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she should really be herself.
originality is the bestttt.  but still if you want some advice go find a "prep" hahah. blingo it. http://www.blingo.com |
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Apr 28 2006, 07:14 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Eyeliner.
Reeeeeeeeally pink lip gloss. Nail/Toenail polish. Short skirts cute shoes |
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Apr 28 2006, 07:16 PM
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 Krista. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,380 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,319 |
yeah, she shouldn't pretend to be something she's not. not all guys like girly-girls.
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Apr 28 2006, 08:05 PM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
She should just be herself.
here is some tips: Mini Skirt Lip Gloss Cute tops. |
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Apr 28 2006, 08:27 PM
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 =] Group: Member Posts: 1,910 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 156,614 |
Not all guys are attracted to girly girls...
It's best to be themselves. |
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Apr 28 2006, 09:48 PM
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 for you,i will<3 Group: Member Posts: 37 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 398,267 |
I think thats dumb, so shes changing for someone to like her?
thats something called "loved for someone your not". lame, be yourself. some things people dont understand is... T. I. M. E
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Apr 28 2006, 10:11 PM
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 Bonjour Group: Member Posts: 278 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,449 |
she can be a girly girl without losing who she is. just don't make any drastic changes, she can still be a tomboy and be gorgeous at the same time. try to find a balence
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Apr 28 2006, 10:25 PM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
Being herself is best.
-Lipgloss -Skirts/Tight jeans -Putting your hair up -Accersories |
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Apr 28 2006, 11:20 PM
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 i think you're stupid. Group: Member Posts: 608 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,203 |
QUOTE(DORKalicious @ Apr 28 2006, 11:11 PM)  she can be a girly girl without losing who she is. just don't make any drastic changes, she can still be a tomboy and be gorgeous at the same time. try to find a balence amen! she can still be attractive and be a tom boy. like she could wear normal pants with a cute shirt (the key=jeans). she doesn't have to be COMPLETELY all out preppy for guys to like her. most guys can't stand girls like that anyway. |
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Apr 29 2006, 11:22 AM
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Ruby Anne <3 Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 392,417 |
She's not changing who she is! She just wants to be a little more feminine. And if it's her wanting to change a little, then she is being herself! sheesh.
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Apr 29 2006, 11:11 PM
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 DING DONG. Group: Member Posts: 162 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 131,900 |
Well, I really dont think she should change herself for a guy. One of my friends is a TOTAL tomboy and she got the hottest guy in school just being herself. No lie
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Apr 29 2006, 11:19 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
Eh ... take her out shopping and let her buy what she feels comfortable wearing, and just offer suggestions. Help her be more open-minded, but mostly, let her choose for herself, so there's more of her personality than yours. So she's still being herself, just mixing it up a bit.
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| *mipadi* |
Apr 30 2006, 01:18 AM
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You know, I like a girl who can shoot pool.
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Apr 30 2006, 08:28 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
QUOTE(elainedcuzunome @ Apr 29 2006, 6:21 AM) talk about fashion. like the mall. wear skirts. be REALLY hyper and peppy. and preppy. but if she wants guys to ask her out, then she should just act like herself. not someone else. i think this should belong in relationships though. or at least the girl's locker. Being girly doesn't mean that she has to be hyper/peppy/preppy. She can start wearing "girlier" jeans and smaller tops. Don't make too drastic of a change at first because she'll look like a wannabe. Just start with normal girl-sized t-shirts. And guys don't necessarily go for girls who dress girly. Girls who are tomboys have boyfriends too. |
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Apr 30 2006, 11:43 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,450 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 98,407 |
Girls talk a lot. So talk a lot.
Also get a boyfriend and complain all day about him. =d |
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May 7 2006, 09:17 PM
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 ((starSAVER))* Group: Member Posts: 127 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 402,128 |
if you really want a guy to notice you or someone else, try to be original. stop trying to act like some else.
...not all guys are into barbie dolls, you know. but, if you really want a tip, then go for tiny tees, cute shoes, lots of pink, and short skirts. ...i think thatll cover it. |
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May 7 2006, 09:20 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
the MOST you should change her is... to put some makeup on her and change her hair, and maybe a skirt every once in a while. but don't change her personality... she shouldn't have to act like something she's not to get a guy. he would be liking someone else
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May 8 2006, 10:25 PM
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Erm......... well........... start with her clothes.............. if she wears baggy t-shirts and baggy pants.............. try to get some cute tops and bottoms................. maybe like........ clothes that are a little tighter so that they show her curves and stuff?!?!
Don't put her in mini skirts straight away coz she might feel uncomfortable wearing them......... Don't be too much of a girly girl though........... majority of guys want a girl they can have fun with but still maintain the "feminine" look~ its pretti much being inbetween tomboy and girly girl...... Keep the personality though~ Coz its hard to change ur personality on purpose and keep on acting like that all her life............... |
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May 12 2006, 08:13 PM
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i used to be a tomboy. she can make the changes little by little like i did. id recommend the shop pac sun.
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May 13 2006, 10:50 PM
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 Katy Paige Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 406,465 |
fashion.
attitude. i just dont get why shes willing to change who she is for a guy. they arent worth it. |
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May 14 2006, 08:23 PM
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 What a hypocrite. Group: Member Posts: 2,754 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 128,150 |
That's a pretty easy one. Buy a few clip-on earrings and rings at Claire's, some clearance items from Abercrombie, Hollister, and Aeropostale, and go to Wal-Mart to buy a few pink frilly decor for your room.
.. Oh yea, and good luck.
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Jul 12 2006, 12:58 AM
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 Mrs. Delonge Group: Member Posts: 426 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 406,185 |
QUOTE(GiggleBear @ Apr 28 2006, 9:48 PM) I think thats dumb, so shes changing for someone to like her? thats something called "loved for someone your not". lame, be yourself. some things people dont understand is... T. I. M. E i agree completely. |
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Mar 14 2007, 04:35 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 33 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 509,705 |
If she wants to be asked out by boys then she needs to be herself. There's no use pretending to be someone who you know you're not. One day a perfect Guy will come along and see her for who she really is, not just what she looks like. When Guys see girls for who they REALLY are then you know that that's a serious realtionship - one that actually has a chance of lasting.
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Mar 14 2007, 04:37 PM
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 BABESTARR Group: Member Posts: 600 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 442,634 |
be yourself. cause yourself is a girl. There is no exact way to act girlie, cause every girl acts differently.
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Mar 15 2007, 11:46 PM
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NEVER CHANGE FOR A GUY/.
Whats the point of going out with a guy that doesnt really like you?? Thats GAY. Dont change. Guys are icky and will just rip out your heart. (99.99999%) |
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Mar 16 2007, 01:51 AM
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That has got to be one of the dumbest reasons to change from a tomboy to a girly girl.
If she's really got the tomboy attitude, then I'd have thought she could pull that off herself. A while ago, some of my closer guy friends started asking me when I turned into a woman... I told them it was then I found out they were homosexual. Just hand her some magazines and tell her to go away. |
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