Boyfriend. Sex. Girls bathroom. HELP, a bit of help my lovelies |
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 Apr 25 2006, 04:50 PM
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 I Made Ebonics  Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,430  |
Okay I have a boyfriend and hes really cute and all. Hes Gorgeous. Okay and then one day we were just walking around and hes like lets go to the girls restroom! and then we end up going and like.. making out. so yeah Suddenly he wants me to have sex with him at the end of the school year. I mean like sometimes hes joiking and sometimes he sounds serious and i can't really tell whether hes messing with me. And well yeah. So what should I do?
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Apr 25 2006, 04:52 PM
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Do you trust him and love him?
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Apr 25 2006, 04:54 PM
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I Made Ebonics Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,430 |
yeah like i'd wanna spend my whole life with him
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Apr 25 2006, 04:56 PM
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Think about this. Virginity is something that you can only lose once. It may seem like a simple thing, but once it's gone...it's really just gone. So, the decision is really up to you. If you feel that you are comfortable with doing it, then go ahead. Just think it over and make sure you trust and love this person.
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Apr 25 2006, 04:57 PM
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QUOTE(ix3youx33 @ Apr 25 2006, 5:54 PM)  yeah like i'd wanna spend my whole life with him ir you're are completly comfortable with him and 100% ready than go for it |
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Apr 25 2006, 04:58 PM
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I Made Ebonics Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,430 |
well yeah but the problem is.. i'm really not sure if hes kidding or if hes being serious you know? i mean like what if i say yes and he thinks of me like a slut or goes like APRIL FOOLS!! because hes really weird and he says april fools because its still april - -x
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Apr 25 2006, 05:00 PM
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Well then, why don't you ask him if he's being serious or not. You're never going to know.
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Apr 25 2006, 05:00 PM
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then you can bring up the subject and discuss it
or wait till may |
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Apr 25 2006, 05:04 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
You're like .. in Junior High. Do not have sex. You will regret it no matter how strongly you feel right now. Just don't go there. If he's pressuring you and not respecting your opinions, he's in lust, not in love. That is not the kind of guy you should be hanging out with.
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Apr 25 2006, 05:07 PM
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 the most flavored one Group: Member Posts: 132 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,593 |
If this guy truly cares about you--he'd wait until you're ready. Obviously, you're in a state of shock...you're not ready.
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Apr 25 2006, 05:12 PM
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I Made Ebonics Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,430 |
i mean like hes not pressuring me.. but he just like talks to me about it. He didn't say like oooh if you don't have sex with me i'm gonna break up with you or anything like that.
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Apr 25 2006, 05:14 PM
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QUOTE(Paradox of Life @ Apr 25 2006, 6:04 PM) You're like .. in Junior High. Do not have sex. You will regret it no matter how strongly you feel right now. Just don't go there. If he's pressuring you and not respecting your opinions, he's in lust, not in love. That is not the kind of guy you should be hanging out with. omg..yeah i agree Junior High is way to young you're too young to know how you definitly feel....just wait till you both are finally mature boys in Junior High will just brag about how he got you to have sex with him...and the next thign you know..you will be labeled as a slut |
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Apr 25 2006, 05:18 PM
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QUOTE(My Cinderella. @ Apr 25 2006, 5:56 PM) Think about this. Virginity is something that you can only lose once. It may seem like a simple thing, but once it's gone...it's really just gone. So, the decision is really up to you. If you feel that you are comfortable with doing it, then go ahead. Just think it over and make sure you trust and love this person. oh! i heard they have a new thing like if u lost ur vrginity when you didnt want to and you can get it back. i dunno how but i think sugery? and oh my! ur in junior high! i think not. |
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Apr 25 2006, 05:18 PM
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I Made Ebonics Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,430 |
lol i'm not in junior high i mean i'm a junior in highschool but.. like.. not in 7th grade that be totally.. weird.
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Apr 25 2006, 05:21 PM
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talk to him about it if your not ready then he should understand if he truly loves you.
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Apr 25 2006, 06:05 PM
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Heh I hope you wouldn't be in junior high. i think you should talk to him and ask him if he's serious or not.
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Apr 25 2006, 07:19 PM
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just do whatever you feel is right [: if he really loves you , then he`lll respect your opinions.
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Apr 25 2006, 07:34 PM
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it says in your pf that your born in 93. that makes you a sevie. i think you should wait until highschool at least.
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Apr 25 2006, 07:35 PM
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 What's my name? Janette. and ily. <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,139 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,911 |
Well you shouldn't be afraid of making a fool of yourself in front of a person you pretty much wanna lose your virginity to. If you feel like that, then I say don't have sex with him. Simple as that.
My opinion, no. But you are a junior in high, so maybe you are ready. But I think not. |
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Apr 25 2006, 07:39 PM
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I don't think you should.
For one thing, sex is a serious deal. You can't deny that emotional attachment that [i]will[/] be there for the rest of your life. It takes away from your future relationship with your husband. If you feel like a dork for not having sex, you wouldn't be the only one - I'm not going to (and I don't feel like a dork), and I've been happily dating a guy for over a year. |
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Apr 25 2006, 07:41 PM
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if you're ready then go for it.
talk to him, ask him if he really means it |
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Apr 27 2006, 10:24 AM
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Sex in the girl's bathroom?
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Apr 27 2006, 12:10 PM
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QUOTE(No Fear @ Apr 27 2006, 11:24 AM) Sex in the girl's bathroom? Well, it's probably cleaner than the boys' bathroom. |
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Apr 27 2006, 12:41 PM
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^ Yeah you do make a good point.
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Apr 27 2006, 02:55 PM
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Wait... is it the sex your nervous about, or sex in the girls' restroom? Or both?
Either way, I would hope he wasn't pulling a joke on you (and I'm sure he wasn't). Just communicate your reservations and if he isn't understanding, he isn't worth your time. |
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Apr 27 2006, 02:59 PM
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nicorie Group: Member Posts: 196 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,679 |
QUOTE(ix3youx33 @ Apr 25 2006, 5:54 PM) yeah like i'd wanna spend my whole life with him you really have to look at the big picture. how old are you? from my recent experience both my g/f and i wanted to spend our whole life with each other. i'm not saying that thinking this way is a bad idea, but how do u know that this person is really made for you? that is why my g/f (or ex g/f) are just going to wait for each other until we both finish school. I trust her and she trusts me. and about the having sex thing... (sorry for going off-topic)... well being a virgin is a gift so you have to be very careful to who u give it too. once you lose it, its gone. so think carefully. doubting can be a sign that your not ready to lose it yet. |
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Apr 27 2006, 05:56 PM
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QUOTE(o0olaalaa @ Apr 25 2006, 4:18 PM) oh! i heard they have a new thing like if u lost ur vrginity when you didnt want to and you can get it back. i dunno how but i think sugery? um, no? virginity is more of a emotional thing, not totally a physical thing. |
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