ugh...a girl thing or is it obvious?, help with a guy i thought i was crazyy about |
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 Apr 24 2006, 11:23 AM
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 I Am Elle Hear Me ROAR!!!!!  Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,085  |
well i've been with this guy for 3 months but we've technically been together for 3 years..we've went on n off for 3 years..5 dif times...we're both 16 and the typical teen...well anyway, i need advise...there was a huge issue with him n my dad cuz he came over when they were out of touwn but we sat outside....big deal...well he keeps saying he's gonna talk to my dad as a man but the thing is he said that 3 weeks ago...we havent seen each other in 3weeks thats how bad it is...i can understand he's probably some what nervous...but we dont even text each other...he's been in my neighborood every weekend n doesnt even text me to say hey babe guess where i am...i dont think he's cheating he isnt that kind or type i just know...but he sells...you know...n im fine with it i just dont wanna be apart of it...we got in a huge fight n i said he put his "stuff" before he puts his grilfriend...i dont wanna leave him i love him...seriously its there but what can i do...we've tried talking...everything...well at least i have...n its like he is afraid to talk about talking to my dad so we can see each other more...what do i have to do to keep him in my life as "us" w/o pushing ourselves away from each other...
his friend told me he was some wat jelous about me oin to prom with my friend but when i texted him he didnt bother textin back..i mean when i exted him tellin him....what is it?,...a guy thing girl thing or am i just insane...plz help me Elle<3 |
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Apr 24 2006, 12:28 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
Well, it's basically up to you. Do you want to continue playing second fiddle to his "job"? That's what it seems like this is all about. He's probably dealing in your neighborhood and since you don't want to be around it, he doesn't talk to you when he's around. That's also probably why you haven't seen him.
I don't see why you're letting him treat you like this. You have to talk to him and tell him what you want. If he can't fulfil your needs then you have to leave him. You can't force him to change or just stay there hoping that maybe things will get better. Usually, things won't get better, they get worse and you'll have a much harder time leaving when you know you should. |
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Apr 24 2006, 09:00 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i agree with chii, maybe he's not texting you or calling you when he's around your neighborhood cause he knows that you don't want anything to do with his "stuff". why not talk to your dad yourself?
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