does he like me?, =/ Options

[PUREBLiSS xosos]

Okay...well..there's this guy I like..........and my friends think I like him. but I'm more of the person that thinks negative..ive liked him when i was little, and then i stopped, and this year i started liking him again.

Well..I've known him since first grade, but we haven't really talked until this year. He doesn't go to my school, but I have CCD [[catholic class/school/lessons]] and vietnamese class with him. We always sit next to each other in class, and I'm really loud in class. Well. I stopped going to viet class and ccd for about three weeks...and I guess he missed me or something, because the last following week I wasnt there, the whole week he was trying to persuade me to come, and telling me it was boring without me, and he said he missed me screaming his nickname and saying my weird "lines".

Well, when I finally came back to class, I sat down next to him, and class went on like it usually did..and I didn't think it was that boring, and if you took me out, I thought class would have still been the usual same thing, just..without another person screaming out answers and names...well, I said to him, "ITS NOT THAT BORING WITHOUT ME. YOU WERE EXAGGERATING!"

and he was like.."i dont know..i just NEED you to be here to fill up that empty space during class".

well...we had a break at the near end of vietnamese class for thirty mintues, and I went outside at the parking lot screaming and running around with my friend, and trying to find her lost flip flop because somebody stole one of her flip flop and dropped it in this thing. okay. well....she got too scared to go inside this thing to reach for it. so i went in there for her, and almost fell but he caught me (the dude i liked..lets say his name is vance?).

then when i was just standing around, my friend tackled me, and i fell and got a bruise, and vance helped me up, and kept asking if i was okay, and acting all worried and stuff.

its kind of weird how i hugg everybody at the end of class, except him because im always too nervous to get close close to him, and he always wonders why i dont, and i just tease him, and say, "cuz....i dont want cooties". and he teases me back. just friendly teasing!?!?! yeah..
and then when we got back to class, I heard him saying something in a low voice, and he said, "you're hot, i want to make out with you". and then i just gave him this weird look and started laughing, and then he started blushing and smiling. but i just thought he was playing around to annoy me. and then after that i tried putting lipgloss on him...but then he started screaming, and ran away..
but anyways.

does it seem like he likes me? im too scared to ask him or tell him how i feel because, all of my previous crushes, they took it as a joke, and told everyone, and everyone kept teasing me about it, and telling me how i could actually think i would end up with him. but back then i was a shy and quiet person, but now im more willing to open up, and express how i feel. im just scared vance would end up to be like all the other boys i liked. and..im scared if i tell him i like him, it might make our friendship kind of awkward and stuff...and maybe he just sees me as a sister, or good friend, not as a crush or anything?

so...advice? what do you think he sees me as?

[AzNxBaBi]

This is really cute and sweet. I mean it cause that's so sweet you got me thinking of a lot of things. But anyways it does seem that there is some kind of connection between you two. When you said he said .."i dont know..i just NEED you to be here to fill up that empty space during class". It seems like he took the time to notice that you weren't around. To me and i guess from my point of view it does seem like he likes you in a way i'm not sure yet. But you should give it a little bit more time for all the signs to fall into place. Cause like you said you don't want to make what you already have seem awkward. &if he said he thinks your hot, mabye wait for him to say you are beautiful. I don't know, but you follow your heart. Follow what you believe in it's the only thing that makes us do the things we do. But this is completely sweet cause he CAUGHT you. That's so <333 Yeah i hope this helps you.

[SpedMonkee]

if everything happened the way you expained it, or atleast close to it, i think he does.
the only doubt or weird feeling that i have is the way he said "your hot i want to make out with you" i think it all depends on the type of person but that is a weird thing to say in my opinion..

i say go for it, or atleast do something about it.

im currently taking up this motto.. dont know if it will help you or not but here:
Never regret. If it's good, it's wonderful. If it's bad, it's experience.

[Chii]

It seems like he likes you. You said that you like him too so let yourself get close to him. Just because your other crushes ended badly doesn't mean that this one will. All my break ups were messy, the last one being the worst and scariest but I'm not swearing off all men. I got back on the horse and began dating again.

You have to take risks. Would you rather know the truth or let this oppurtunity go and never know how he truly feels?

[PUREBLiSS xosos]

if everything happened the way you expained it, or atleast close to it, i think he does.
the only doubt or weird feeling that i have is the way he said "your hot i want to make out with you" i think it all depends on the type of person but that is a weird thing to say in my opinion..

i say go for it, or atleast do something about it.

im currently taking up this motto.. dont know if it will help you or not but here:
Never regret. If it's good, it's wonderful. If it's bad, it's experience.

uh..yeah..thats his personality when he says stuff like, "your hot i want to make out with you".

[demolished]

Um. nope.

How many guys loves to flirt ?

I mean ... look around you, most dudes have common personality traits over opposite genders. who doesnt say your hot? who doesnt blush? who doesnt want a girl next to a guy? which gentlemen stop a girl from falling? and all ?


Most likely, you'll end up with almost every ex bf.

And ... if you got together with him, i think your relationship would be ... puppy love.


hahaha. i'm a queer. i'm a guy o__O.

[PUREBLiSS xosos]

Um. nope.

How many guys loves to flirt ?

I mean ... look around you, most dudes have common personality traits over opposite genders. who doesnt say your hot? who doesnt blush? who doesnt want a girl next to a guy? which gentlemen stop a girl from falling? and all ?
Most likely, you'll end up with almost every ex bf.

And ... if you got together with him, i think your relationship would be ... puppy love.
hahaha. i'm a queer. i'm a guy o__O.

puppy love. haha. no..me and him are both people who don't like to get all mushy gushy love kind of thing?..i mean...we do get kind of corny when we talk, and we love sweet things and stuff....but we get shivers when we watch really corny movies..we're more of those people who will end up rolling on the floor laughing when we hear corny lines. eh. i cant describe our personalities that well..>.<

that was off topic. sorry.

[_sarcastic_]

he sounds like he does like you.
don't pass up this chance of telling him how you felt, cause that happened to me before and now i totally missed the chance.
i agree with chii, just because previous crushes acted really immature
doesn't mean this one will, he seems to care about you alot
take the chance you'll probably be surprised

[PUREBLiSS xosos]

well. thankss for the advice.
and if you guys are wondering how old we are. we're only 13. so yeah.
well. just awhile ago my friend imed me and asked me if i liked him, and i asked him why, and he was like, "because somebody told me that".
and i am just wondering who told him that, because i have never told anybody i liked..well..one person, but she doesnt live in the same state as me anymore, so yeah.
=/ that was a little off topic too. sorry.

[SpedMonkee]

"because somebody told me that"

lol, clever. chances are he probably likes you to and was asking that in an attempt to see if you like him to.

[PUREBLiSS xosos]

"because somebody told me that"

lol, clever. chances are he probably likes you to and was asking that in an attempt to see if you like him to.

^ I think you are getting confused on what I said?!!?

I dont think I explained what I wrote in my last post clearly. I meant, my friend, which is also his friend, asked me if I liked vance, and I told him, "what makes you think that?" and he said, "because somebody told me that".

sorry..>.< you probably thought that they guy I liked, asked me that..but not..it was his friend (and mine too) that asked me that. -_-
if you understood what I actually wrote in my last post, then nevermind.

[PUREBLiSS xosos]

well..my friend chris goes to his school..
and hes one of his really close friends, and chris knows i like vance, but he told me that vance doesn`t like me, but he likes this other girl at his school named jenn.
so..i guess i got the answer i wanted?
he doesn`t like me.