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 Apr 10 2006, 12:16 PM
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CB Owner/founder  Group: Member Posts: 118 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 225,448  |
Last night I had a dream that I was having um..intamacies (sp?) with a girl (nobody I know) and I actually sort of liked it. And whenever I think of being a lesbian, I'm like no I'm not a lesbo....I think? How do I know?
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Apr 10 2006, 01:35 PM
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Correction: intimacies
I think you only really know when you get turned on by girls or something  Like, for example, did you ever fall for a girl or something of that sort in real life? Hm, & they say dreams predict things... Maybe you're bisexual. Just answer this question: Did you ever fall in "like" with a girl, any girl!? Then i think you might have your answer. (I'm not lez so I'm just guessing...) |
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Apr 10 2006, 05:42 PM
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 L1EK 0MGZZZZ! Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,803 |
Its just a dream. But if it constently happens its a sign.
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| *Teenage Mutant Ninja Meg* |
Apr 10 2006, 06:23 PM
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It's just a dream, but if you find yourself looking at girls, having fantasies and whatnot, chances are you could be bisexual (unless you don't like guys, in which case you could be a lesbian). There's nothing bad about that. You're you! :]
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Apr 10 2006, 06:24 PM
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 i'm maggie =] Group: Member Posts: 3,607 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,616 |
you could be bi.
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Apr 10 2006, 06:25 PM
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CB Owner/founder Group: Member Posts: 118 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 225,448 |
well I do like guys, and I get that heart-throb feeling around guys and not girls.
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| *Teenage Mutant Ninja Meg* |
Apr 10 2006, 06:27 PM
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QUOTE(rubu1214 @ Apr 10 2006, 7:25 PM)  well I do like guys, and I get that heart-throb feeling around guys and not girls. People have dreams about these things all the time, it's nothing to worry about. Everybody is curious once in a while. Do you have a friend you can go to for advice? Sometimes people prefer talking to someone in person. |
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Apr 10 2006, 10:32 PM
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 × Dead as Dillinger. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615 |
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I too, sometimes have dreams about girls. Like, we don't kiss or anything. We might just hug & hold hands, and I'm pretty sure I'm straight. But it's just a dream. I don't think dreams mean anything. |
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Apr 11 2006, 02:20 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 726 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,137 |
Maybe you had that dream 'cause you're curious about it? Don't dreams have something to do with your subconscious or something?
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Apr 11 2006, 02:23 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,534 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 170,127 |
Yeah, it's just a dream. Try to think if you may be attracted to females, or have been, and I'm sure you'll get your answer there.
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Apr 11 2006, 04:08 PM
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If you have a dream that you're rich, does it mean your are?
Dreams are dreams, and unless you think about intamacies with girls when you're awake, you're probably fine. |
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Apr 11 2006, 04:26 PM
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 Krista. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,380 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,319 |
QUOTE(Cake. @ Apr 11 2006, 4:08 PM) If you have a dream that you're rich, does it mean your are? haha, good analogy. yeah, it's just a dream. i wouldn't worry about it unless you really feel that way......
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Apr 11 2006, 04:28 PM
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butttttttt .... some dreams are true xDDD
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Apr 11 2006, 04:33 PM
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Krista. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,380 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,319 |
QUOTE(Spiritual Winged Aura @ Apr 11 2006, 4:28 PM) butttttttt .... some dreams are true xDDD well yes, if she feels the same way in life that she did in the dream. but she should decide for herself. only she really knows.... |
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Apr 11 2006, 07:23 PM
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 `non;chalance Group: Member Posts: 700 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,113 |
I once had a dream where I robbed a bank. XDDD That doesn't mean that I really want to rob a bank or that I am going to do it.
Considering the fact that you ENJOYED doing that in your dream, you could be bi? Don't go into hiding just because you wouldn't be able to stand the ridicule, stand up for yourself if you are bi or if you are a lesbian. It can just be another silly dream or it can be telling you something that you are afraid to admit yourself. =) |
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| *digital.fragrance* |
Apr 11 2006, 07:32 PM
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It's just a dream - dreams happen... I've had dreams that were crazy, but it didn't change who I was. You're straight.
Dreams don't change a person - life does. Remember that. |
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Apr 11 2006, 08:34 PM
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 Ruby Anne <3 Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 392,417 |
I just saw a moving icon of a girl in a bathing suit and was interested. seriously, is there something wrong with me??
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Apr 11 2006, 08:40 PM
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× Dead as Dillinger. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615 |
^ No. I do that too. I simply like the female shape, I see it as an art form, really. I don't think that would make me gay..
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Apr 12 2006, 10:54 AM
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CB Owner/founder Group: Member Posts: 118 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 225,448 |
True. I think we're sexy, I don't think I'm a lesbian. thanks for everybody's help lol!!
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Apr 12 2006, 12:34 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
I think it's just you being bi-curious. When you're dreaming, your subconscious pieces things together like your worries, things that make you happy, just random things and makes a conclusion or a scenario.
Don't worry too much about it. It doesn't matter if you're gay, straight, bi, orange, etc. No one really cares anymore. But anyway, since you've come to a conclusion, I shall close this. |
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