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 Apr 6 2006, 02:47 PM
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Um, hi, I'm new here. Hi everyone! Boy, I have a weird situation and wanted to know what you girls think.
Word got back to me that my ex had taken a pair of my panties and uses them to uh, pleasure himself. They were my fave pair (white satin bikini...lol) and I haven't been able to find them for a few weeks (we broke up about 2 weeks ago). I was bummed, but figured I lost them somewhere, or that the dryer ate them...hehe... but then I heard that from a friend of his. I was wearing them when we went the furthest (actually, that was all I wearing....  )I know this is kinda weird, but it's kind of cool that he took them too (funny to think of how he uses them). Have any of you ever heard of guys doing this? Should I confront him on it? Please help! |
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| *Zatanna* |
Apr 6 2006, 02:59 PM
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Well, the question is - does it bother *you*? If so, than ask him about it and let him know it creeps you out some. If not, then well - welcome to the world of men taking panties and using them as stimuli.
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Apr 6 2006, 03:36 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 8 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,891 |
Do you have any experience with men doing that?
The only thing about it that bothers me is that I really liked that pair. Other than that, I guess it's kind of flattering that he did it, if that makes sense. |
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Apr 6 2006, 04:47 PM
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 young enough to not give a f*ck Group: Member Posts: 1,149 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,060 |
if i were you, i would be sorta scared. confront him but not like " HEY , YOURE WEARING MY PANTIES."
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Apr 6 2006, 04:50 PM
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 What's my name? Janette. and ily. <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,139 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,911 |
^Yeah, I guess I can see what you mean about it being flattering.
Well if that bothers you, ask for them back!! haha. I don't know, just talk to him maybe |
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Apr 6 2006, 05:07 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 3,459 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 328,021 |
It would bother me if my ex was using my panties as.. a pleasureable object. Although if it doesn't bother you, you should probably leave it alone. If it does, just ask him nicely if he happened to see your panties and if he says yes, ask for them back.
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Apr 15 2006, 08:55 PM
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 Dragon Ball Z ya! :D Group: Member Posts: 158 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,803 |
i would take that as a total complement.
But of course, on the issue of whether or not you should confront him, it depends on how you feel blah blah blah. Creeped out by it or totally flattered? |
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Apr 15 2006, 11:47 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 192 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,426 |
i think it's weird... not shure how many boys actually do that. but if it bothers you, confront him about it. and why did you break up?maybe he still likes you or smthing...
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Apr 16 2006, 02:09 AM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
I think you should ask him about it..
I think its odd but if it makes you feel happy then it shouldn`t be odd to you. |
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Apr 16 2006, 01:01 PM
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 × Dead as Dillinger. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615 |
I'd be like, I want my panties back. Buy your own.
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Apr 16 2006, 10:17 PM
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 Styna Group: Member Posts: 261 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,047 |
lol....well since you broke up and there your favorite pair of underwear just tell him that you want ur undies back cus you like em on your bottom haha
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Apr 17 2006, 12:46 PM
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 Serious As A Heart Attack. Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344 |
a guy i hooked up with once took my panties and yeah..they were my favorites too..but he collects panties..so i was just like ehh whatever..and i know a lot of guys who collect them but just keep them in their dresser..i dunno about pleasuring themselves with them..
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Apr 17 2006, 02:08 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
Eww, I wouldn't want some guy stimulating himself with my undergarments. He can have a pair but not for that. Then again I'm not sure if I'll give them up...my undergarments are very nice
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| *Teenage Mutant Ninja Meg* |
Apr 17 2006, 02:23 PM
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Remember, these are just rumours... you may have just misplaced them. Or perhaps he did take then, in which case, you can confront him if it bugs you. If it doesn't, then leave it alone.
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Apr 19 2006, 02:34 AM
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 LiLaZnGurL Group: Member Posts: 969 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,072 |
hahahah wtf!! he wears themm?? like as a jokee? or lmao!! uhhh i would b sorta freaked out but like i would be embarrassed to ask him if he wears them lol
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Apr 19 2006, 09:41 AM
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 omnomnom Group: Member Posts: 1,776 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 180,688 |
Well, it's not that ew, but I suppose it would depend on the time he took them, if it was after you broke up, then, eh, that IS kind of weird.
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Apr 20 2006, 08:43 PM
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 JULiiANA FAYE. Group: Member Posts: 460 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,749 |
ahah pretend you lost them and blame it on someone then he'd confess.. its better then saying "HEY YOU GIVE MY PANTIES BACK!!"
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Apr 23 2006, 01:56 PM
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QUOTE(c0cONuTTeR @ Apr 19 2006, 11:41 AM)  Well, it's not that ew, but I suppose it would depend on the time he took them, if it was after you broke up, then, eh, that IS kind of weird. I agree. Sort of strange. |
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