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 Mar 18 2006, 04:51 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters  Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284  |
Hi, I just have a simple question for you all.
Me and my friends were discussing the fine line between a guy friend, and a boyfriend, and needless to say, we all were very confused by the end of our discussion. So...I was wondering if guys could help us out  How do you tell when a guy is your friend? |
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Mar 18 2006, 05:17 PM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
Boyfriend- both of you love.
Guyfriend- just a normal friend. i think this may help. |
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Mar 18 2006, 05:28 PM
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Trust me you WOULD know the difference between a guy friend and a boyfriend. When you have a guy friend, you two are merely just friends, you have nothing (relationship) wise going on other than friendship. When you have a boyfriend, you guys are in a commitment, you guys are in a relationship TOGETHER. It doesn't necessarily mean that you kiss and all of that, it's just the fact that you guys aren't just friends but romantics.
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Mar 20 2006, 09:19 PM
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you can feel it?
andd.. both of you are commited to one another, and only one another :) |
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| *mipadi* |
Mar 20 2006, 09:42 PM
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You don't have sex with a guy friend.
Usually. |
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Mar 21 2006, 04:12 PM
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a boyfriend is someone you might get more 'physical' with i guess
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Mar 21 2006, 04:36 PM
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I have the same problem here....
Sure I can tell when a guy is just a friend not the lack of chemistry that you can feel! And I can tell when a guy is a definite boyfriend b/c there is commitment and we have talked about the commitment... But there is that fuzzy grey area in he middle where I feel I am at with one of my friends....but I'm leaning more towards boyfriend now a days. A big clue that helped me is when he "claimed" me in front of our friends! Such as giving me a big kiss in public or something similar to that! But there was that time period when I just wasn't very sure what was going on! I realize this may have simply added more questions to this site than answer the original one asked....sorry. |
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Mar 24 2006, 07:33 AM
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 ][»hottiebheibi«][ Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 220,763 |
make emphasis to it *LoL*
make sure you've set boundaries who's the friend and who's the boyfriend |
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Mar 24 2006, 09:05 AM
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 × Dead as Dillinger. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615 |
A guy friend is someone who has no sexual interest in you. ^-^ And you can basically tell him ANYTHING.
{And believe me, this whole "friends with benefits" thing is a bunch of bull. It's been done before, it's nearly impossible for a girl to be in a sexual relationship with a guy without wanting him to be her boyfriend.} |
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| *Zatanna* |
Mar 24 2006, 06:27 PM
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QUOTE(x Ragazza @ Mar 24 2006, 6:05 AM)  {And believe me, this whole "friends with benefits" thing is a bunch of bull. It's been done before, it's nearly impossible for a girl to be in a sexual relationship with a guy without wanting him to be her boyfriend.} I will have to respectfully disagree with that statement. I know many women that have a "friends with benefits" relationship. As far as distinguishing between a platonic relationship and a romantic one, usually there's a physical attribute and an emotional connection that differs from that of a strictly "friends" relationship. I don't think that you can exactly define what that emotional connection feels like. Figuring out whether or not a person is just a friend or more than that is something you just *know*. (Now whether or not they return those feelings is something else entirely) |
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Mar 24 2006, 06:59 PM
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if we have sex we are just friends. if we have sex and i tell a girl i love her after, then we are bf/gf
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