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 Mar 17 2006, 10:43 PM
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so i have this boyfriend rite and we been dating for about 8 months...
u cud call it dating were it not for the lack of actually datign goin on... hes a badn kidd... not garage band punk type but like trumpet playin jazz type thats how we met... at my school where he plays the trumpet anyways my schools an art school so i mean he has to have a lot of dedication in order to stay there... so it takes up all his time... not to mention he has his own jazz band and job at a radio station... but the problem is liek i said we dont date... my family has continually claimed that hes cheating on me which quite frankly pisses me off to no end... but im not sure if he is... i dunt think he is cus well i dunno i trust him and all but also i talk to him about it and i dunno it just doesnt seem like it... he promises to eventualyl take me out and stuff and for the moent im tryin to b ok with not beign able to actually date him... but this is what i wanna kno... do yall think hes cheatign on me? i mean is it possible hes tellign the truth and seriously has no time for me? or is he just really good at playin that game (the cheating one)? i need your opinions... |
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Mar 18 2006, 08:07 AM
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 unrequited love Group: Member Posts: 1,007 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,788 |
well, i dont think hes cheating on you...depends on when was the last time you guys had a date? and he must be really busy, like you said. you talked to him about it and he feels for you im pretty sure. if you guys dont date withen...lets say 2-3 weeks then i think you should get suspicious. and with the whole trust thing, he has to gain yours in order for you to gain his. and right now it kinda seems like its not going very well considering you have been supposively going out for 8 months.
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| *xcaitlinx* |
Mar 18 2006, 09:44 AM
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your signature is waaay too big and stretches the board...
and like you said, he is very busy with jazz..that doesn't mean hes cheating. has he done anything to make you think that he is cheating on you? you can't just assume he is without any evidence or reasons to be suspicious. |
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Mar 18 2006, 10:19 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 26 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 279,677 |
QUOTE(xcaitlinx @ Mar 19 2006, 1:44 AM)  your signature is waaay too big and stretches the board... and like you said, he is very busy with jazz..that doesn't mean hes cheating. has he done anything to make you think that he is cheating on you? you can't just assume he is without any evidence or reasons to be suspicious. ya see thats wats i think is that he has nt really done anything i hate to be the victim of hearsay but a while back people kept tellign me that they saw hi mand this girl Danielle together and otherthings danielle is his x who he inisit he doesnt have feelings for but she has made no effort hiding her affections for him... so even tho hes not responding back shes still like hanging all over him trying to put the moves on him.... ps. i like my signiture but hey ill make it smaller i guess |
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| *mipadi* |
Mar 18 2006, 10:30 AM
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It doesn't really matter if he's cheating or not—if he "has no time for you", then he's clearly not that interested in you.
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Mar 18 2006, 02:01 PM
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^agreed. maybe he's just too busy in what he's doing right now, that he doesn't have time for you.
try and work things out with him |
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Mar 18 2006, 05:44 PM
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I don't think he's cheating on you, it seems to me that he's just so busy with his work that he hardly spends time with you. You should definately tell him how you feel about it, take some time to have a nice talk about how you guys never get to bond anymore.
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Mar 18 2006, 10:54 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(mipadi @ Mar 18 2006, 10:30 AM) It doesn't really matter if he's cheating or not—if he "has no time for you", then he's clearly not that interested in you. I agree. His extracurricular activites can't take up all his free time. If he had feelings for you, he'd make some damn time to see you. Also...if your family says things like "he's cheating," it has to come from somewhere. |
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