EX-Girlfriend?, question. |
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 Mar 17 2006, 08:47 PM
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So lately I've been hanging out with this girl and we've gotton to be good friends. The thing is that she's my crushes ex-girlfriend but the two are still on okay terms. So is that a good thing or do you think my crush will back off since I'm hanging out with his ex?
I'm going to hang out with the two of them and more people this weekend and was wondering maybe from a guys perspective what he would think. Thank YOU! |
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Mar 17 2006, 10:25 PM
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 101708 <3 (: Group: Member Posts: 253 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 382,431 |
mmm i think it's alriite that you hang out w/ her. but try to be a litto more flirty towards HIM if you know what i mean XD
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Mar 18 2006, 02:03 PM
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i don't think it'll be such a big deal if you hung out with his ex. unless he's those kind that will hold grudges for a long time, just pay more attention to him when you guys hang out and stuff like that.
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Mar 18 2006, 05:46 PM
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I agree with Sarcastic, I don't think he'll mind much unless he holds grudges. Since there on the okay terms, yeah, why not hang out with her?
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Mar 18 2006, 10:45 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
I think it's a good idea to a certain extent...if you two become close, I doubt that she'll like it that you have feelings for her ex. However, maybe you'll get the dirt on him and not like him anymore.
Who knows, but gaining a friend is better than gaining a boyfriend. |
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Mar 31 2006, 03:21 PM
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QUOTE(Chii @ Mar 18 2006, 7:45 PM)  I think it's a good idea to a certain extent...if you two become close, I doubt that she'll like it that you have feelings for her ex. However, maybe you'll get the dirt on him and not like him anymore. Who knows, but gaining a friend is better than gaining a boyfriend. ^^i agree. |
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Mar 31 2006, 03:39 PM
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I actually think it would show a level of maturity if you *did* hang out with his ex, as long as it's for the right reason (you liking her, wanting to be her friend, etc...)
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Apr 14 2006, 08:01 AM
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I have an ex-boyfriend. I broke up with him haha.
But one time he punched my boobs making me cry for 15 minutes on the floor. And now im scared of him what to do? |
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Apr 14 2006, 08:06 AM
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it's okay to hang out with her. who knows, you guys could become best friends. but make sure you send the guy vibes that you like him. get in there before she has another chance but don't be too mean. and try not to mention him too much infront of her. there's chances she's still got good conections with him and his mates.
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Apr 14 2006, 09:48 AM
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of course it's alright if you hang out with her. but also think about the fact that she may not like it if you like her ex.
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Apr 14 2006, 10:46 PM
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I agree with sarcastic, too. =)
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