bikkini 's, scared to wear in public Options

[randomness025]

Im like worried what people would think of me if i wore a bikinni cuz frankly i dont like my body and so do a lot of girls but my sister thinks im not fat and that i should wear one she wears one and id proberly look better in one but i dont know if i would be comptle be wearing one in public when guys around cuz isnt it like having your underwear and bra on in public but i dunno im just

[annalucky]

Just wear one. Alot of girls think their bodies aren't so great, but to everyone else, it's just fine. Next, don't worry what people think. Wear what you want to wear.

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

If you're too uncomfortable with it, just wear a one-piece (we all understand), but if you want to face your fears, DO SO!

[mylittleMiracle]

i dont like wearing bikkini.
because i dont wanna to show my baby fat..

[raenbow*]

you could always go for a tankini ...maybe kinda like training? then move up to the more sporty/ more coverage bikinis.. then onto string! the first time i got a bikini i felt kinda weird [my mom bought it for me and i was like really?!] cuz i take off my shirt to go into the pool and everyones watching. but after a while it wasnt that bad. eh... do w/e u want, take ur time.. its ur choice

[AnnahhbeL]

i dont like wearing bikinis either.

usually i wear a bikini only when i have swimming class.
but at the beach, one piece.

[priyas]

bikinis are okay.

[aznxdreamer]

eh. just wear one. i use to be uncomfortable wearing a two piece cuz im so skinny and you can see my ribs, but i got over it. i mean, i walked on a runway infront hundreds of people in a bikini. its not that bad once you get use to it.

[voguelove]

just go with it. im sure more than 75%+ of the girls population think their bodies are ugly.

[sprezzatura]

Start with a tankini first, if that's fine for you, go ahead and wear bikini. =)

[aubbob]

just go for it! who cares what other people think..

[IceCream4U]

Hmm...my piece of advice is to just do it.
Seriously, I don't have a perfect body either ((and the models definately don't)), and I just started wearing one - and I am about the most insecure it gets, trust me.

If I could do it, then you sure can.

Danielle

[lilith]

if you dont wanna wear it dont wear it. wear whatever makes you feel right. doesnt have to be bikini.. a tankini would work? or one piece maybe? hey its all up to you. your body is your temple.. be your own leader.

[*Teenage Mutant Ninja Meg*]

If you're nervous wearing a bikinni, start off with a tankinni and then work you're way up! I wear one pieces and tankinnis, because I'm way too self-conscious and I'm worried about my... package falling out, haha.

[Flavored Condom]

Is it a have to wear a bikini? One-pieces aren't so bad.

[Smoogrish]

If you're nervous wearing a bikinni, start off with a tankinni and then work you're way up! I wear one pieces and tankinnis, because I'm way too self-conscious and I'm worried about my... package falling out, haha.

Or, like Meg said, get into one gradually. You don't have to wear a bikini now if you don't feel comfortable. Just wear what you think is right for you.

[insanityislaughi...]

I'd say wear one. If you seriously don't want to though, there are other types of swimsuits that look good, not just bikinis. Like other people suggested, tankini's are a good choice, or you could go with a one piece. I just saw this one piece that was strapless and hot pink. It looked awesome, so if you're worried that a one piece will look dorky, just shop around and you'll probably find a pretty good looking one.

[_sarcastic_]

just wear one, it's not that big a deal i suppose. some swimsuits will flatter your body some won't i guess.
if you feel uncomfortable then just wear board shorts along with your bikini so you won't feel overly exposed. that's what i do.

[flc]

Lol, I wear just my bra and underwear around the house. My mom freaks out at me, she's like, "WHAT IF YOUR BROTHER COMES HOME!!" And I tell her that if I can wear a bikini that's basically an underwear and bra with pretty designs on it in public, I should be able to wear something similar at home. =P

But no, I used to be afraid, like last summer, but not anymore. I just love to swim too much.

[sexycheerchick08]

I'm cool with my body, but one time my friend had to point out to me that I hadn't trimmed quite enuf! Oops!

[lorrytruck;]

God. That was one long sentence.
I'm a little afraid.
But you can always cover up =)

[wildkitty]

if you really really really don't feel comfortable in a bikini just wear what you want to wear, but hey, bikinis are great! I recommend you overcome your fear and buy one! If you don't like how you look in it, no ones gonna force you to wear it again! I'm sure you look great, as your sister says - and she's your sister, she's not gonna lie to you.
Best of luck!
Kitty

[omgRAWRR]

uhmm wearit.
chances are while ur likee
thinking crudd i hope no one's likee making fun of mee,
everyone else is thinking the same thingg.
:]

[Paradox of Life]

^ Agreed, alllll the waaayyyy.

Believe me, no one's going to be staring at you, nitpicking every thing that's wrong with your body. Everyone has flaws in their body! But what looks even more stupid is when you try to cover it up. It just shows that you're insecure. Go all out, enjoy yourself.

[jennyjenny]

If there's other people there, then go for it.

Or you could avoid swimming altogether.

[Spazzzmatic]

I'm the same way.
Just wear a tankini top (like some others said), I go w/ a halter. For some reason, I feel more covered w/ that than with any of the other styles.
For the bottom, this is the part I especially hate. They are just like underwear and tiny! My thighs aren't so cool. So I wear the boy shorts, or board shorts. I love the girl board shorts. You can wear them as a coverup or even into a pool. The whole bermuda shorts style is being used a lot now anyways.
It's very whatever.

[*swtcherriipie*]

If your not comfortable babe just dont wear it but who knows maybe you actually look good! ;)

[DemoiceDevil]

Just wear one... ^_^ Pretend everyone els isn`t there !! Have some fun and feel freee ( I wear them in public at first it`s scary the next thing you know your lovin` it )

[randomness025]

Lol, I wear just my bra and underwear around the house. My mom freaks out at me, she's like, "WHAT IF YOUR BROTHER COMES HOME!!" And I tell her that if I can wear a bikini that's basically an underwear and bra with pretty designs on it in public, I should be able to wear something similar at home. =P

hahah thats funny thanks for the help you guys rock i might just face my fear or just do what ×__Elle. does lol

Just wear one... ^_^ Pretend everyone els isn`t there !! Have some fun and feel freee ( I wear them in public at first it`s scary the next thing you know your lovin` it )

thnxx

[ktsou11]

just wear it. no one is ever satisfied with their body. there are always gonna be people criticizing you but whatever. just know that there will always be people thinking you look hot too! :D

[mseryel2]

hey, if you feel comfprtable, go for it. i mean, me, i am the most insecure person EVER, and i wear a halter bikini top with pink boxer shorts. it isnt so bad once you get use to it.

--statistics stats that 95% of women feel insecure around other people in bathing suits.
just so you dont feel left out, we all think that our bodies suck.
--but it isnt that bad...trust me

[starlette]

Ive never been able to wear a bikini. So sad. I mean i can wear one, i just shouldnt. I'm not built quite right for them. there are a few i can look really good in...but i usually steer clear of them. I'm really into vintage pin up styled ones like you would see marilyn monroe in. I have a hot pink one and it makes me fee so glamourous with my sunglasses and my wide floppy hat. Just do what feels comfortable.

[Joss-eh-lime]

yea i usually feel to "open" and out there when i wear one. so i put board shorts or a tank top over. not both though.

[fathomlessdame]

i have one bikini, and i love it. my mom doesnt like it though... "the bottom part shows too much of my butt" she says. i just make sure she doesnt see that i'm wearing it...

if your not comfortable wearing one then you dont have to. wear a two piece that covers more. or wear a bikini when its just with your friends which is normally (well for me it is) a more comfortable situation....

[-sincerely]

You don't have to do anything you don't feel comfortable doing, but if you feel like you want to face your fears, go ahead! But if not, you can just wear a one-piece. Lucky for me, the camp i'm going to work at in the summer only allows 1 pieces. :)

[makeshiftwings]

you need to wear something that you're going to feel comfortable in, so if you're uncomfortable in a bikini, you can always try other things. maybe a one-piece. although some people might say they're not as appealing, if you find the right one, they're pretty cute. you could also try wearing a top and/or skirt over the bikini til you're going to be swimming.

[lilnatcat]

well................ if ur scared of just wearing a bikini, why not wear board shorts with it too?!

hehe~ dw, ur not the onli one who thinks that way~

i reckon that i look like i got turkey legs..... which is why i don't have the guts to wear bikini's, mini skirts and short shorts.... coz i know i'm just going to be laughed at................. stupid thighs.......... can't seem to lose fat there....

[ryuusei]

its fine that youre worried because mostly everyone is.
i say just wear it, it doesnt matter of what people think of you. theyre probably worrying about the exact same thing anways. just go and have fun, youll forget about it

[PrincessAda]

uhmm wearit.
chances are while ur likee
thinking crudd i hope no one's likee making fun of mee,
everyone else is thinking the same thingg.
:]

I agree.

[sw33t_rouge]

maybe wrap a sarang skirt around you

[blah1234567]

i dont think that my body is so great..you can see for yourself in the picture i have in my signature lol. i wear the bikinis occasionally. maybe you can switch on and off from wearing a 2piece to a 1 piece coz thats what i do.

[*Uronacid*]

strutt your stuff girlfriend!!!!