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 Mar 12 2006, 11:55 AM
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 i <3 peter  Group: Member Posts: 744 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 125,986  |
there are probly 100s of topics on this but i couldnt find any..
sorry! but anyway my friend likes the same guy as me she claims to have liked him first but anyway he likes me and i dont want to let her hold me back from ever going out wth him. cuz its not fair that we always like the same guy and neither of us can go out with him should i not lose the friendship and forget about him? or go for it cuz she said she wouldn't care if i went out with him.. as long as she could go out with him too when we broke up.. haha but i still feel kindaa bad... |
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Mar 12 2006, 01:02 PM
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 i'm maggie =] Group: Member Posts: 3,607 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,616 |
why should you feel bad? the guy likes you. not her.
but you dont have to lose your friendship with her if you date him. |
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Mar 12 2006, 01:06 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
don't let her stop you from liking him.
he even told you he likes you you don't have to get her approval just to go out with him, i mean you like him, he likes you...go for it. |
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Mar 13 2006, 09:48 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Ask yourself:
Which one are you willing to lose, your friendship or the guy? Because chances are, if you date the guy, it won't be the same with your friend, even if she promises it will. It just won't. How will you feel about your friend dating your ex (after you broke up), suppose everything goes as planned? Can you imagine him saying the same sweet things to your friend as he did to you? Wouldn't jealousy be floating around somewhere? These situations are hard. It always depends on how worthy the people are. Is your friend the "oh i know her and she backstabbed me once" friend or the "we grew up together and she is the only one who has seen me cry" type? Is the guy the "hot and popular" typical hottie or the "he makes me feel special and he really cares" guy? Ask yourself all these questions before making a decision. Hope this helps :) |
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Mar 13 2006, 10:02 AM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
'cuz she said she wouldn't care if i went out with him..
as long as she could go out with him too when we broke up..' Um.. she doesn't seem to be a good friend. She's just interested in the boy and saying, "Sure, you can have him, but once you break up with him, he's mine." But ultimately, it's not YOUR choice who goes out with who. Nor is it your friend's. It's the guy's choice. |
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Mar 13 2006, 08:22 PM
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i <3 peter Group: Member Posts: 744 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 125,986 |
well here's an update:
my friend got us together whether or not she liked him too which i thought was sweet :] thanks for all the help, guys you can close this topic now!! |
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Mar 13 2006, 10:13 PM
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 dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
sure, [topic closed]
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