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i know that most, if not all guys watch porn and masturbate...but would you get mad if you found out that your boyfriend watches porn? i know that mine does and i'm not sure if he watches it a lot but i dont know how to react. the thought of him looking at other girls naked bothers me. should i be mad and talk to him about it? or should i forget about it because most guys watch it anyway?
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Do you let him look at you naked?
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^ hah..no he hasn't seen me completely unclothed. we haven't had sex yet.
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One of my exes used to watch porn quite often. It didn't bother me a bit. I used to buy him Playboy and Maxim subscriptions even. I want to keep this PG13 and I know you're young, but we used to watch porn *together* even. It doesn't have to be a negative aspect of a relationship.
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i know he does, but i honestly could careless; hes a guy.. most guys do... its like saying its a crime for us girls to say a guy looks hot or cute [something]
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![]() &&i'm.sorry. ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 60 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,237 ![]() |
I know some of my ex's have. I don't have a boyfriend at the moment though.
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my boyfriend doesn't. :]
but i think if you feel insecure, you should tell him your thoughts. if he truly cared for you, he'd listen to you and take your feelings into consideration. |
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![]() i'm maggie =] ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,607 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,616 ![]() |
well, i dont have a boyfriend. and i dont have ex's.
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I'm not sure if my boyfriend does, but I don't know. For some reason it bothers me, knowning he sees other girls naked
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![]() My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 ![]() |
If my boyfriend watched porn, I would be really upset. I wouldn't want my boyfriend to be interested in watching fake bimbos willing to record videos of themselves naked. And I wouldn't want to feel like I had to compare to them.
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![]() i've never wanted anything rationale. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 ![]() |
umm yeah.. if your relationship was very long, you need to get a lil more intimate. people get unpaitient sometimes. ![]() If you can't keep in your pants until your partner is ready, than you don't deserve to be in a relationship. ![]() And my recent ex has looked at porn, but I don't think he does regularly. |
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![]() Kermit the frog = <3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 ![]() |
it would bother me. even if I won't admit it, I would still feel offended. I would start being more self concious.
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Yeah, my boyfriend does. I'm not sure how often he still does, but I definitely don't have a problem with it because I know that he stills cares about me even if he sees another girl naked. I just see it as a natural thing to want to see, really. Heh.
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![]() dakishimetainoni... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 ![]() |
Same here. :| Well, maybe you're not satisfying him? It's normal for someone to watch porn.. Hormones. ![]() that's a horrible thing to say. plus, not everyone watches porn for arousal, sometimes it's just entertainment. i wouldn't care if the guy i'm seeing watches porn. he does but not regularly. i myself watch porn, quite frankly when i get off the computer at like 2-3am i go channel surfing for porn. the people having sex doesn't even turn me on at all, i just find it very amusing. it also gives me ideas to spring on my darling ![]() |
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I think the majority of guys do. It's there business if they do but I guess I would be a little shocked if I caught him in the middle of watching it
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My ex hardly watches it.
But I knew that he watched it like few times with his friends when they were watching it, once they showed it to a frd of mine who said she hasn't seen it before and was curious. lolx. was so funny. Like..... there's a time when a guy/bf would watch porn..... I would feel a tad insecure if my ex watched it heaps/often.... i got a low self esteem about my body... and well..... I've never seen porn before but i'm guessing the girls in porn movies are like.. err....hot.... have great bodies and stuff?! Makes me feel insecure about my body appearance...... I feel like i'm going to be compared to those girls in porn..... |
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![]() hi. call me linda. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 ![]() |
Eh, I think my boyfriend used to, but I don't think he does anymore.
But yeah, I would feel a bit insecure if I knew that he did watch it. |
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![]() aiko Nakamura at your service ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,518 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,144 ![]() |
Eh.. well.
Current boyfriend used to watch it but it made me feel a tad insecure and I guess i didnt like it too much so he doesnt watch it anymore. He gave it up on his own free will ;x But.. when an ex i had watched it it didnt bother me at all. I dont see why it bothers me now x_x |
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yeah. he does. he tells me, but i dont have a prob with it. as long as he still loves me and its not affecting our relationship. i mean, most guys do watch porn.
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Eh.. well. Current boyfriend used to watch it but it made me feel a tad insecure and I guess i didnt like it too much so he doesnt watch it anymore. He gave it up on his own free will ;x But.. when an ex i had watched it it didnt bother me at all. I dont see why it bothers me now x_x maybe because you care more about losing your current one than your ex? |
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If my boyfriend watched porn, I would be really upset. I wouldn't want my boyfriend to be interested in watching fake bimbos willing to record videos of themselves naked. And I wouldn't want to feel like I had to compare to them. I agree with that, I'd feel like I would have to lose a few extra pounds and junk, but I know he doesn't... 'Cause well, I'd kick his hiney if he did... I don't see why you'd watch porn for pleasure, its just the human body with people paid to have sex or should i say "Sex" with one another. That is definatly not what sex is about.... I just think its weird.. Anyway, semi-rant over =) |
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well, I think you should object. It's the way you think actually. If you trust your boyfriend and feel that he will just stick to watching porn, then you needn't worry. But still ,watching porn isn't healthy. It's a very bad way of portraying a very special relationship. I guess you need to speak to him to actually know why he wants to watch it. I mean, you shouldn't live with anything that you feel isn't right.
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I know my ex's did. I don't see the big problem at all. I dunno why but I can't stand when girls get offended at that. Guys are always gonna be like that. They watch pron and jack off it's how they are. Just like the girls who sit there for an hour getting ready to go somewhere. It's a fact of life. Haha besides, they may learn some new tricks. Shit I watch it to. It's higly amusing lol. =P
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I wouldn't really care. It's honestly no big deal, it's not like he's cheating on you with himself or something.. I would mostly laugh it it and use it as a topic of conversation.
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![]() what a moon tonight. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 517 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,772 ![]() |
haha.
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It's alright I guess, just as long as he doesn't make watching it a habit. But then again, the only sex tapes he watches is ours
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Yes he dose .. and i think its funny/gross at the same time but other then that .. I dont really care...
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i dont have a bf but i know alot of my guy friends do..and i dont mind if they watch porn..but its just sad when some brag about it...like one of my guy friends was bragging about having it on his psp.. dude..thats not a good thing to brag about..O.o
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I didn't vote, since none of them apply to me, but if I had a boyfriend that watched porn, I don't think I'd mind. He's a guy, and there's nothing you can really do about it. I know a few of my guy friends watch porn, and I just laugh.
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![]() `non;chalance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 700 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,113 ![]() |
^ I agree. I have a boyfriend and he occasionally watches it. I don't know if he actually sits there and masturbates to it but he doesn't enjoy it, or so everyone has told me. I don't mind though, he's a guy. It'll be weird for him NOT to watch it. Everyone has to watch it at least once in their life. All I know is that he knows who his real girlfriend is, and it's not those fake bimbos on that TV screen. :)
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Me and my boyfriend have really yummie sex , so he has no need of beating his meat to porn un-less were on the phone and were both turned on but we cant see each other, OR he has blue balls because i didnt feel like giving him any so he watches porn. To Ejaculate.
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![]() just another girl ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 490 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,136 ![]() |
i'd beat the shit out of kyle if he ever looked at porn. i think its wrong and sick and yeah....i dont like it
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![]() just another girl ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 490 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,136 ![]() |
from what ive seen of what my brother looks at....its certainly pretty sick. but it is my opinion so yeah
i cant do much about what everyone else does. but i think i should be enough for my bf even if hes never seen me without clothes on. i'd just be like, am i not good enough for you? |
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My ex used to watch it.
When I first found out I got really upset, not because he was watching it, but because he was watching it... with two other guys. And I thought that was preetttty gross; but I got over it. I couldn't be hypocritical like that because I'm one of the few girls I know who has watched/watches it aswell; what made me feel insecure was that he had posters of naked women all over his room & stuff. I can understand the occasional urge; but he knew I hated how he had that all over his personal space. And the PUT UP MORE POSTERS. He was a d**k. NONETHELESS... I think it's natural for guys to have that urge and I don't really think that it says anything about a relationship. It's just... a raw feeling. And if/when you two become more sexually active, that may fade. Who knows. Be thankful that he's releasing his urges using videos, and not another girl. |
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i knew that my boyfriend watches porn even before i went out with him, his friends told me and then i found some on his fone. he was really embarrased. if it bothers you, talk to him about. it probably wont stop him but at least he'll know how you feel. it's really normal for guys.
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You definitely need to talk with him about porn. It would certainly make me sick if I had a boyfriend who looked at porn. *shudder* Honestly, if he's got you, he shouldn't be looking at other naked girls. At all.
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well here's an update on this whole situation. i ended up talking to him about it a couple of days after i posted this topic...(over a month ago) and it made me feel a lot better. he said that he watched it only once or twice a week, and sometimes even less than that. i told him how it made me feel insecure and uncomfortable with myself because i felt that i was constantly being compared to those pornstars. he felt really bad because i got emotional and he apologized and said that he didn't know that i felt that way. he didnt watch it with the intentions of hurting me. so after we had that talk, he said that he would stop watching porn..and i told him that if he wanted to then he could and i didn't want him to stop just because i want him to. he claimed that it wasn't because of me, and that it was because he realized that it's wrong and he doesn't need to anymore. i'm glad that i spoke with him about it because i felt a lot better and if i hadn't then i'd probably still feel like i did last month. thanks for all of your advice. =]
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weeeeell my ex watches it
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honestly they proly jerkoff while watchin it,i kno alot of ppl that do,hahahaha,lmfao,
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I know, and it doesn't really matter to me, most guys are smart enough to know that girls like that don't even date that much. They also know that it's totally fakes anyway. Besides the point it's a natural thing, even girls watch porn.
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^ I agree. I have a boyfriend and he occasionally watches it. I don't know if he actually sits there and masturbates to it but he doesn't enjoy it, or so everyone has told me. I don't mind though, he's a guy. It'll be weird for him NOT to watch it. Everyone has to watch it at least once in their life. All I know is that he knows who his real girlfriend is, and it's not those fake bimbos on that TV screen. :) agreed =) i heard that if guys dont masturbate to get.. that stuff out.. it starts hurting.. is that true? :S |
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hi everyone I'm new here. I am a guy and i was reading this interesting topic that you have posted. Here my opinion on it. If a guy watch porn than he should be ashame of himself and you should talk to your bf about it. It wrong for a bf to watch porn because it portray women as object and not as a person. It also give message for guy to think that women are only good for sex. It give sex a bad meaning to it. I mean sex in porn is whole bunch of people doing it with each other and there no meaning to it. It mean more than that. I also read that a lot of you said that when you found out that your bf watch porn it make you feel insecure and competive with those porn star. Well you shouldn't because you shouldn't be competing with them. If your bf love you than he would respect your body and your feeling. Sex it a beautiful thing between two loving marry couple. Not what you see in those video. The problem with porn is that it degrade women and destroy marriage and relationship. Those porn star you see or your bf watch is someone wife or daughter up on that TV screen. Ask yourself this question: How would I feel if other men look at me and stare at my body and only wanting me for sex? How would I feel if that was my wife or daughter up there and other men are looking at her? Porn also cripple men the ability to love. Because when a men or in this case some of your bf watch porn, he only loving a fantasy and not you. He looking to other women to satify him and not you. Porn let man think that womens are use an object instead of a person to be love. I'm glad to hear xcaitlinx that your bf respect you and your feeling and stop watching it. As for everyone else, Ladies talk to your bf and make him stop watching it because I KNOW that when he watch porn it really hurt you.
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Hello. I'm new here and I would really appreciate it, if I could have some reasonable advice.
I know that my boyfriend has a huge file on his computer dedicated to pornography and I know he has porn on his phone as Ive been around him when he's shown his friends some of the videos he has. He's 23 going on 24 and I've just turned 20. Today because I choose not to participate in a sexual act which he understands I don't enjoy very well, he decided to go to his computer and watch Pornography. I court him not watching pornography which you pay for, or where the woman are actors but an actual home movie made by another woman, I don't doubt for a second that he hasn't downloaded this from lime wire, supernova or Kazaa. I confronted him about it and he said it's because he has a high sex drive and I have a low one, even though no matter how much I try to please him, he never is satisfied, and his excuse is he likes "variety". It upsets me that he is watching these amateur sex videos? I told him, it hurts me, and I was upset about it, but he doesn't care and said it's not any of my business and that he will continue to watch it because he's tired of me whining, when it's the first time this has happened. I just dont know what to do, talking to him is like talking to a five-year old. |
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well my bf is a complete dingbat
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i dont hope my ex did this.....
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![]() RAWR. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,585 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,641 ![]() |
Man I cant even get my boyfriend to watch it with me lol. Hes such a prude. But like, me and my friends watch it because its funny cuz the chicks are all like "OH YESS!! SUCK MY FINGERS!!!" Like that even does anything. But won't watch. But I guess thats a good thing. Especially since I know of guys who watch it all the time. And neglect their girlfriends because they don't do it like the girls in the video. And thats why I hate porn and I spend a lot of time mocking it. because I have to remind myself that its not real. Thats not what normals peoples sex lives are like. The woman isnt some barbie doll with some extra wide orfices. Its just so hard sometimes. damn sexist society. and damn the women who make my life harder because they make men think I'm supposed to let him jizz in my hair. DAMN YALL!!!
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![]() What the fack. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 ![]() |
Interesting topic.
My boyfriend watches porn and he does so regularly, I know. But then again, so do I but not as much as him. ![]() It doesn't bother me at all. I know he loves me and in my opinion, telling your boyfriend that he can't watch porn for self-pleasure, is kind of wrong. It's like them saying you can't wear a certain shirt 'cause it's low-cut (but cute!). You like it and you enjoy wearing it but they won't let you decide on your own? I know that sometimes when guys have erections for a long while, it starts to hurt and sometimes they get horny for no reason at all, so it's not always their fault. Let 'em take care of it and that's that. Since the majority of you probably think the people in the porn films are cheap, slutty, blah, blah, blah..why even compare yourself to them? ie: I'm sure that when you watch a movie with a hot actor in it, you find them attractive in some way, but you don't compare them to your significant other. Right? And as for sex being a spiritual and meaningful thing between a married couple, yes that's true. But apparently the people in that little porn flick your boyfriend may be watching don't think so. But then again, it's not like he's going here and there, getting it on with this girl and that. I think that's where the real would be, if that were to be happening. My bottom line, guys are guys and as long as it's not hurting your relationship, leave it be. And if you're insecure about your body, because you compare it to those bimbos, then I think you and your significant other should just completely eliminate any mention of porn in your relationship. Would that make you feel better? Blar. That's my take on it. ![]() |
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porn bad.
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![]() <3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 ![]() |
lots of boys do that...if i was you though id prolly let him have his fun and stuff.
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![]() Yawn ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 ![]() |
Personally, I hate when guys watch porn.
It gets to me...I hate it. If I found out the guy i was dating looks at porn i'd be upset too. I don't like using the excuse, "well every guy looks at porn". I don't want to be with an average guy, i'd like to have a guy that'd have some standards and stuff, and be more pure then that. again, that's just me |
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![]() What a hypocrite. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,754 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 128,150 ![]() |
Well, hopefully not.
He does look at like asian girls in bikinis though, but I don't really mind, I just get a little jealous, that's all. ![]() |
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![]() "alas, a life worth living... yo." ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 71 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,770 ![]() |
its a habit that is hard for a guy to break(more like an addiction for some). unless you are willing to put out, or he has an extra strong will that overcomes his sexual drive he might keep doing it. anyways thats my view. have fun.
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itd bother me a bit if i did have a boyfriend...
...which i dont so im not sure... |
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Pornography doesn't bother me one bit. I don't have...uhm, anyone, but it really wouldn't bother me unless it was an obsession or there was a constant comparison happening.
But really, I don't get bothered by it, so I doubt I would. Shrug. |
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I`m single..but I don`t think none of my ex`s have..and plus I`m young. >.<
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My bf has tons of porn....i think his friends burns them for him
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![]() [ yeah you bleed just to know you're alive ] ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 433,453 ![]() |
My boyfriend doesn't have to watch porn ;)
Haha, but on a serious note- he has admited to watching it maybe once or twice. Guys are curious and so I can't hold that against him. However, he doesn't like it. I admit, I've watched one or maybe two before too. It's pretty disturbing, I don't fancy it all too much. But yes, my boyfriend has watched it before but it's not a daily thing. Why watch it when you can get the real thing, right? |
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![]() another victim of love ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 91 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 409,214 ![]() |
i didnt know my ex watched porn until he was telling me at his work place [chuckycheese] that they got a DVD player & he was gonna put his porno in there but my brother put his CD in there. But i didnt believe him & he said go look in your brothers room & i said why & he was telling my that he let my brother borrow it and i saw it haha.
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nope he doesn't need to ... hes got me
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![]() [BRITT;;] ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 764 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 433,210 ![]() |
I'm pretty sure my boyfriend does, not often, but he does. It's a guy thing I figure I might as well get used to. The thing about seeing other girls naked, it's a confidence thing. I don't care, he can look at as many girls as much as he wants.. he'll always come back to me.
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![]() Physic ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 117 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,700 ![]() |
I don't know if he watches it or not. I like to think not, but I'm not to shure. He doesn't do a lot of things with the guys and his best friend for a long time was me, so I'm not to shure.
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no he doesnt need too .. lol .. i mean come on.. its nasty
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I discovered a while ago that my boyfriend regularly watched porn, but it wasnt regular porn it was like a webcam service where girls did what you told them on cam.
I was extremely hurt by this and split up with him, however he swore never to watch porn again since it hurt be so much and I took him back. A while later I found porn on his internet history again and the same scene repeated itself and he made all those promises again. Last week i found porn on his psp... |
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I am VERY certain that my 'boyfriend' watches porn. It doesn't bother me as long as he doesn't watch it in front of me or tries to practice those porn moves.
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porn = nastiness
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well; he watches it reguarly he t0ld meeh.
well i dun g0t n0 pr0blem jus as l0ng as he try n0t t0 bust n0 m0ves. butath yep; he can l0ok as h0wever many gurls he wants; idk he's ALWAYS c0min' bakc' t0o mee s0 whutever. ![]() |
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My fiance watches porn. It doesn't bother me. It used to, but we talked about it. I know I please him, but guys just like porn! They are wired differently than girls and need to jerk it every once in a while. I am comfortable in our relationship to know that he LOVES ME, he does not love these girls, he would NEVER leave me for one of these girls, and it's not the same when he is masturbating as it is when we have sex. He told me that he can't think about me while masturbating because it makes him feel like he is defecating me.
What I am trying to say is it doesn't mean he doesn't love you, and it's not weird unless he is obsessive with it. Some guys have a porn addiction, and that's where it's a problem. If you think your man is addicted to porn, I would suggest you tell him to get some counseling. |
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guys have no self control
If I was having sex with my boyfriend, and he still wacthed porn, i would feel reall bad about myself |
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i've honestly never asked him.
because it doesn't bother me, and it wouldn't matter if he does or not. |
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i can't vote there is no option that says...
"my bf makes up .001% of the population of men and hates porn" |
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![]() Cornflakes :D ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,541 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 322,923 ![]() |
Honestly I never really cared about it
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my boyfriend at the time even sent me a link to a free porn site and gloated about it. but i never really liked him anyways.
anywaysss, i think it gives them unrealistic views of what sex and girls should look like. i should be his fricken porn. not some fake bolted on tit girl ![]() |
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![]() just another girl ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 490 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,136 ![]() |
mine used to...i'm pretty sure he doesnt anymore though. he has me
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Nope, though I wouldn't mind if he did s'long as he shared it with me.
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![]() Resource Center Tyrant ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 2,263 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,306 ![]() |
i can't vote there is no option that says... "my bf makes up .001% of the population of men and hates porn" ![]() Maybe not that you know of. I will defend high and low that all guys watch porn (doesn't have to be regularly) and are either straightforward about it or they lie to women about it. I make the assumption that everyone I've dated watches porn, and then I go about my daily routine because, honestly, I don't see how this affects the women unless a.) you are pathetically insecure (especially if you also double-check his internet history) or b.) he watches porn more often than you two have sex, and in that case, that's saying something. |
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![]() Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 ![]() |
If my boyfriend watched porn, I would be really upset. I wouldn't want my boyfriend to be interested in watching fake bimbos willing to record videos of themselves naked. And I wouldn't want to feel like I had to compare to them. Porn is only to stimulate masterbation. It really has nothing to do with the girls in the videos...most of the time. I mean, if there's a continuous trend of him watching videos with the same girls or dudes in it...then there might be something there. But, that might be because he has some fantasy that he would like to be fulfilled. So, fulfill his fantasy. |
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I'm completely against pornography. Its not a matter of insecurity, it's disgusting to see my boyfriend being into a bunch of fake titted crackwhores f**king each other for money. If he wants to be satisifed he will come to me and not watch other girls. My boyfriend doesn't watch porn...he is better than that trashy shit.
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I'm completely against pornography. Its not a matter of insecurity, it's disgusting to see my boyfriend being into a bunch of fake titted crackwhores f**king each other for money. If he wants to be satisifed he will come to me and not watch other girls. My boyfriend doesn't watch porn...he is better than that trashy shit. You just haven't caught him yet. Check his cookies. I bet he's into midget and or amputee porn. The good ones are always that way. By the way, I don't believe you that you have a boyfriend. |
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Cowboy, there's no need for any of that.
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Grow up and go suck on a dick.
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Oi, the both of you just got yourselves a verbal warning each.
Start posting relevantly and respectfully or I'll up your warn levels. As of now this little argument ends. |
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Thank you, S-Majere. I have been trying to be civil here.
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![]() Yea Yea. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 837 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 79,366 ![]() |
my boyfriend has never told me he watches it but i know he does. it's just assumed and i really don't care since all guys watch it anyway.
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That's a little judgemental - not all guys are the same.
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i dont think theres anything wrong with it ....most of the guys watch it
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ITS PERFECTLY FINE BECAUSE IM A RAIDER
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My boyfriend watches porn. He watches it less than he used to, but it never bothered me!! He's going to watch it anyway and hey, if it means he won't be humping me constantly, I don't care!! I mean, sometimes I watch porn too and he thinks its hot. The fact that he watches porn is fine by me, too. It's taught him a couple of things. =DDD
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i didn't know my ex watched porn til way after we broke up.
it didn't matter to me though, whether i found out while we were together or not. it's given that a guy'll watch porn at some point. in fact, i wanna watch porn. hahaha. |
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i never watched a porn movie
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![]() cake or DEATH ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 631 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 223,586 ![]() |
i voted "no - he doesn't need to ;]"
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