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 Mar 4 2006, 06:00 AM
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 Like i care. ♥  Group: Member Posts: 780 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,706  |
Ok, i met this guy 3 months ago, and after the weekend i met him i saw him again at the pub. We kissed. Then my friend where i always go out with got grounded, so i didnt see him for a month. there were also some rumors about him gotting ill because of me.. Then i saw him again. We talked the rumours out, they werent true. Then we kissed again and he told me that he was glad he saw me again, because he was in love with me. Well, gave him my number, didnt hear anything from him. After 2 weeks i saw him again, so i walked up to him, and all he said was "hey" and gave me a pat on the back
 So i thought, screw it.Then, last week, i saw him again. And he walked up to me and we started talking and after that we kissed again  The problem is, i only see him in the pub, and he never calls me/text me..whatever. But it doesnt seem like he is using me :/ So, i dont know what to do... what does he want? 
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Mar 4 2006, 10:38 AM
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Do you only see him at the pub? (btw, what exactly is that?) It sounds more like he just uses you at the moment as a hookup buddy whenever he sees you. He doesn't try to call you or make plans to do something together. How often do you see him?
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Mar 4 2006, 11:16 AM
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yeah whats the pub?; anyways, he just f**king around with you; nothing special.. untill he shows/tells how he really feels yeah, then theres something... its like actions speak louder than words, but words can also mean a whole lot more
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Mar 4 2006, 01:25 PM
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Like i care. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 780 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,706 |
The pub = a bar.. somewhere where i go every week. so i see him once a week or so.
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Mar 4 2006, 01:39 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Yeah, it sounds like he's just using you, since he never calls or makes plans. I say forget him and don't give into his kisses anymore.
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Mar 4 2006, 02:21 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
move on, he's not worth your time
how can he be in love with you when you guys haven't even hung out one on one other than in the pub |
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Mar 4 2006, 02:51 PM
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maybe he lost your number?
it happens. and one small question. you are old enough to go to the bar, correct? that means you are old enough to be an adult, but your friend got grounded? how old are they? okay, that was more than one small question, but i laughed at that. |
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Mar 4 2006, 07:45 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
but anyway, he doesn't seem to be "in love with you" if he was, he'd jump at the chance to talk to you and to text you and take you out and all that jazz. maybe he just wants to see how much he can get from you. starting by kisses, then going for something else. from experience, i don't trust people who say that they're in love with you after knowing you for such a short time, especially if you're not even dating... QUOTE(incoherent @ Mar 4 2006, 2:51 PM)  maybe he lost your number? if he lost her number than he'd ask for it again if he was all "in love" with her as he claims.
it happens. and one small question. you are old enough to go to the bar, correct? that means you are old enough to be an adult, but your friend got grounded? how old are they? okay, that was more than one small question, but i laughed at that. |
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Mar 4 2006, 11:53 PM
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QUOTE(Chii @ Mar 4 2006, 7:45 PM) what the hell are you doing at a pub?? you're only 15! it says that she's from the netherlands...maybe the minimum age there is lower than in the U.S.? |
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Mar 5 2006, 01:27 AM
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dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(xcaitlinx @ Mar 4 2006, 11:53 PM) it says that she's from the netherlands...maybe the minimum age there is lower than in the U.S.? ooo i didn't notice that. i looked up the legal age...there isn't one for people from the netherlands. i'm sorry... 
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Mar 5 2006, 07:01 AM
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Like i care. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 780 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,706 |
The legal age for drinking, clubs, in the netherlands is 16. Ofcourse, people start with those stuff earlier xD
You guys are so right. Im going to confront him with it next time i see him. |
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Mar 5 2006, 10:29 PM
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for3ver y0urs Group: Member Posts: 203 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,162 |
yea hope it went ok
like most people have already said, ditch this guy he's not worth your effort -_- |
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Mar 6 2006, 01:20 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
i hate to say this to you but i really don't think he's "in love" with you. he sounds like a complete a*hole to me and i wouldn't even bother with him. he doesn't even call you? what the eff? and you only see him at the pub or whatever...so whats the point? i mean gosh..he makes no effort into getting in contact with you or anything like that? i mean that's just what i think, but if you think differently then just ask him the next time you see him. ask him why he hasn't even called you once you know? ehh..i don't know, thats just me..
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