I think I like my friend, broke up with my gf for her Options

[BannanaQ]

Well I met my friend last year(freshman year), my other friend introduce me to her. So I was hanging out with my friend that introduced us, her, and some other people. It didn't really came up in my head that I wanted to get with her at the time. I hanged out with them for the whole year, until one month had passed for the beginning of this school year(got with a girl in my class for last year and I had a class with her this year also). I also got a class with my friend, but its a different class. We talk to each other alot, and as time went on, I started liking her. I just broke up with my girl on Monday, coz I was feeling this guilt that everytime I look at her, I was thinking of my friend. I hated feeling that so I just had to break up with her. I'm not sure if she likes me back, I've been thinking of asking her out, but something in my head says that it might ruin everything, including friendship.

I need advice on this one. I don't know what to do.

[i_liek_sushi]

who cares, ask her out, you're only sophmores...

what do ya got to loose? friendship? ha ha ha!

[short_dark_hair]

Weigh your priorities. You DON'T want to move on to quickly. Wait a couple weeks, see if your feelings die out. If they do, then you know that it would've died out quickly anyway.

If you still feel the same way, talk to her, darnit! :]

[iDecay]

I never understand most of the stories on relationships. Well, with what I could comprehend, just talk to her. Or both of the girls. *shrug*

[Chii]

i think you need to wait awhile before taking the next step with your friend. if you do it now, everyone will talk and rumors will fly about your friend stealing you from your ex and all this excess drama.

so for now, just get close to your friend and see if your feelings are true and if you can see a future. then after awhile, depending on the length of your past relationship and how your ex is dealing with the break up, you can make your move.

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

Your ex would be selfish to try and keep you from dating your friend. it's not her fault and niether yours. It's not like you guys were gonna get married...

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

Weigh your priorities. You DON'T want to move on to quickly. Wait a couple weeks, see if your feelings die out. If they do, then you know that it would've died out quickly anyway.

If you still feel the same way, talk to her, darnit! :]

^ I agree with you.

Perhaps you should just talk to her and get to know her better. You never know if you guys are better off friends or not so, yeah think it over.

[NgocQuyen]

hmm if i were you, to be honest i wouldn't go straight to asking her out. i would talk to her a lot more and perhaps give her the idea that you're atleast interested. and if you're not sure if she likes you like that, then just ask her if there was any chance that she might have those same feelings that you have for her towards you. just take it slow

[priyas]

I never understand most of the stories on relationships. Well, with what I could comprehend, just talk to her. Or both of the girls. *shrug*

^^Same.

[supahstah_luv]

i think you need to wait a bit...
dont' rush into things.
especially since you just broke up with ur gf
besides, if the girl you like is good friends with your ex it might get a lil messy if you start things now
(your story was a little hard to comprehend)

good luck :)

[*mipadi*]

Go for it, man. Only way you'll get a chance is by asking.

[pinayprincess]

same problem i have

[Mikael]

ask before you spend your whole life time wondering. this is my curse.

[BannanaQ]

Thanks for the advice guys. Won't be asking her anytime soon or maybe a couple of weeks, it depends I guess on how her relationship with her boyfriend goes, since she just got with some dude on Monday(yesterday). Thanks for the advice again, I never thought about rumors might be spreading if I made a move too quick.

[da_SALSA]

I say you take the shot. That's what happened to my bf and I'm the friend. You never know until you ask her and if you don't wanna ask her straight up, hint her or ask her hypothetical questions. It works.

[xXMomoBubbleTeaX...]

Well if you think your friend that you've been thinking about lately likes you back.. I think you should jusst ask her.. Yeah, you might be going out on a ledge there, but the worst thing she could say is "No" right?.. I mean you'll never gain anything in life if you don't take a risk or else you'll jusst end up where you started!!.. I think you should tell her how you feel, but also explain to your ex everything, b/c if your friend & your ex are friends.. Then good friends would never do that to each other.. && if this situation jusst happened wait awhile for the feelings to calm down so everything will be okayy!!.. Well I hope everything works out for the best for you!!..