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 Mar 2 2006, 08:41 PM
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 chocolate luva  Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,450  |
well let me list the ppl first
raqi - the guy i like aman -the guy i used to like like tw yrs ago sunil - the guy that likes me well all three of them are good friends but i realli realli like raqi.. i have like him for like six months now.. sunil likes me and raqi always used to tell me that sunil did.. recently it got out that i like raqi and ppl started telling him.. he asked me if it was true and i said yeh.. now me and raqi talk more but im not sure if he feels the same way.. on top of that .. i told aman that i like raqi so aman told raqi that i like aman.. and i dont and aman knows that.. but that was all cleared.. and aman told me that raqi has a girlfriend but when i asked raqi.. he said he doesnt have one.. i just dont know what to do... i really need advice thnk you |
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Mar 2 2006, 09:12 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
ignore aman, he's just trying to mess things up cause he found out that you're no longer interested in him. it's his loss
tell raqi you like him again, ask him if he feels the same way about it. |
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Mar 2 2006, 09:23 PM
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chocolate luva Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,450 |
but im soo shy
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Mar 2 2006, 09:33 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
drop hints
or see if he's giving any hints to tell you that he likes you. but the best thing is to ask him |
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Mar 2 2006, 09:44 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 628 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 98,376 |
just ask him. if you really want to know and truly like this guy, you shouldn't be that shy to not talk to him about it.
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Mar 2 2006, 09:44 PM
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chocolate luva Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,450 |
well he did give some hints like once i was talkin bout this really hot actor and how i have a crush on him and he was like dont forget about me.. and he has asked me if i like any other guys..
but im not sure if hes just playing around |
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Mar 2 2006, 09:45 PM
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 Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
Wow, confusing.
 Well, just ask him. If you really like him then just ask.
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Mar 2 2006, 09:46 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 628 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 98,376 |
QUOTE(charanjust4yu @ Mar 2 2006, 10:44 PM)  well he did give some hints like once i was talkin bout this really hot actor and how i have a crush on him and he was like dont forget about me.. and he has asked me if i like any other guys.. but im not sure if hes just playing around i don't think that really counts. he was just being his foolish, arrogant self. i could be wrong. what he said might've been reflected on how he wants your attention. |
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Mar 2 2006, 09:47 PM
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chocolate luva Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,450 |
if i ask him and he says no then it would be weird.. because he sorta has become my friend
ps.. i talk to him like everyday now |
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Mar 2 2006, 09:56 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
hmm...if you have become friends with him it really depends all on you now. do you want to risk that friendship and ask him out? if you're willing to do that then do it. if i were you i would do it because heck, i'm a risk taker like that
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Mar 2 2006, 10:05 PM
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chocolate luva Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,450 |
QUOTE(lilxl0ser @ Mar 2 2006, 6:56 PM) hmm...if you have become friends with him it really depends all on you now. do you want to risk that friendship and ask him out? if you're willing to do that then do it. if i were you i would do it because heck, i'm a risk taker like that but the thing is.. i like talking to him.. i really want it ot work out but if it doesnt i dont want us not to talk.. but i still really want to be with him |
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Mar 2 2006, 11:08 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 185 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 365,309 |
That is the most confusing shiz :O but talk to him. JUST D0 IT ;) either way, you'll know the truth<3
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Mar 3 2006, 12:22 AM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(charanjust4yu @ Mar 2 2006, 8:41 PM) recently it got out that i like raqi and ppl started telling him.. he asked me if it was true and i said yeh.. now me and raqi talk more but im not sure if he feels the same way.. doesn't that mean that raqi already knows that you like him? just be forward about it, don't keep things like this to yourself. it's better to get your feelings out in the open so you can take the next step. either having a relationship with him or having to move on. just tell him something like, "over the past few months, i think we've really connected well as friends. i like being friends with you but i'd rather be more than friends because i like you. but if you don't like me that way back, it's okay. but whatever your answer is, i don't want to lose our great friendship." trust me, it's better to tell him and be prepared to tell him. when i told the guy i'm seeing that i liked him i was so embarassed and nervous and freaked out  i didn't think he would like me back since i was and maybe still am a bit young for him and i assumed he just wanted some from me since we were friends with benefits then. it turned out that he did like me a bit. ever since i told him, little by little things have gotten more serious. that never would have happened if i kept my feelings to myself.this could happen to you but if it doesn't, it's just another step forward. you can look elsewhere. |
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Mar 3 2006, 12:23 AM
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chocolate luva Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,450 |
so you guys think i should just risk it all to find out?
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