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what to do?.. |
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![]() insanitys contagious. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 ![]() |
If your boyfriend tells you he still wants to be with you but after 2 weeks of constant fighting he doesnt love you like how he did , what would you do?
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![]() hi. call me linda. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 ![]() |
Hmm, that's happened to me. Well, what I try to do is show him that I still do love him; and try to make it up to him so he can see that there is love in the relationship. And slowly, maybe he'll start to love you.
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 628 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 98,376 ![]() |
this relationship also is determined about how you feel about this guy. if you still have strong feelings, show that you want this relationship to last. if you don't have that same feeling, talk to your guy about how the fighting has affected your emotions and see what happens. there could still be a chance
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#4
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 ![]() |
stay in the relationship; i'm kinda going through that right now.. but anyways, if i say i love him as much as i do, [and how he does the same] then i'd stay in the relationship and work things out.. risk the fact that we are fighting, and patch things up
-- but if hes treating you like a bitch, you better drop his ass and go for some other guy.. no time should be wasted to a idiot like that |
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![]() dakishimetainoni... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 ![]() |
i would be furious
![]() i'd tell him straight up, relationships aren't perfect. just because we've had a rocky two weeks you decide that you don't love me as much anymore? that's ridiculous, people fight, it's human nature. we've been together for x amount of time. do you expect us to just never fight or have a disagreement ever? be real. but since we both want to make this relationship work, let's just try to let the petty sh*t go. that isn't worth the pain and fighting. but here's some advice. don't completely cater to him. if it's your fault it's okay to a certain extent but don't be over the top. i used to kiss my ex-boyfriend's ass even if the fight wasn't my fault because i was afraid to lose him. that gets you NOWHERE. relationships aren't a one way street. you both have to compromise and make it work. it's unhealthy if one person is licking the other's ass clean to keep the relationship "all good." |
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![]() <3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 ![]() |
i've been through that a couple of months ago, we fought for a month straight.
i'd be mad if my bf did that, talk it out with him. ^ i agree with chii, you both have to comprimise and make this relationship work. |
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*xcaitlinx* |
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i would be very hurt but would understand where he's coming from. i mean if you guys have been fighting constantly for 2 weeks, how do you expect him to feel? you should try to make things work between you guys and stop fighting so that he won't feel that way anymore.
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#8
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 840 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,927 ![]() |
I would take my time to build up a relationship like before.
During the relationship some time, he might start to love you like before or even as much as he did before. U never know with these things~ It really depends on his feelings. And since u've been fighting for like 2 weeks constantly, look back and see what happened. Maybe u can learn from those fights and try to prevent a fight from happening. Me and my ex never had fights or arguments during our 107 day relationship..... and look how things turned out with me..... just completely crushed...... |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 157 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,793 ![]() |
Listen to your heart. And decide what's best for you and him. Depend's how strong you are, and if the fighting is worth your time and relationship to contuine or not.
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![]() roosternamedingo. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 ![]() |
do you still love him? If so..try your best to make it work..
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![]() cB Assassin ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 ![]() |
I'd just say give it a couple more weeks, if it doesn't work out, than I guess break it off..
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Duplicate Posts: 459 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 308,469 ![]() |
do what makes you feel happy. cause doing somethign just for him is gonna make you feel miserable.
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c[: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 ![]() |
if you're not happy with him then don't be with him, but don't tell me that you're happy with him of two weeks of constant fighting...if you two were happy together you wouldn't be fighting like you two are. i mean a few arguements are acceptable in a healthy relationship, but sheesh! two weeks of non-stop fighting? hmm...i don't know maybe i'm just understanding your statement wrong...that's just me i guess..
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