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Flashing a smile, Does it have a reason behind?
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post Feb 28 2006, 10:58 PM
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Girls, when you flash a smile to guys, do you really mean it (most of the time), that you are friendly, or are you faking it, just to be nice even though you don't want to.

And what is a technique to distinguish if it is real or inane?
 
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post Feb 28 2006, 11:01 PM
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Well, it depends on who the guy is. My friendlier smiles are bigger and others are small grins.
 
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post Feb 28 2006, 11:07 PM
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Most of the time, if it's a guy they like, and they smile (it's most likely real). There's a reason why they smile and that's probably because they're looking at their crush. rolleyes.gif You can tell if the girl's smile is fake, if it's TOO toothy. like this: laugh.gif erm...bad example there's no teeth!
 
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post Feb 28 2006, 11:16 PM
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I usually give a small grin to people in the hallway. x] If I see a good friend of mine, I'll probably flash a bigger smile or something.
 
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post Mar 1 2006, 12:02 AM
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Most of the time it's friendly :) The way you can tell is if we hold eye contact with you and smile. If not so much, then it's probably just a little fake ;)
 
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post Mar 1 2006, 04:44 PM
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i usually smile at a guy if i like him or if he's my friend...
 
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post Mar 1 2006, 07:51 PM
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I just smile when I talk to guys.. I can't help it, even if I don't like the guy.
I'm too flirty huh.gif
 
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post Mar 1 2006, 08:39 PM
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I think it depends on the guy. For instance I still can't help it by grinning at an old crush, it's just natural.
I sometimes force myself to smile because I don't want to look all sad when I pass one of my guy friends in the hallway. I don't want to look unwelcome, if you know what I mean.
 
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post Mar 1 2006, 09:17 PM
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For some reason I just always smile. For example, my friends always tell me EVERY TIME I talk to someone, whether it be a boy or girl, I smile! I guess I'm just a smiley person
 
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post Mar 2 2006, 12:27 AM
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it depends on the situation.

when i accidentally hit someone with something or grazed someone, i smile apologetically and say sorry. that's real, it's kind of like a mix of these: sad.gif ohmy.gif _smile.gif

when some guy is trying to impress me and says something kind of stupid, i fake smile which is like the eyes and eyebrows of huh.gif plus the smile of _smile.gif

when some guy is hitting on me and flatters me, it's a genuine smile happy.gif if they really drag it on even though they know they've been turned down, the smile gets fake like a mixture of these mellow.gif _smile.gif

for my fake smiles, the big give away is the raising of both my eyebrows along with my smile and a slight nodding sometimes.

when i'm annoyed it's a mix between a sneer and a smile.

the eyes are another big give away if you can detect disinterest in them. when you don't really enjoy most people like me, you tend to notice your own reactions to people.
 
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post Mar 2 2006, 03:59 AM
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I'm sure anyone could tell with me. My real, genuine smiles are huge and toothy. While my less genuine ones are real cheesy looking or like half grins or showing no teeth. Haha.

Most of the time, lately, I just do the fake smiles because I don't really have much to really truly smile about. But they are just as friendly, I think.
 
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post Mar 2 2006, 08:47 AM
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QUOTE(iNyCxShoRT @ Mar 1 2006, 12:07 PM) *
Most of the time, if it's a guy they like, and they smile (it's most likely real). There's a reason why they smile and that's probably because they're looking at their crush. rolleyes.gif You can tell if the girl's smile is fake, if it's TOO toothy. like this: laugh.gif erm...bad example there's no teeth!

not true. i pretty much only smile big smiles with teeth. and this is to everyone, with no ulterior motive.
 
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post Mar 2 2006, 10:20 AM
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i just like smiling =)
 
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post Mar 2 2006, 02:47 PM
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QUOTE(robb0 @ Mar 1 2006, 7:53 PM) *
Just because you smile a guy doesn't mean you're flirting with em. xD


ah yes, I know.. but I still do flirt a lot.
 
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post Mar 2 2006, 11:34 PM
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when I say "hi" to someone, I always smile. so you could call that not real, although I am smiling because I'm happy to see them...anyway, when I'm smilling at any other time then right when I say hello, it's real. happy.gif
 
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post Mar 2 2006, 11:50 PM
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Big smile = friendly
Small smile = hi.
BIG HUGE TEETHY smile = so fake.

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post Mar 4 2006, 07:29 PM
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Actually, for me, the bigger the smile, the more sincere it is.

Usually, if I'm just trying to be nice, I'll flash a smaller smile. Or if I'm just passing by in the hallway.
 
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post Mar 4 2006, 07:40 PM
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Usually I smile because...I guess thats what people expect from me. Most of the time it's this huge grin, like trying to convince people that it's a genuine smile. A true smile for me, though, would be...not a smile. I'd laugh instead.
 
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post Mar 4 2006, 08:30 PM
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usually means friendly.....to me=]
 
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post Mar 4 2006, 09:19 PM
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hm i must sey my smiles r forced time to time but when it comes out i feel happy nd natural lol biggrin.gif
 
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post Mar 4 2006, 09:23 PM
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sometimes it's to be nice and sometimes i really mean it
 
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post Mar 5 2006, 05:03 AM
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I smile when I want to be friendly and probably I'll say "hi" or something.

I fake smiling when I hear a bad joke. Like this -> sweating.gif
 
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post Mar 5 2006, 12:34 PM
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i smile all the time..so u cant really tell..but i guess..the difference is the eye contact when i smile..
 
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post Mar 5 2006, 01:33 PM
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when i show my teeth i want the guy to know im happy to see them
and a small grin is just being friendly i dont smile huge everytime.
 
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post Mar 5 2006, 03:14 PM
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usually I smile just to be nice.
not like a big grin but a closed mouth smile that is kinda like "hey you're in my art class and i just wanted to say hi" kind of smile
 
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post Mar 5 2006, 07:48 PM
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It really depends on who I'm smiling to and the situation. The way to distinguish a fake smile from a genuine one is by looking at their eyes. If it's a real smile, there will be crinkle(s) at the eyes because of the cheek muscles. I forgot the biology of it but I think BBC has some info about it.
 
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post Mar 6 2006, 11:13 AM
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If its a cute small smile with the head bent down, she has a crush on you probably...

If its a quik small smile its most probably to say hello or being friendly.

When i smile to guys its because i like them so yeah.
 
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post Mar 6 2006, 02:32 PM
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Most of the time you can tell a genuine smile by the look in that persons eyes. You can see a smile in the eyes, so to speak.
 
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post Mar 6 2006, 05:15 PM
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of course i mean it; i'm not a fake person.. if i had a problem with a person, i wouldnt talk to them
 

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