Flashing a smile, Does it have a reason behind? |
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Flashing a smile, Does it have a reason behind? |
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Girls, when you flash a smile to guys, do you really mean it (most of the time), that you are friendly, or are you faking it, just to be nice even though you don't want to.
And what is a technique to distinguish if it is real or inane? |
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#2
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![]() Pocketful of Sunshine ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 ![]() |
Well, it depends on who the guy is. My friendlier smiles are bigger and others are small grins.
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*iNyCxShoRT* |
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#3
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Most of the time, if it's a guy they like, and they smile (it's most likely real). There's a reason why they smile and that's probably because they're looking at their crush.
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I usually give a small grin to people in the hallway. x] If I see a good friend of mine, I'll probably flash a bigger smile or something.
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#5
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![]() crushed. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,432 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,026 ![]() |
Most of the time it's friendly :) The way you can tell is if we hold eye contact with you and smile. If not so much, then it's probably just a little fake ;)
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#6
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![]() the one lol ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 92 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 253,183 ![]() |
i usually smile at a guy if i like him or if he's my friend...
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#7
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I just smile when I talk to guys.. I can't help it, even if I don't like the guy.
I'm too flirty ![]() |
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#8
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I think it depends on the guy. For instance I still can't help it by grinning at an old crush, it's just natural.
I sometimes force myself to smile because I don't want to look all sad when I pass one of my guy friends in the hallway. I don't want to look unwelcome, if you know what I mean. |
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#9
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![]() Loser ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,101 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 67,558 ![]() |
For some reason I just always smile. For example, my friends always tell me EVERY TIME I talk to someone, whether it be a boy or girl, I smile! I guess I'm just a smiley person
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#10
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![]() dakishimetainoni... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 ![]() |
it depends on the situation.
when i accidentally hit someone with something or grazed someone, i smile apologetically and say sorry. that's real, it's kind of like a mix of these: ![]() ![]() ![]() when some guy is trying to impress me and says something kind of stupid, i fake smile which is like the eyes and eyebrows of ![]() ![]() when some guy is hitting on me and flatters me, it's a genuine smile ![]() ![]() ![]() for my fake smiles, the big give away is the raising of both my eyebrows along with my smile and a slight nodding sometimes. when i'm annoyed it's a mix between a sneer and a smile. the eyes are another big give away if you can detect disinterest in them. when you don't really enjoy most people like me, you tend to notice your own reactions to people. |
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#11
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![]() hello : ) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 ![]() |
I'm sure anyone could tell with me. My real, genuine smiles are huge and toothy. While my less genuine ones are real cheesy looking or like half grins or showing no teeth. Haha.
Most of the time, lately, I just do the fake smiles because I don't really have much to really truly smile about. But they are just as friendly, I think. |
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#12
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![]() yan lin♥ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 ![]() |
Most of the time, if it's a guy they like, and they smile (it's most likely real). There's a reason why they smile and that's probably because they're looking at their crush. ![]() ![]() not true. i pretty much only smile big smiles with teeth. and this is to everyone, with no ulterior motive. |
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#13
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,087 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,491 ![]() |
i just like smiling =)
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![]() I really love her when she < Smiles > ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 85 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 374,228 ![]() |
when I say "hi" to someone, I always smile. so you could call that not real, although I am smiling because I'm happy to see them...anyway, when I'm smilling at any other time then right when I say hello, it's real.
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![]() "lal! laugh a little!" ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 192 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 364,863 ![]() |
Big smile = friendly
Small smile = hi. BIG HUGE TEETHY smile = so fake. --->Sierra |
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#17
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![]() portami via ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 467 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,187 ![]() |
Actually, for me, the bigger the smile, the more sincere it is.
Usually, if I'm just trying to be nice, I'll flash a smaller smile. Or if I'm just passing by in the hallway. |
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![]() Residential Crazy Child ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 934 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,897 ![]() |
Usually I smile because...I guess thats what people expect from me. Most of the time it's this huge grin, like trying to convince people that it's a genuine smile. A true smile for me, though, would be...not a smile. I'd laugh instead.
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#19
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usually means friendly.....to me=]
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#20
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 205 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,652 ![]() |
hm i must sey my smiles r forced time to time but when it comes out i feel happy nd natural lol
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#21
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 78 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 345,671 ![]() |
sometimes it's to be nice and sometimes i really mean it
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#22
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![]() say maydayism. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,447 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,344 ![]() |
I smile when I want to be friendly and probably I'll say "hi" or something.
I fake smiling when I hear a bad joke. Like this -> ![]() |
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#23
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i smile all the time..so u cant really tell..but i guess..the difference is the eye contact when i smile..
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#24
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![]() tell me more. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 ![]() |
when i show my teeth i want the guy to know im happy to see them
and a small grin is just being friendly i dont smile huge everytime. |
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#25
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usually I smile just to be nice.
not like a big grin but a closed mouth smile that is kinda like "hey you're in my art class and i just wanted to say hi" kind of smile |
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#26
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 950 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,808 ![]() |
It really depends on who I'm smiling to and the situation. The way to distinguish a fake smile from a genuine one is by looking at their eyes. If it's a real smile, there will be crinkle(s) at the eyes because of the cheek muscles. I forgot the biology of it but I think BBC has some info about it.
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#27
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![]() Like i care. ♥ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 780 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,706 ![]() |
If its a cute small smile with the head bent down, she has a crush on you probably...
If its a quik small smile its most probably to say hello or being friendly. When i smile to guys its because i like them so yeah. |
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#28
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Most of the time you can tell a genuine smile by the look in that persons eyes. You can see a smile in the eyes, so to speak.
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#29
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of course i mean it; i'm not a fake person.. if i had a problem with a person, i wouldnt talk to them
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