Is there a Chance? Options

[LadyXTor]

Mmkay. So I have this guy I've liked since elementary school, but I haven't really done anything about it because he's always liked other girls. I've never had the chance to do anything and even if I did, it'd be really complicated if we did have something more because he liked one of my best friends (she didn't like him back) and he considers me his little sister? But my friends tell me to go for it, they always say "Oh, he likes you!" But er yeah...If I do ask it'd make things really awkward between us. What to do?

[*RiC3xBoy*]

Well if you aren't going to ask, there really isn't a chance.

[LadyXTor]

Should I just ask then?

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

What exactly are you going to ask him? Are you going to ask him if he likes you or not? Or are you going to ask him out?

Well; like x2^ said. If you don't ask him, you'll never know.

[LadyXTor]

My friends asked him once but he avoided the question.

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

Alright, maybe YOU should ask him. Don't make your friends do it for you.

[Jackieice]

I would say go for it!! But let me give you a little warning....going out with a friend can ruin a friendship even if you have an easy break up in the end!! So be cautious and just try and have fun!!

[nightowl89]

I wouldn't ask him unless you REALLY like him. If you're not 110% sure you like him and you guys go out and the friendship gets ruined...its better to have not gone out. you'll totally regret it....ive seen my friends do it a lot. On the other hand if you think asking him directly will help you move on (either to other guys or maybe something with him), then ask.

[*xcaitlinx*]

well, if you don't think that he likes you and you guys have a "brother sister" relationship, then i wouldn't. i think you should move on because you don't want your friendship to be ruined or awkward (we all know how different guys act when they know you like them but they don't share the same feelings).

[Chii]

i feel like i gave advice to the same kind of question like 2 posts ago in another topic.

but anyway, go talk to him and try to get some alone time where it's peaceful. tell him something like, "we've known each other since like the beginning of time and have been friends since like forever. but there's something i want to tell you. i don't want to make our [positive adjective - for some reason i've run out of them ] friendship awkward but i like you. before you say anything, if you don't like me back it's okay, i can deal with it and get over it. but whatever your response is, i'd love to continue staying close friends."

[sadolakced acid]

would he feel awkward if you put your arm around him?
or vice versa.

[LadyXTor]

I don't think so.

Edit:// and I didn't send my friends to ask him, they did it themselves and believe me, I really wish they hadn't.

[ChEeR A HOliC Xo]

[font=Georgia] There's always a chance. The only question is how bad do you want it? When you want something bad enough, there's no easy way out, you have to work for it, and it's going to feel weird.

However letting your friend's do it for you, is only going to make you look bad. He won't take it the same. So you want him, then gather the gut's to do something about it. And good luck love!

[sadolakced acid]

well, if you're content with being just friends for now, i'd stay just friends.

i mean, if he's not moving away in a month or something, then you have a lot of time. no need to rush it. if it's the right time, it will probably feel like the right time.