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 May 14 2004, 05:01 PM
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 this one time at band camp...  Group: Member Posts: 64 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,926  |
Okay, i have a boyfriend and ive been dating him since Tuesday. I know that seems like not a long time, but i love him. I REALLY love him. And i`m afraid to tell him because he`s not ready to tell me he loves me, he doesnt yet. I`m okay with that, but i`m dying to say the words. Everybody else says i`m going too fast because i made out with him and let him feel my breasts. I dont think i`m going too fast, but i`m his first girlfriend.
My questions: Am i going too fast for him? Should i tell him i love him? |
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May 14 2004, 05:03 PM
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Wait a couple weeks
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May 14 2004, 05:07 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
WHOA! i say your going pretty fast... you made out with him.. and let him touch your boobs? eh... i would never do that...
but in your case you should WAIT! |
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May 14 2004, 05:45 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
wow... i think u should wait... that is... too fast... its like... ur letting him get what he want so fast... ur going too fast lol
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May 14 2004, 05:46 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Whoa, I think you are going too fast. wait awhile to see if this feeling lasts because it may just be the rush from having a boyfriend.
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May 14 2004, 05:56 PM
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 and then he died... Group: Member Posts: 338 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,047 |
too fast
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May 14 2004, 06:16 PM
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Yeah.. last Tuesday?! LETTING HIM TOUCH YOUR BREASTS?! wtf?! did he ask you or something?!
Crazy.. You're definitely going too fast 
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May 14 2004, 06:42 PM
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 s a r a h r o s e <3 Group: Member Posts: 575 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,944 |
if your his first- give it time, wait a while. dont just blurt it, and it might not turn the way you want it too, the words burn, buh try to hold back for a while!
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May 14 2004, 07:20 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
Wow you're going way too fast! How do you know if he really likes you or not? For all you know, he could just be with you coz you're easy. No offense there.
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May 14 2004, 07:24 PM
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Whoa.
He feels you up already? You should tell me where you live. Seems like girls are easy there. Oh BTW, you don't love him. You're infatuated. - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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May 14 2004, 07:30 PM
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 Serious As A Heart Attack. Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344 |
hMmM..i guess you're going a lil fast..im not quite shure..but yeah..i told my boyyfriend i loved him and..well..this was our convo...
me: i have something to tell you him: ok what?? me: i think im falling in love with you...no..i definetely know im in love with you and..well..thats all i wanted to say..i love you him: umm..thanks?? sorry.. me: sorry for what? him: for not telling you i love you back.... me: its ok..if you're not ready to tell me you love me then dont..i understand..i just wanted to let you know how i felt about you..i'll give you all the time you need him: thanks for being so understanding..i care for you a lot..im just not shure if its love me: thats perfectly fine... and yeah..that happened about a month after we started going out because i had, had a crush on him for 3 years prior to our relationship and i realli did feel that i was in love with him..sOoOo..uMmM..i dont realli know if i helped..but i wouldnt worrie about what other ppl say about you..if you're happie with who you are then thats great  PS. today is our one year anniversary yay! 
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May 14 2004, 08:25 PM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
Here is a story I can relate to. I dated this guy. He told me he loved me less than a week into our relationship. It made me uncomfortable and worried. Three months later, he breaks up with me, and one month after that, he begs me to take him back. He basically says that if we were older, he'd go down on one knee and propose marraige to me. Now...I just turned 17 recently and he is 16 until Aug. The fact is you need to wait. Men tend to be scared of commitment and saying those three words will petrify him. I know it is not what you wanna hear, but somewhere in your mind, you know it is too soon. Wait in a couple of months...last thing you would want to do is make him feel as if he should love you now or make him feel uncomfortable. As for you loving him, I'd understand if you had some kind of crush or more for him for longer than you've been going out. Maybe...months or yrs? Just...don't make him feel rushed. This is what I can contribute to your problem. Hope I helped.
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