he likes me, then he doesn't, then he likes me again Options

[r0xy4718]

Okay, so our class had this party and I met this great guy. The guy had a crush on my friend named Lexi. When Lexi left early, the guy, Timie, hung out with me. He asked for me to hook him and lexi up. I was happy to oblige since im not the kind of girl who steals a guy from my friend. Since I didn't have lexi's number, I told him that I'd give it to him on monday. During sunday (the party was on a saturday), we talked for the whole day and I developed a major crush on him. Few days later, he told me that he had a major crush on lexi. A few days after that, he told me that he liked me more that lexi and he already told lexi that they were just friends. I was happy but then on the same night (about 2 hours) later, he said he changed his mind and said that he really liked lexi more. Lexi found out about it and told timie to back off because she doesn't want him. He came back to me saying he was sorry and everything and I told him that if he ever told me that he liked me again, I would never speak to him again, and he agreed. Now, during the weekend, my phone got stolen. Timie was going crazy because I wasn't replying to his messages. He kept calling my friends asking where I was and he even called the person who stole my phone and started yelling at the robber to give my phone back. He was up and running the whole night. After all that, we became instantly close. We went out with friends and he treated me to bowling. Whenever we would walk he would walk right beside me. During the movie, he kept asking if he could sit next to me and he would talk to me constantly. Now, he asked me to be his girlfriend. Should I say yes? Should I say no? Please help me!

[Chii]

i don't really trust this guy based on what you said about him...

i have a feeling that he chose you because your friend didn't want him...but if he cares that much about you then maybe you should see what happens.

don't accept his girlfriend invitation yet. just keep hanging out with him and see if he's really serious about this. don't let your guard down until you're sure that he's sincere. but be careful! he seems very overbearing by the way he called up all your friends and the person who stole your phone to try to talk to you. my psycho ex was kind of like that and he stalked me after we broke up

[vash1530]

^listen to her...i kno a lot of girls with stalker exes whose relationships started jus like that....thank god i dont do that shyt!!!

[silver-rain]

I agree with Chii. He sounds sketchy since he kept swinging between you and your friend, and since Lexi didn't want him, he decided to go for you. And yeah, the thing with the phone was a bit too much.
Like Chii said, give him some time to really prove that he likes you better than Lexi and then you can accept.

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

yeah, I am a bit skeptical about the boy. Try to figure more about his feelings

[_sarcastic_]

he doesn't seem like a guy that would stick to just one girl. he's probably just using you as a rebound since he got rejected. just becareful. i agree with chii, hang out with him a little more and then see if he is serious about it

[me1issaaaa]

Well, atleast he got you your phone back. Gotta give him credit for that. But this guy doesn't really sound like boyfriend material. I mean, if he was that floppy just deciding if he LIKED you or not, that should be a red flag for how your relationship would be like, you know? He just doesn't seem like he would make a good first impression to be like that.

[xblueradiance]

I agree with everyone else. Give it some time. He did seem pretty desperate for you, but maybe he just wanted you because your freind turned him down. You should wait and be friends for now. Tell him that you're either not sure or that you just want to be friends.

[aznxdreamer]

he seems untrustworthy. if hes that unstable about his feelings then maybe you shouldnt go out with him.

[angel_teardr0pz]

I feel like he's just having either of you as subsitutes if one say no to him...it's not a nice thing to have your emotions played about..

[Jackieice]

I would say go for it!! b/c first of all most of the guys I know don't like rejection and they always want a safety net!! You were his net then lexi was his net Lexi let him fall and now he is coming to you!! The point is that he came to you!! Guys and girls are both very fickle with their feelings and it sounds like you are both still pretty young which makes me think that you should go for it even more!! Now if you were like thirty or something I would say this guy is just being an ass but since your younger than that he is just being an immature guy!!