Priority List, What's your priority list? Options

[short_dark_hair]

I'm single and always have been, but I was wondering who high or low the other gender rates on your priority list.

For me, boys go after practically everything.

[Gypsy Eyes]

Um if I have a boyfriend (which i do) he is pretty high on my priorities. If i dont they aren't very high up

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

It depends. Boys are usually up there with what I worry about or think about but sometimes they are one of my main priorities, and sometimes they arent.

[short_dark_hair]

"The grass is greener on the other side of the fence."

So true, so true. When they're low, you kind of want them to go on up. But when they're high, you regeret that they're such a priority.

[cookieskater2]

My girlfriend is high on my list of priorities. I'll always try and be there for her.

[NoSex]

For me, girls a very low priority. I don't really think about it much. I don't plan on marriage. I'm not often interested. I havn't been in a relationship in nearly three years. I don't rule it out, though. If a cool girl comes my way, things may change. But, even then, I think knowing myself is alot more important than knowing anyone else.

I don't know, though.

Thinking about it, a girlfriend doesn't sound all too bad.

[*disco infiltrator*]

Ehh. It'd be nice, but it's not THAT big of a deal. Like, if I actually find a guy I like (which hasn't been happening lately; each time I find someone I'm somewhat interested in, they're either not interested or not what I thought they were and I lose interest quickly) then that's great and maybe something will happen, but I'm not exactly looking.

There's some people that have been peaking my interest lately, though. Who knows. It probably won't happen, but oh well.

[Chii]

i am a tad confused by the question and i feel stupid because no one else seems to be confused

but anyway, if your asking how much of a priority boys are in my life, they're one of my top priorities. i'm one of those girls who's life plan is basically: fall in love, get married, play housewife for awhile, have kids, and bake cookies. sure i'm probably going to go to college and have a career and stuff but i want to a housewife and a mommy soo much more...maybe i'll try to do both or take a break when i have my kids then go back to work and juggle things.

if you're asking how high i rank with boys, i'd say pretty good. i'm "in a relationship" yet if i wanted i have lots of other options. there has never been a time when there wasn't at least one boy in my life. however, i'm sticking to the adonis that has stolen my heart if only he'd commit

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

I always put my well-being as my priority, now I am putting a patch at my education and making it my priority. Whenever I hang out with boys, I pay much attention, but I don't make it so that they're the purpose of my day.

[misoshiru]

a pretty low priority. right now, i put just about everything before guys.

[silver-rain]

Um if I have a boyfriend (which i do) he is pretty high on my priorities. If i dont they aren't very high up

Yeah, same here. My boyfriends is near the top of my priorities. However, if I didn't have one, guys will be a lower priority.

[benedictkenny]

Really low priority, 99% of the time.

If I'm out in a social setting, and a girl's cool, then I mean...ehh, even then, they aren't a "priority", but just I pay more attention than I would if I weren't out.

When I'm reading (which is too much of the time), or with guy friends or such, girls aren't what are on my mind. I don't go out of my way to hit on girls, nor is it a matter of concern at such times.

[*mipadi*]

It hasn't been a terribly big priority for me, as of late. I've simply been too busy, with studying, work, journalism-related things, and so forth, to even be concerned about a relationship right now. Furthermore, I honestly haven't found anyone I am truly interested in, as of late. I'm not the type of person that feels a need to "seek" out a relationship. I generally just "let them happen", I guess you could say. That seems more natural, which seems to lead to more success.

On the other hand, I sometimes think it might be nice to be in a relationship, even one that wasn't so serious. I think relationships (of any type: family, friends, romantic) really help a person live and grow and discover himself. I don't think a relationship holds a person back from knowing himself; rather, I think it helps him know himself better. Plus it makes life more fun.

But overall, I'd say relationships are a low priority for me, especially as of late.

[upf147]

my g/f is high on my list, and i like it that way. this should be a poll, it would work out well.

[_sarcastic_]

if i had a bf he'd be like one of the top few
if not then boys will be in the middle

[short_dark_hair]

Poll? Hmm...

[Trumpetman4eva]

my girlfriend is pretty high up on my priority list

we were really close before we started going out so that just makes it even better.

[sayitaintso]

yeah same here--boys are after everything, but family and friends first (:

[alphanumeric]

family
friends
bbbooyys :]
school

hahaah, school is fun but not worth losing out on the guys.

[teenprincess]

Well right now this one guy is all i can think about. But when I usually have a crush they come after friends. They're a pretty big priority even though I wish it were different.

[NgocQuyen]

hmm...well i don't know.....i would never choose a guy over my family or my friends...so yeahh...

[teeners4]

haha well it's all relative. like depending where i am and what i'm feeling that day boys can be either really high or just people to me

and when i have a boyfriend he's pretty high up there

[HelloSunshine]

Well after I stopped liking this one boy, I was kind of really confused about things. I realized though, that a time for boys will come later on and that I needed to concentrate on my schoolwork & stuff. First though is family & friends, next school, then boys.

[redpeony]

I'd like to say not too high, but I would willingly take hanging out with my boyfriend one on one over going out with a bunch of friends on any given night. That's probably not a great thing all the time, but meeeh.

[*xcaitlinx*]

my boyfriend is one of my top priorities for sure. my family comes first, then my boyfriend, then my friends. actually--friends and boyfriend are probably on the same level. school is important too, of course.

[radhikaeatsraman]

Boys are a low priority right now, seeing as there aren't that many nice guys in junior high. -_-

[lit0chinagirl]

finding love and all that good stuff IS important to me but not one of my top priorities at the moment--probably at the bottom. i haven't found the right guy and i'm just not interested at the moment. my schoolwork, friends, family, and taking care of myself are currently at the top of my list. now if some guy is willing to change my tainted opinion about relationships and such then yeah i would give him a shot.

[ecargnmyst]

eh..i dont know..i dont have a bf but i wouldnt mind one....but i didnt like any of the guys thatve asked me out =\ yet im still living and happy...so i guess...theyre middle on my list...i wouldnt mind one but i can do w/o one ..i know some of my friends who would crumble w/o a guy in their lives ..

[FoxBandCutie08]

I'm sad to say that my boyfriend is pretty high on my priority list, ever since I started going out with guys my grades have been dropping, but I'm trying to fix that.