wowwzza., can you believe? |
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 Feb 12 2006, 08:57 PM
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Ryenn-ocerous<3  Group: Member Posts: 15 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 337,733  |
ADVICE
well, i need some, anyway. mmm. i have recently quit a band. for more reasons than one, but mostly because they made us sound like something we totally aren't. (and i've known these kids for ever and ever and ever and ever and ever and ever and ever amen.) so, anyway, they're my best friends and all, but like now it's weird when i hang out with them. like i try to give them pointers on stuff and they're like "so, are you basck in the band or something. or are you just butting in?" what do i do? |
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Feb 12 2006, 09:57 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
sooo what are you actually asking for here? urks...i don't know..maybe you should just not give them advice...lols apparently they don't want it..so if they sound like poo then let them sound like poo....
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| *Blow_Don't_SUCK* |
Feb 12 2006, 11:38 PM
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Um...tell them you just want to hang out?
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Feb 13 2006, 06:47 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
tell them you're just helping them.
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Feb 13 2006, 07:05 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
if you're saying that you want the awkwardness to go away, it'll definately be hard. try talking to them about why you quit. but these things ultimately need time.
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Feb 13 2006, 12:12 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 628 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 98,376 |
just tell them you just want to be a good friend and give some suggestions and advice. just talk to them about your feelings and how you just want to hang out. if it doesn't work, try not giving them advice anymore because it seems to them you're butting in and it might create more drama and problems.
good luck :] |
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Feb 13 2006, 07:07 PM
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 Band Geek. Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 |
Tell them that you're just trying to help, that's all. No reason to make a big deal about it.
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| *swtcherriipie* |
Feb 19 2006, 07:04 PM
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Keep it shut. Dont comment dont say ANYTHING unless your opinion is asked for why? because if you do "butt" in your just giving them a chance to be rude or nasty.
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