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 Feb 9 2006, 11:12 PM
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how do i tell my parents i have a boy friend?.... thy kno him and all.. it's just that before me and him were just friends and like i have never told them about my boyfriends in the past.... i hardly speak to them
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Feb 9 2006, 11:56 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
first, i think you should talk about him to your mom. you know, drop little things like "so and so is great at whatever" or "so and so helped me with whatever" or "so and so said the funniest thing the other day."
don't make it too obvious. but whenever something fits like at dinner, "so and so can make the best whatever food." when you talk about him, you can see how your mom feels about him then she might either get the hint and ask you about him or you can make her like him and then you can bring him up. i'm not too good at this, i have never introduced a boyfriend to my parents and my parents had to go to the police precint because of my last boyfriend...  |
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Feb 10 2006, 04:15 AM
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 Like i care. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 780 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,706 |
If your mom likes him, just bring him to your home and say "Hi mom, This is "..." .. you know him. And hes my boyfriend now. Bye!"
Simple as that o.O Ive never introduced a boyfriend to my mom either, because i never had a serious relationship.. xD |
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Feb 10 2006, 03:33 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
QUOTE(Chii @ Feb 9 2006, 11:56 PM) first, i think you should talk about him to your mom. you know, drop little things like "so and so is great at whatever" or "so and so helped me with whatever" or "so and so said the funniest thing the other day." don't make it too obvious. but whenever something fits like at dinner, "so and so can make the best whatever food." when you talk about him, you can see how your mom feels about him then she might either get the hint and ask you about him or you can make her like him and then you can bring him up. i'm not too good at this, i have never introduced a boyfriend to my parents and my parents had to go to the police precint because of my last boyfriend...  lols couldnt have said it better myself. i personally...would take this advice... 
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Feb 10 2006, 03:38 PM
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be natural ..and drop hints to your mother....father's don't understand this and u'll need your mother's support to be able to keep him. because your father will be against it from the get go....after like 2 weeks or so...confront your father with your mother present about it...your mother will have your back in this situation...unless the guy is to old...good luck
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Feb 10 2006, 06:38 PM
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 When the sun sleeps. Group: Member Posts: 532 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,628 |
Just see what their reaction towards him is..that doesnt sound grammaricly correct but wahtever. then if they lyke him then just ask them if its ok if u had a boyfriend. and tell them its him.
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Feb 10 2006, 09:51 PM
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i agree with chii.
i never really brought my ex home to meet my parents, but they knew we were going out. |
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Feb 11 2006, 02:05 PM
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I was just like talking about my day and then I slipped in,"yeah and now I'm dating so and so"
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