Heartbroken, ever felt it? Options

[kantoaznboi]

its a dumbass question, but ever felt heartbroken? if u wanna tell ur story, go on ahead, dont be discouraged

my story, if u wanna read it, not not, its coo

ok, i've been friends wit dis gurl named jenn and we was coo. it all began frosh year when i started likin her, and i thought it was a crush and stuff, but as the year went by, it grew into soemthin more, cause i got 2 know her better. then by soph year she practically stole my hear but didnt have the guts 2 do anythin bout it. My homeboi warned me bout her, how she doenst really wanted a relationship in HS, but i didnt listen 2 him. so finally summer came and i finally summed up all my courage and decided 2 ask her out. i gave her roses and shit, but then she turned me down and wat my hb warned me bout is the same reason y she turned me down. it didnt hit me at 1st but later on it started hurting hella big time. even 2 dis day(i'm a jr now) i'm still not over her. everytime we pass each other, she smiles and it just tears my soul apart and just catching a glimpse of her hurts like a mother..................................... the way she acts is the one of the main reasons y my feelings began 2 grow. blahness...............

[whomps]

Yeah, I have..
I even made a blogring for it.

I was never with the guy, but yeahhh, we were cool with eachotherr.. I mean REAL cool with eachother =] We still are, but I know his heart belongs to someone else.

I got over it though.. Since we're still really good friends.

I was gonna explain, but I'd rather not now =)

Let's just pretend I didn't say anything.

[sweetlyz]

yeh .. definitly been heartbroken, but sorry i`d rather not explain

[photoboothromanc...]

Well since only kantoaznboi has really opened up, I'll share a story too.

So there's this guy. And we're good friends for about a year... better friends than I was with any girls. We both know that we were absolutely falling for each other, but for awhile we didn't officially "go out". But we acted as if we were. We may have even been in love.

Of course, the difficulty with not actually going out is that neither of us officially have to be "faithful" because the relationship is only implied. &so I suppose he wanted to get the best of two things. While we were having our little thing, I don't even know what to call it, he decided he was going to mess around with some girls at his cool. Not so cool. Well, I found out, and he apologized profusely and swore he'd never do it again.

&I fell right into his trap. Whether his intentions were good or not, I forgave him and we continued our relationship. Even though it doesn't sound like it really was much of a relationship, al contrare. We talked on the phone until midnight... We wrote each other love letters. We had "our songs". From my point of view, at least, I thought it was pretty intense.

He must have thought otherwise, because his little side projects didn't stop. When I confronted him about them, he'd always say, "I'm not good enough for you, Courtney. You deserve better than me."

Nyeh. &the story goes on. I'll save you some time: things don't get any better. They still haven't, in fact.

We haven't talked for awhile. He needs time to figure out his life.

&if you would ask me if I still loved him, I would automatically say no.

But if you turned on the Dashboard Confessional CD "A Mark, A Mission, A Brand, A Scar" (which was "our" CD, and I always listened to it while we were on the phone), I'd start crying.


...


fin.

[Winter]

Heartbroken... Way to many times. Rather not talk about it though.

[F_L_I_P]

I feel at a lot

[toki]

uh huh..

[Spirited Away]

everytime we pass each other, she smiles and it just tears my soul apart and just catching a glimpse of her hurts like a mother..................................... the way she acts is the one of the main reasons y my feelings began 2 grow. blahness...............

I think that girl is awesome. She knows her priorities and keep them in perspective. She's also very friendly, because that's what made you fall for her in the first place.

If you really love her, than you'd respect her wishes. Who knows, once she done with HS, she'd be wanting to get a boyfriend and you might be her first choice.

[chewyXD]

yep blahness.. that girl made a big mistake. you so cute!

I had my heartbroken by this guy. it hurts a lot. more than skinning ur knee hurt, but like pain in my heart hurt. it's bad. i wish no one could ever be hurt like that. But when you fall to the ground, you just gotta brush ur self off and keep walking.

~emily

[kantoaznboi]

yep blahness.. that girl made a big mistake. you so cute!

I had my heartbroken by this guy. it hurts a lot. more than skinning ur knee hurt, but like pain in my heart hurt. it's bad. i wish no one could ever be hurt like that. But when you fall to the ground, you just gotta brush ur self off and keep walking.

~emily

haha, thankx, but i aint cute. sorry bout ur heartbroken by dat guy. and ur rite, u ahve 2 get up and just keep walkin but its hard, ya kno? but we just gotta do it

If you really love her, than you'd respect her wishes. Who knows, once she done with HS, she'd be wanting to get a boyfriend and you might be her first choice

very tru, dats y iam willing 2 wait 4 enternity just 2 possible have that chance 2 be something, but i highly doubt i'd be her 1st choice......

thankx though

ur very wish and stuff. lol haha cant think of the word. lol

Well since only kantoaznboi has really opened up, I'll share a story too.

thankx 4 sharing ur story! woop woop *high five* 4 opening up, cause its hard 2 do!. i'm hella sorry buts a tard and he is rite, u do deserve better!!!!!!!

[tinababy143]

yeah..i've been heartbroken before..

i had a crush on this guy for 3 years..he went thru a couple girlfriends and i was never one of them..it didnt help the fact that they were all friends of mine.

One month we started getting close..we were hanging out more..of course the flirting was there..all the signs of us liking each other were definetely there. I switched high schools in the middle of this whole "we like each other" phase, but he still called me all the time.

After school we would take walks to the park and just sit and talk. I stayed out late nights to be with him. I got grounded for him. haha..sounds weird i know..but it was a night i wasnt supposed to go out and i was out till 1130. I did anything and everything i could to see him. Then finally one night..he kissed me!

It was the happiest day of my life..i was so excited. I didnt see him for the next two days. He didn't call me either. I called but his mom said he wasnt home each time, i then stopped calling that day because i didnt want to upset his mother. So i went online and was talking to a friend that we share. I was asking him if he had heard from my crush and going on and on about how much i like him then my friend said "uhhh i think...well it isnt my place to say..but i think he has a gf already" and of course i was SHOCKED I asked him why he thought that and he said "because i hold them holding hands the other day" I then asked another friend and she said "maybe..i think i saw them holding hands once..but im not shure if it was him" Then someone else told me it was a fact that they were going out.

I sat in my room and cried. I was crying for a whole week. Everytime I called him he wouldnt answer or "had just left." He never called me. We never took those walks to the park after school anymore. Then one day he came online and the first thing he said to me was "im sorry" i asked him how it happened and when it happened and why he led me on the way he did. then he said they kissed on the bus two days after we did and he had a crush on her since 1st grade and couldnt help but ask her out, but him leading me on wasnt in his intentions at all. I was heartbroken because of what he did. I was hurt because i found out from other ppl and not him..We lost complete contact for about 3 months.

One day he randomly called me and we would talk late hours of the night again..he was still with his gf. He kept telling me about all the problems they had been having and how she treated him like crap and how she made plans with ANOTHER GUY for prom..i was hurt to see him hurt the way he was. and like the quote says "the worst way to love someone is to be sitting right next to them knowing you cant have them"


i dunno if that was sad for you guys..but maybe it was one of those "you had to be there" stories because i know it was definetely heartbreaking for me..

[Mireh]

its a dumbass question, but ever felt heartbroken? if u wanna tell ur story, go on ahead, dont be discouraged

my story, if u wanna read it, not not, its coo

ok, i've been friends wit dis gurl named jenn and we was coo. it all began frosh year when i started likin her, and i thought it was a crush and stuff, but as the year went by, it grew into soemthin more, cause i got 2 know her better. then by soph year she practically stole my hear but didnt have the guts 2 do anythin bout it. My homeboi warned me bout her, how she doenst really wanted a relationship in HS, but i didnt listen 2 him. so finally summer came and i finally summed up all my courage and decided 2 ask her out. i gave her roses and shit, but then she turned me down and wat my hb warned me bout is the same reason y she turned me down. it didnt hit me at 1st but later on it started hurting hella big time. even 2 dis day(i'm a jr now) i'm still not over her. everytime we pass each other, she smiles and it just tears my soul apart and just catching a glimpse of her hurts like a mother..................................... the way she acts is the one of the main reasons y my feelings began 2 grow. blahness...............

Awww...You poor thing

Well, wait until college. Then she'll be outta hs.

I think everybody has to be heartbroken at least once in their life.

Theres this guy I met, and he always flirts with me when hes single, I start liking him, but then he asks a girl out and totally ignores me. When she finally dumps him, he starts flirting with me again...And the cycle goes on.

It hurts.

Good luck with your relation ship!

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[conster]

yea im heart broken.... me and my bf jus broke up (4months) i kno its nothing but its what happened in those 4months count rite..? well today is exactly a week since our break up and hes going out wit this girl that was his best friend.. probably still is... but.. i dunno... shes a two face and he doesnt knoe that... it hurts to see them two together cuz after we broke up shes been there for him and i kno her since 7th grade... she will never ever help me get bak wit him but maybe poke him at the weak spots and hate me more..

[wayne]

yeah, i have been, but i dun like talking about it anymore. i made a thread on it before.

[LiNHy POO]

i say i have...

when i was with my ex... back in december... things were suppose to get better for us... but it actually got worst.. a few weeks b4 christmas.. i noticed that he wasnt calling regularly like normal... i tried calling him alot... cell home... wherever i thought i could reach him.. and when i could reach him... there would be a hello... and then a click... for a whole week i didnt get to see or talk to him.. so when exams came up and i got home... he called me... first wi was happy... but he sounded soo drunk.. so i said wut was wrong... and he started to confess about EVERYTHING... all the lies he's been telling me... how he been a different person with me... back to doing drugs... after that i hung up... and cried...

wut hurt me the most was all the lying and being a whole different person with me...

[xtremeliquid]

I'm not exactly sure if I got heart-broken or not so you tell me.

I really like this one girl for a really long time and I really want to be with her. I have these feelings for her that really hurts inside. She knows I like her but I don't think she knows how much I do. Anyways, she got with someone else and that made me really sad and when she broke up with her bf, I didn't know what to think. Now she currently likes another guy and I feel real sad about it. I don't know if this is exactly heart-broken or not.

[NatoBoy]

ye ive been heart broken, its just this wierd feeling. it just feels wierd and it hurts...

[silver-rain]

I don't think that I've been heartbroken really. I mean my boyfriend and I broke up last week, and yeah it was all sad for me, but I don't really feel that sad- i mean i haven't even cried. i guess it was because our relationship wasn't really solid. but sometimes, when i think of the good times we had together, my heart aches.

[kantoaznboi]

"the worst way to love someone is to be sitting right next to them knowing you cant have them"

o man, that is so tru!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! o man so tru.. or like the worst pain is to love someone and sit next to them, knowing you cant have them

I'm not exactly sure if I got heart-broken or not so you tell me.

I really like this one girl for a really long time and I really want to be with her. I have these feelings for her that really hurts inside. She knows I like her but I don't think she knows how much I do. Anyways, she got with someone else and that made me really sad and when she broke up with her bf, I didn't know what to think. Now she currently likes another guy and I feel real sad about it. I don't know if this is exactly heart-broken or not.

yea i would say u got ur heart broken, sorry dude, bout ur gurl thing.

[pbear]

No, though there have been "heart pains".

...

See, I'm close to this guy and think I want to be more than just friends, but I know how he'd respond to that and...yeah.


I'm such a loser.

Good luck with all of you.

yup. dont really want to tell it though.........but now i no that as long as i belive, G-d will never break my heart.

[illushun_eyez]

awww dayum sry about that kantoaznboi.
wellz, yeah ill be honest im bi. so, yeah i waz just recently heartborken by my ex gf. it haz been umz... about 3 or 4 monthz ago b4 my sweet 16. she broked my heart so bad. any of you ever been in a relationship where you and your other say thingz like "whatever it it you and him.her will work it out and nothing can tear uz apart?" well something like that. wellz, yeah we said thingz like that. so, what happend waz that my ex bf waz making trouble and shit and it got to her and allz. so, she couldnt take it and she broke up with me like that! i dont know. i miss her but, i am currently happy with my bf now. so, yeah. she scar me so bad. itz hard to be friendz with her. anywayz.... yeah... *tearz running down my cheekz*

[SuPerSoPow1025]

HECK YEA!!!

[x0 sweetsorrow]

heh. yeah ive been heartbroken. in fact. me and my boyfriend of 11months jus broke up. ick. it sucks. i hurt. i dont even know what happened. he jus started pushing me outta his life and when i confronted him about it hes all like "nothings wrong just chill laura everythings fine" pshhh!! it was most certainly not fine!! ick. anyways. so we broke up. it was "for the best" but iunno. it still hurts because he was the first guy i ever really trully LOVED. and now i feel so empty. and yeah. i could go into more detail but im like falln asleep and it hurts to talk about it. so yeah.

i ranted..ish? yeah..

[kantoaznboi]

awww dayum sry about that kantoaznboi.
wellz, yeah ill be honest im bi. so, yeah i waz just recently heartborken by my ex gf. it haz been umz... about 3 or 4 monthz ago b4 my sweet 16. she broked my heart so bad. any of you ever been in a relationship where you and your other say thingz like "whatever it it you and him.her will work it out and nothing can tear uz apart?" well something like that. wellz, yeah we said thingz like that. so, what happend waz that my ex bf waz making trouble and shit and it got to her and allz. so, she couldnt take it and she broke up with me like that! i dont know. i miss her but, i am currently happy with my bf now. so, yeah. she scar me so bad. itz hard to be friendz with her. anywayz.... yeah... *tearz running down my cheekz*

i;m sorry dat she scared u, and wish u dah best wit ur bf!

heh. yeah ive been heartbroken. in fact. me and my boyfriend of 11months jus broke up. ick. it sucks. i hurt. i dont even know what happened. he jus started pushing me outta his life and when i confronted him about it hes all like "nothings wrong just chill laura everythings fine" pshhh!! it was most certainly not fine!! ick. anyways. so we broke up. it was "for the best" but iunno. it still hurts because he was the first guy i ever really trully LOVED. and now i feel so empty. and yeah. i could go into more detail but im like falln asleep and it hurts to talk about it. so yeah.

i ranted..ish? yeah..

sorry 2 hear bout u and ur bf. and i kno wat u feeelin...... things will eventually get better and stuff

[xjjajeengx]

well, i've been heartbroken before. actually, many times. but, i think 've broken hearts more than i've been hurt... and i regret being like that.

But, i guess i just aint the type of girl who can handle a guy thass always like "I'm hurting dang why cant you see, b!tch?" its like dang. I guess im really selfish and a b!tch and im just like... so dominant... but I dont let down my gaurd. I've broken a heart recently, but it's been painful for me... i guess i couldnt take the unbalance between friends and guy... so i had no choice but to take a break from him. I told him i needed time to get this balance correct and to mend the hurts between my friends and me, and he said okay. Then, he kept pushing the fact that we have to get back together so much. When i needed time alone, he wouldnt give it to me. every second of my whole damn alone time was intruded by his presence. Every time i was away, he would load my away message with like 937649327493274 billlion IMs. i couldnt handle it. While he was telling me that he missed me and crap, i was crying cause he wouldnt leave me alone. i guess after a while, he gpt the point that i needed time, but he chose to move on and start to flirt with gurls that he OBVIOUSLy knows i hate. and so i began to dislike him and become distant. And just yesterday, he IMed me and got all nosy into my personal affairs with my friends and crap, and he accused me of ignoring him and crap, so i yelled aat him, and he yelled back. We usually never yelled at each other, and i felt guilty and said sorry. And just cause i said sorry, he IMs me back saying a sorry. honestly, i cant take it anymore and i just still need time i guess... but not time to watch him flirt with the same gurls that i hate. and not to mention, i dont think we'll ever be the same again. So bleh. f**k this, relationships are a pain in the @$$. you ahve your lovely dovey time, and it fades. You dump, get a new one. same process over and over again. this is SH!T i tell you. and it hurts to. the One guy i htought i could spend time with truly in "love" was the ONe and ONLY guy that really broke my heart to the fullest. I've been hurt, but never like this. Never to the point where i acnt say anything to him cause im shocked at what he tells me. He constantly IMs me and yells at me or assumes i dont care and just f**king makes me so mad and annoyed, but i cant show that im hurt. This is why someone who is a independent girl cant date withont lossing her head. and i've learned my lesson now.

sorry. i guess my story isnt the sad omg kinda story. its a b!tchy one.

[islandkiss]

constantly.. w/ my f**king bf.. he's so.. er.. I know.. you're probably thinking why am I still going out with him?.. well.. I'm asking my self the same thing everyday..

[illushun_eyez]

thnx man. yea i hope tingz go gud btw me n mai bf. wellz, n fo u when that person comez hold on tight. hehe... sry if it soundz corny. haha. wellz, g2g. thnx again.

[kantoaznboi]

constantly.. w/ my f**king bf.. he's so.. er.. I know.. you're probably thinking why am I still going out with him?.. well.. I'm asking my self the same thing everyday..

honestly, u should break it off, cause if he causes u that much pain, he doesnt really care for u. if he truely luved u then he wouldnt be constantly hurtting u. but ehh its just my opinion

[kantoaznboi]

ur pretty illushun_eyez

lol

i'll shut up now

[MissBunni]

=\ yea i know the pain...it hurts..a LOT it kinda feels like...someone punched you in the stomach...or someone just comes up behind you and stabs you a billion times. sometimes i feel as if like...i don't know...it's a feeling that hurts to much to know the real meaning. =[ but remember....if she breaks up with you...she's not worth it. she doesn't know what she's missing out on. and trust me...i've been a fool for far to long

[shawty_redd]

i think i have felt it but now that i look back im not sure no more

[kantoaznboi]

=\ yea i know the pain...it hurts..a LOT it kinda feels like...someone punched you in the stomach...or someone just comes up behind you and stabs you a billion times. sometimes i feel as if like...i don't know...it's a feeling that hurts to much to know the real meaning. =[ but remember....if she breaks up with you...she's not worth it. she doesn't know what she's missing out on. and trust me...i've been a fool for far to long

exactly, dats how i feel. yea tru. but its hard 2 get over her. ya kno?

y do u say u been a fool 4 2 long?

and dang, ur pretty, lol sorry , i'll shut up now.

[ichiban]

MY STORY. I've posted this up a couple of times before, but you all can read it just fer.. entertainment i guess .. sort of long .. so dont bore yourself

Okay, so I become BEST FRIENDS with this guy .. Jason .. two years ago .. that year .. we did EVERYTHING together .. i always hung out with him at lunch .. we played sports together .. close as can be .. after a few mothes .. i realized ..i loved him .. i couldnt stand being one second away from him .. i was really young back then .. but i knew what i felt ..
And then it was summer break .. nothing much happened.. he went away and i never talked to him durin summer .. but school started again and everythin was cool .. my feelings for him increased .. still hung out with all the time .. then during .. May i think .. he told me his feelings for me .. he had really loved me .. but .. i was too young .. so STUPID .. i regret it soo much .. i didnt tell him my feelings fer him .. so it was like that .. he didnt know the fact that i loved him .. i finally decided i would tell him .. it was the end-of-the-year party .. and my friend sara tld me, Jason doesn't like you anymore .. and i was like .. .. i was just about to tell him and i had to know THAT .. sara never lies .. so i knew she was tellin the truth .. and you know what? I had a strong feeling Jason liked sara .. and i was so hurt .. so full of regret .. durin the party, he kept on flirtin with her .. and practically ignored me .. omg me and him were supposed to be BEST FRIENDS .. and .. it was like, i never knew him .. so i ended the year horribly.. summer vacation .. that vacation i thought that maybe next year everything would change .. a new start .. Jason and I would be close again and just chill .. so the school year began again .. middle school .. the first day .. i saw him with a group of guys .. he didnt notice me .. and somehow i didnt have the courage to walk up to him and say hi .. i thought that he didn't want to be around me anymore .. so i thought, hmm maybe tomorrow? the next day i didn't see him around at all .. so it went like that for a week .. we didn't talk, say hi, or anything .. i was so sad .. i knew it was probably my fault fer not telling him my feelings in the first place ..a month passed .. still, we didnt talk or anything .. we chatted online a little, but it was so different than before .. i remember he used to IM me to just mess with me .. distract me from my homewerk a little and just make me laugh .. and now it was like, "hi, hi, sup? nothing .. *silence*.." .. i couldnt BELIEVE IT .. everything was so different .. i still had feelings for him .. i dreamed about him almost every night .. dreamed that we were just hangin out .. like before .. i cried about it a few times ... i kept on thinking of those times we had together .. everything was gone now.
So it was now November..i was talkin to sara online .. and she IMed me and said, "is jason on?!" he wasnt .. so i asked her, "why?" .. she said, "dont tell anyone, but i really really like him and i found out he likes me alot too!" *silence* .. my heart was BROKEN .. well sara and jason never were bf and gf .. because soon sara didnt like him anymore .. jason began liking someone else .. ERICA .. i still barely talked to him .. once or twice i played basketball with him .. but it wasn't the same .. well jason got with erica .. but i didnt know that yet .. then my friends and i were hangin out with erica .. and she showd me this keychain, and was sayin, "jason gave this to me!" once again .. i was heartbroken .. i had thought that maybe jason and i could have been CLOSE again .. become best friends again .. or somethin .. i still IMed him every once in a while .. just to say hi .. finally, one day i just told him, "You know how you told me you liked me along time ago? well .. at that time .. i had really really loved you too .. i just never told you .." .. and jason replied, "oh .. i dont care now" .
ever since then .. we never talked .. never said hi .. never acted like we knew the other existed...
It took me well over half a year to get over him .. because now i dont give a damn about him anymore .. because he's changed even more now .. hes just like some gangster now ..

wow that was long. have fun reading!

[HaNeul-ye]

i've been broken-hearted before;actually even now. everytime we get into an argument,it's so bad. it breaks my heart into a million pieces. you know the feeling; feels like i've been stabbed in the heart and shot by a shotgun. i guess it really hurts that much depending on how much you love that person rite? but still, i love him. and i know i hurt him that much also... i guess you could say we both share the pain. i feel really bad when i make him cry...so i shed tears too.