Do guys like girls to make the first move?, like for dates, kissing... Options

[Bridget_rules_4e...]

yes its another poll lol

[*Programmer*]

yeah..once in awhile that would be great...

[upf147]

i voted easier on us guys b/c, well it is, i dont want to overstep my boundaries so i let my g/f make the moves at first when we first started going out that way i knew i was being safe, not stupid.

im never in a rush anyway, i dont focus just on sexual things, i see it as, i actually care about the person and respect her, and if she is game for a little "playing" then hey, i am too, just hint me, lol, get it? but im gonna respect her and her body until she was ready.

[Levy2k6]

i rather her atleast "imply" something.... it just makes it easier.

[jEllyBeaNs]

i voted easier on us guys b/c, well it is, i dont want to overstep my boundaries so i let my g/f make the moves at first when we first started going out that way i knew i was being safe, not stupid.

im never in a rush anyway, i dont focus just on sexual things, i see it as, i actually care about the person and respect her, and if she is game for a little "playing" then hey, i am too, just hint me, lol, get it? but im gonna respect her and her body until she was ready.

...awww, thts exactly how it should be for both the guy and the girl

[i_liek_sushi]

Yes! girls should make the move more often. We have to worry about the chance that girl might not wanna do what we wanna do... and risk getting bitch slapped or something. But if a girl does something first, guys usually won't mind at all, SO JUST DO IT!

[xoxoxx]

Both should agree in a mature manner. Both should use proper grammar. Both should bring up the subject at the same time.

[misoshiru]

^ haha. that would be a really big coincidence, to bring it up at the same time.

[newyork__lies]

Both should agree in a mature manner. Both should use proper grammar. Both should bring up the subject at the same time.

Holy jesus.
You are too cool.
The whole grammar thing.. That is just awesome.

[bad_girl]

Grammar?

[BannanaQ]

no coz most of the time when girls make the move, the guys don't even know them...well I don't even know them...And its weird to have someone writing you a note who you have no idea who and it seemed like she is stalking the crap out of you. And most of tthe damn time the notes are corny and so shallow. "Oh I see you around and I think your cute" It always has cute in there. What the fluck! do they even know who the guy they like is??? I mean if its a friend I guess its ok, or atleast someone you know.

[MrElsewhere]

^ well how would YOU approach somebody you don't know? the girl is taking a big risk by putting herself out there to some stranger. btw, if they don't know who you are, then how can they say anything about you except how you look...?

if its weird for you, then imagine how weird it is for the girl.

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i'd like for the girl to make the first move. takes a lot off of me. but start small. don't tackle me and stick your tongue down my throat. :D

[cheerbee07]

I dislike making the first move. Maybe it's because I'm shy, but still. (or, ahem, once burned, twice shy) I'm ok with guys suggesting stuff (though I'd rather it not be sexual), it's not like all girls would be rude about it.

[31miracles]

i would like it if the girl made the first move but inside i would feel like a pussy

[SarahxJoy]

I think guys and girls should both share the opportunities of making the first move.

[nyctophiliac]

I think guys and girls should both share the opportunities of making the first move.

perfectaly said

[vn_cuti3]

boyz should make the 1st move it's easier 4 the gurls lol

[aubbob]

i love making the first move.
it amazes some boys and they get all excited.

[Joss-eh-lime]

i wish we were still in the 1800s where girls could ignore the guy and hes still come running. that would make life easier for the girls. haha

[*a painefull euphoria*]

i think it should be balanced out a bit.
some times girls have to do a little work.
and sometimes guys.
its all about equality.

[shampoo192]

haha i'd like it if a guy could make the first move

cuz

i'm hella shy and id be afraid of rejection

if a guy asked me, i kno he'd think the same thing, but i know I wouldn't do anything traumatic to him

i just like guys asking first =]

[*WHIMSICAL 0NE*]

i wish we were still in the 1800s where girls could ignore the guy and hes still come running. that would make life easier for the girls. haha

But then what if you get some suitor who you dislike... highly?

I also agree that they both should. It's not like the guy should do all the work. I'm not saying that you should just "go for it" but if he's dropping the hints but is unsure you should let him know it's ok

[EddieV]

Doesn't matter really.

[Joss-eh-lime]

But then what if you get some suitor who you dislike... highly?

yeah thats true. like in the movie nicholas nickleby [those whove seen it know what i mean]

[kaykaylicious]

i say its the guys jobs..

[Gilbertay]

It sucks having to make the move...Sometimes Idk wether I should..so ya..once in awhile would be nice.

[vash1530]

dosn't realli matter but its def easier for guys if thats the case.

[ATOM_HEAD]

it doesnt have to be a real move, but a good hint that lets us guys know their ready is nice.

[MaNDiiEs]

lol its so weird, everybody here *not onli HERE but everywhere else* doesnt wanna make the first move... guys or girls... lol then how the fcuk do we date?!

[ImHavingMattsKid...]

Im Kinda Having this problem with my boyfriend. We always argue on the fone after hanging out all day about how we barely kissed, and its weird. He always says its my fault. But Im so shy I dont think I could make the first move. Any suggestions?

[pedophile]

^ Offer to give a blowjob.

[RAWRstephishere]

^^ haha. that would make him happy.

[*Uronacid*]

Well, I think that everything should be a "mutual decision", but in general the first gesture is made by the guy... >,<

It sucks though... I mean, we don't always want ot make the first move. Sometimes we want the girl to do it to... :]

[Aerjae]

well. uhm. i don't like making the first move.

[AFireInsideMyHea...]

I wait for the girl to make the first move that way... I can adjust to the speed of the relationship....

[marshYELLOW]

i love making the first move.
it amazes some boys and they get all excited.

haha woah. oh baby! dude i think they kinda do get excited xD lol its like "oke lets do this!"

lol i think more girls should have the courage to make the first move. take the risk. if u get rejected then the hell with it! move on, but if it works out, then gud job. give yer self a pat on the back ^_^

[hughth]

I always do the 1st move but it would be easier if they do some of the work like doing the 1st move. X]

[mytangerine]

i love making the first move. it's more exciting that way. i live by the nike slogan.

[xBUTTMUNCHx]

what are we girls suppose to do? start making moves like complimenting and getting physical? LOL please, [me] i am too shy for that.

[EmoEyelinerx]

When i go out with someone i think its easer on the guy if the girl makes the first move because i dont think the guy wants to pressure her into anything -it always works for me...i make the first move kissing; look at me now, me and my bf are basicley making out in the hallway-

[Mystic Eyes]

i say its the guys jobs..

Nah...unless it's written in stone. which it isn't so really it's both guys and girls job. It's funny how girls often don't bother making a move and in the end lose out big time.

[swishersweet]

hells yes... i'm getting tired of the typical sterotype for every guy making the first move.

[NgocQuyen]

it was better that Thuan made the first move because if he didn't then we wouldn't be together. :)

[*steve330*]

^If I hadn't both of us would have been too shy to do anything more than talk on aim rofl.

[1angel3]

I think the guy should

[*steve330*]

^Which goes hand in hand with good ol' fashioned Chivalry.

[kourtneyroxs]

I am a girl, & I would love a guy to make the first move. It
shows that has knows what he wants but not afraid!

[RyanWasHere]

I don't want a girl to make the first move, but It would be nice if she left some slight hints for me to pick up on so I know Im not going to get turned down when I go in for that first kiss or w/e lol..

[BankruptcyLyts]

although its the guys job, i think its nice for the girl to make the first move every once and a while

[pkbabe]

Both should agree in a mature manner. Both should use proper grammar. Both should bring up the subject at the same time.

LMAO pie man! btw where are you? Dork!

Anyways...balance is everything

[*steve330*]

Haha it would be interesting but I doubt it'd happen

[Chicago]

either or.. i'd rather make the move though
because like.. its like, "the guys job" i think

[LeGosse]

I like to be the one to make the "first" move. I like to be the one to escalate, and the one to scale it back down. But that's initially. After things get going, it's okay for a girl to be proactive and go for what she wants. It's hot. But if a girl comes on to me too hard and we're not dating, the promiscuous alarm goes off in my brain.

[Aerjae]

I'm a girl, I don't like to make first move.

[cherry90]

i see it as you should start and if she isnt comfy with it she shld have the say of no.

i also think that a boy should b able 2 reconise the signs of a girl not wanting it but also to shy 2 say no!!

[Legatovibrato]

I honestly think that it would be better if girls make the first move, but the thing about it is that the one who makes the first move gets to pick who she wants to approach and also the one who approaches is mostly the one who becomes dominant in the conversation.
And honestly I like to be to one with the choice and the dominance in the relationship. I want to pick where to go what to do and how to do it.

[newkidontheblock]

I don't mind the girl making the first move. It's the 21 centry

[jaeman]

I don't mind, it's very entertaining seeing what's on their mind.

[illriginal]

Some males do mind and some males don't mind. The ones that do, most likely assume that the female is just some sort of ho and might get turned off by it.

The males that don't mind, are thinkin.. shit if she pulled the first move, I'm definitely getting laid.

True story.

[DoubleJ]

Sometimes I do, and sometimes I don't.

[tailoredtrouble]

if all girls had to make the first move, id be all for it, cuz im tired of guys i dont like trying to make moves on me. ehhhhkkck.

[ohBrian]

we'd prefer it but really nothings gonna happen!

[shoryuken]

yes its another poll lol

me gitta c how she/he look fiiirst..