yahoo! personals,things on the comp,allthosepopups, whats my dad been doing? "\ |
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yahoo! personals,things on the comp,allthosepopups, whats my dad been doing? "\ |
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a few days i was on my dads computer printing out stuff b/c my printer was broken and i was going to print this document so i went to his folders, and i found the most disturbing thing......
yeah, i found pictures of porn, likea ll over his eBook folder. and then i looked thru his history cause i couldnt help it, and then i found that in the past few weeks he's visited Yahoo! Personals..???! and his computer suddenly has 960 popups blocked, when the last time i was on his comp (around a month ago) there was only like, 100. and i know he usually keeps his computer clean so it makes me wonder what hes doing on the computer.. he's still married to my mom so... wtheck?! =\ it makes me worried and freaked out.. what should i do? its way too embarrassing for me to talk about.. soo yeah ![]() ---xEmilyx--- |
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As embarrassing as it is, you have to discuss it with your father first. Don't tell your mother behind his back though. After all, it's his problem and she deserves the right to hear it from your dad.
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![]() Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 ![]() |
Its natural for anyone to look at porn. Its a healthy thing. But if it bothers you, but you dont want to talk about it, then theres not much else you can do but avoid the situation, which i would probably do as well, but I advise you dont.
But that must be really awkward. And just because he watches/looks at porn doesnt mean he doesnt love your mom, if thats what youre thinking. Its just something that he may watch from time to time. |
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![]() dakishimetainoni... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 ![]() |
maybe it's not as bad as you think. do you know if he actually responds to the personal ads? maybe he just looks around, i look through the personal ads in newspapers just to read the slutty and weird things people say to try to attract people.
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![]() Band Geek. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 ![]() |
Wow. I'm sure your dad would be very embarrased if you talked to him about this, and it is in fact his business. It is not cheating on your mom if he's only reading and watching these things, if he is meeting the people in the ads then that's another story. I would personally blow it off, I mean most adults look at things I suppose, maybe your parents haven't been having the best sex life lately, but I'm sure you don't want to think about that. I would just let it go and try to ignore it.
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QUOTE(Chii @ Feb 1 2006, 11:09 PM) maybe it's not as bad as you think. do you know if he actually responds to the personal ads? maybe he just looks around, i look through the personal ads in newspapers just to read the slutty and weird things people say to try to attract people. agreed. talk to your dad about it first, see what he says about it. don't jump to conclusions |
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I dont think you should've been looking through his files in the first place, so confronting him about the porn would make him feel like you were a bit nosy? I dont know, but I think you should just leave it alone.
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Dont snitch on him, unless you want your family to fall apart!
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QUOTE(Chii @ Feb 1 2006, 11:09 PM) maybe it's not as bad as you think. do you know if he actually responds to the personal ads? maybe he just looks around, i look through the personal ads in newspapers just to read the slutty and weird things people say to try to attract people. lols yeahh...you never know! i would talk to your dad about it first. i mean i know it could be awkward but just talk to him about it... ![]() |
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