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 Jan 29 2006, 03:48 PM
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 shake it  Group: Member Posts: 245 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,171  |
me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month now.
everythings great, and we both love each other alot. he doesnt treat me bad or anything (so dont be thinking that when you read the rest) his ex girlfriend has been leaving him comments on myspace being like "ohh i love you so much! we have to hang out soon! remember the good ol days.. when we went out? love your one and only nicole!" i dont think hes cheating on me since she goes to a differnet school. but do you think maybe shes just.. being friendly? i mean i think she knows im going out with him. i dont know what to do. |
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Jan 29 2006, 03:53 PM
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 cameraman swing the focus! Group: Member Posts: 1,880 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,328 |
i have the same sorta thing going on
except he keeps talking to his ex but she already has a boyfriend well i think it's normal to feel jealous just tell your boyfriend how you feel but don't try to go on too straight-forward i tried that and he just told me i was just being paranoid =/ |
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Jan 29 2006, 03:59 PM
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shake it Group: Member Posts: 245 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,171 |
yeah. this girl had a boyfriend.
but i think they broke up it really sucks because my boyfriend gets along with EVERYBODY and a lot of girls are friends with him. ive already met like his "bestfriend" who is a girl. .. and shes nice. it just bothers me that all girls are always like "i love you!" to him.  |
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Jan 29 2006, 04:23 PM
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 hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
To be quite honest, this is nothing to cry about. So the boy has friends. Get over it. I don't mean that to sound harsh, but just being honest. If it bothers you so much then tell him about it. Communication is important in every relationship. Let him know that it bothers you that his ex girlfriend leaves comments like that on his myspace and I bet he'll reassure you there is nothing to worry about. If anything, she probably is just being friendly and even if she does want more, you still shouldn't worry. If you even do worry about it, either a)you don't trust him or b)you're insecure. Also, ask him if he could perhaps let his ex girlfriend know that he is dating someone (you) and that he would appreciate it if she stopped with the comments that said 'i love you' because he thinks they are inappropriate since they are no longer dating. You could even try to talk to the ex girlfriend yourself. Express how you don't like when she leaves comments like that and I'm sure she'll back off as well.
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| *mipadi* |
Jan 29 2006, 04:49 PM
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Just because his ex-girlfriend still likes him, does not mean the interest is reciprocal.
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| *Programmer* |
Jan 29 2006, 04:57 PM
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wow your insecure...you obviously don't trust him..if your asking us...do us all a favor and dump him...no trust = no relationship
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Jan 29 2006, 04:58 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
QUOTE(mipadi @ Jan 29 2006, 2:49 PM) Just because his ex-girlfriend still likes him, does not mean the interest is reciprocal.  Yeah. Just simply ask him if there is anything going on. Dont get too carried awaywith feeling bad, and dont let your imagination run wild, scheming what could be going on. |
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Jan 29 2006, 05:56 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
tell him bout it. if it dont worry, then b!tch tht girl out. damn, id like to see my bf's ex do tht...
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Jan 29 2006, 07:22 PM
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 Band Geek. Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 |
Sounds like she's overstepping her boundaries, I would let her know that you don't like the way she's talking to your bf, and talk to him about it and see how he feels, and if he will tell her to stop as well.
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Jan 29 2006, 08:21 PM
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i went through that before, and realized i was right, my ex was getting close with his best friend and now they're together after like one week of me breaking it off with him
tell him you're not comfortable with him and his ex so close together. |
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Jan 29 2006, 08:33 PM
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i'm sure you have guy friends too. i don't really see the big deal.
have trust&faith. don't let your jealousy get the best of you because then your relationship will end |
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Jan 30 2006, 04:14 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
^ agreed
Trust him and let it go for a while. If you STILL can't stand it then find a way to tell him. |
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Jan 30 2006, 05:53 PM
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look... her ex-gf is sick... she's definetly behind the back of a men that does not love her.. only you... u should feel special that he chose u unstead of her
 
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Jan 30 2006, 06:06 PM
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 in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
You're definately not being hollywood enough. Try harder.
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Jan 31 2006, 04:29 PM
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shake it Group: Member Posts: 245 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,171 |
QUOTE(Acid Bath Slayer @ Jan 30 2006, 4:06 PM) You're definately not being hollywood enough. Try harder. dude. its a song. get over it. and to everyone else, thanks. i took the advice and things are good now. |
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Jan 31 2006, 04:33 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
QUOTE(love_angie @ Jan 29 2006, 8:33 PM) i'm sure you have guy friends too. i don't really see the big deal. have trust&faith. don't let your jealousy get the best of you because then your relationship will end lols that is so true...i was going to say the same thing  but yeahh..glad everythings going swell with you
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Jan 31 2006, 05:26 PM
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in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
QUOTE(xo_rock @ Jan 31 2006, 4:29 PM) dude. its a song. get over it. and to everyone else, thanks. i took the advice and things are good now. Everyone else?! Everyone else?! I gave advice. Way to thank me. Jeeesh.
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| *Blow_Don't_SUCK* |
Jan 31 2006, 05:27 PM
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QUOTE(Acid Bath Slayer @ Jan 31 2006, 6:26 PM) Everyone else?! Everyone else?! I gave advice. Way to thank me. Jeeesh. The advice you gave wasn't exactly the best or the nicest. |
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Jan 31 2006, 05:31 PM
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mood: content Group: Member Posts: 2,063 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,325 |
but it was funny
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Jan 31 2006, 05:33 PM
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shake it Group: Member Posts: 245 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,171 |
QUOTE(mocassinsx29 @ Jan 31 2006, 3:31 PM) but it was funny not really. because my signature is just a song how would you like it if i made fun of yours? uh yeah. |
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Jan 31 2006, 05:33 PM
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in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Jan 31 2006, 5:27 PM) The advice you gave wasn't exactly the best or the nicest. Please refer to mocassinsx29's post. 
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Jan 31 2006, 05:33 PM
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^Not to me, it wasn't. I think the person who started this topic didn't think of it as humorous either.
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Jan 31 2006, 06:24 PM
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 Diana =] Group: Member Posts: 1,318 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,147 |
This isn't anything to cry over. Just ask tell him that the comments his ex-girlfriend leaves on his myspace are bothering you. Maybe she's just being friendly.
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Jan 31 2006, 07:24 PM
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in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Jan 31 2006, 5:33 PM) ^Not to me, it wasn't. I think the person who started this topic didn't think of it as humorous either.  Well, we all have a different sense of humor. Don't take it too seriously. Sorry to harsh your mellow. |
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Jan 31 2006, 07:41 PM
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This should be closed now. The topic starter has solved the problem and it is just filling up with arguments.
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Jan 31 2006, 08:16 PM
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she probably is saying love you because she likes him as a good friend...and yeah. and just ask him.
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Feb 1 2006, 01:33 AM
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in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
QUOTE(Rachel is love @ Jan 31 2006, 7:41 PM) This should be closed now. The topic starter has solved the problem and it is just filling up with arguments. Arguments don't exist. You're wrong. |
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Feb 1 2006, 01:40 AM
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^Now you're just provoking one.
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Feb 1 2006, 01:48 AM
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in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Feb 1 2006, 1:40 AM) ^Now you're just provoking one. I know. I'm so bad. Oh, but the irony. My proposition that arguments may not exist is made invalid by the very fact that it itself was an argument. Silly silly. I think I'm gonna go night night. 
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Feb 1 2006, 01:49 AM
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[spam] I also need to sleep, but I seem to be glued to this chair[/spam]
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Feb 1 2006, 01:50 AM
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in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Feb 1 2006, 1:49 AM) [spam] I also need to sleep, but I seem to be glued to this chair[/spam] I edited and added to it. It's funnier now. I think, at least. I'm stuck to my chair too. How odd. EDIT; LIKNASKND 5 times. |
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Feb 1 2006, 01:52 AM
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[spam] Ironically we're both stuck on our chairs. Coincidence.
You contradict yourself too much[/spam] |
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Feb 1 2006, 01:59 AM
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in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Feb 1 2006, 1:52 AM) [spam] Ironically we're both stuck on our chairs. Coincidence. You contradict yourself too much[/spam] I think so. Er, about the coincidence. I never contradict myself. ...sometimes. 
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Feb 1 2006, 02:02 AM
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[spam] oh PLEASE. You have to be PERFECT to not be a hypocrite. *Wow I'm going to get warned with all this spamming*[/spam]
//edit Oh god stop going back to this topic! |
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Feb 1 2006, 02:04 AM
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in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Feb 1 2006, 2:02 AM) [spam] oh PLEASE. You have to be PERFECT to not be a hypocrite. *Wow I'm going to get warned with all this spamming*[/spam] If you're so worried about the spam, you should stop. Silly head. Also, just because I can contradict myself sometimes, does not make me a hypocrite. They aren't exactly synonymous. |
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Feb 1 2006, 02:05 AM
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^But when you contradict yourself, isn't that considered hypocricy? Oh well I won't argue and for that matter, I want to not spam any further.
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Feb 1 2006, 02:12 AM
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in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Feb 1 2006, 2:05 AM) ^But when you contradict yourself, isn't that considered hypocricy? Oh well I won't argue and for that matter, I want to not spam any further. Oh man! You are NO fun! Now I'm going to get blamed for all of this!  Look how mad I am! Main Entry: hy·poc·ri·sy Pronunciation: hi-'pä-kr&-sE also hI- Function: noun Inflected Form(s): plural -sies Etymology: Middle English ypocrisie, from Old French, from Late Latin hypocrisis, from Greek hypokrisis act of playing a part on the stage, hypocrisy, from hypokrinesthai to answer, act on the stage, from hypo- + krinein to decide -- more at CERTAIN 1 : a feigning to be what one is not or to believe what one does not; especially : the false assumption of an appearance of virtue or religion 2 : an act or instance of hypocrisy Main Entry: con·tra·dic·tion Pronunciation: "kän-tr&-'dik-sh&n Function: noun 1 : act or an instance of contradicting 2 a : a proposition, statement, or phrase that asserts or implies both the truth and falsity of something b : a statement or phrase whose parts contradict each other <a round square is a contradiction in terms> 3 a : logical incongruity b : a situation in which inherent factors, actions, or propositions are inconsistent or contrary to one another Main Entry: con·tra·dict Pronunciation: "kän-tr&-'dikt Function: transitive verb Etymology: Latin contradictus, past participle of contradicere, from contra- + dicere to say, speak -- more at DICTION 1 : to assert the contrary of : take issue with 2 : to imply the opposite or a denial of <your actions contradict your words> synonym see DENY - con·tra·dict·able /-'dik-t&-b&l/ adjective - con·tra·dic·tor /-'dik-t&r/ noun I know! I know! I know, by the look in your eyes that it's time to go! |
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Feb 1 2006, 02:14 AM
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^I laugh at your anger =D You didn't have to post all of that after saying I won't argue. You're right I'm no fun at all.
//edit OMG STOP REPLYING! GO TO BED! |
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Feb 1 2006, 02:18 AM
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in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Feb 1 2006, 2:14 AM) ^I laugh at your anger =D You didn't have to post all of that after saying I won't argue. You're right I'm no fun at all. My frustration and dismay is not here to amuse you! Please! Have some decency! You make me sad now. 
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| *Blow_Don't_SUCK* |
Feb 1 2006, 02:19 AM
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^My reply to that is similar to my reply in the Anonymous Shout-outs thread/topic.
//edit Isn't it ironic that you posted about your sadness in a topic/thread entitled, "Im gonna cry" I'm being such a bitch it makes me laugh. |
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Feb 1 2006, 02:24 AM
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in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Feb 1 2006, 2:19 AM) I'm being such a bitch it makes me laugh. As much as it makes you laugh it makes me cry.  I have cried so much I'm going to be sick! 
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Feb 1 2006, 02:25 AM
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HOLY SHIT KIERA IS HERE! NO MORE SPAMMING. Nate, like I said, I DO NOT CARE.
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Feb 1 2006, 02:25 AM
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Ok, earlier she said she took the advice so no further advice is needed. Also, this thread is fulling up with spam so....
Topic Closed. |
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