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 Jan 27 2006, 09:13 PM
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how come sometimes, when a girl tells a guy she likes him, he just ignores her from then on?
and also, theres this guy who i've liked for a loooong time. ive liked him since the 6th grade. and i told him 3 times i liked him at different times, and he just totally stopped talking to me and ignored me. i'm now a junior and i still like him. i dont know why i like him for so long. ive had two bf's to try and get over him, but its not working. i feel like, he's the only guy ive truly liked, but he just ignores me.  now he has a gf. but they keep breaking up and getting back together. i heard they did this about 6 times already. and this semester, i was switched into one of his classes, and his gf is in that class too! but right now, i think they broke up again cause she seemed really mad just two days ago, and gave him a note and said " do what you want with it. i dont care anymore" and just today, he said hi to me in the halls after school. and he has NEVER done this before. also, he talked to me in class... a little.  now i have this military ball thing. and i realy want to ask him. but i am scared he will just end up ignoring me again. and i dont want this to happen cause he is just now talking to me again. but i really want to hook up with him!!! should i ask him?  sorry... this was like a novel. |
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| *mzkandi* |
Jan 27 2006, 09:26 PM
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Moved to Relationships
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Jan 27 2006, 09:58 PM
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would some one please offer me some advice?! people read this and dont leave anything!
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Jan 27 2006, 10:01 PM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
Because he doesn't like her.
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Jan 27 2006, 10:03 PM
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 i'm maggie =] Group: Member Posts: 3,607 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,616 |
well, if he had been ignoring you, then maybe he doesnt like you.
you could try asking him to your ball anyway. |
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Jan 27 2006, 10:13 PM
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 ♥ Group: Member Posts: 29 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 364,025 |
well if you two were really good friends before and he doesn't have the same feelings, then you made it really awkward.
give it time. |
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Jan 27 2006, 10:36 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
maybe you should move on, he ignores you. well maybe he's talking to you right now is because he just broke up with his gf, and now needs someone else. just becareful i guess.
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Jan 27 2006, 10:40 PM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(bbkm34 @ Jan 28 2006, 9:58 AM) would some one please offer me some advice?! people read this and dont leave anything! Be patient about it. If he's starting to "like" you as it appears, he probably will ask you to the ball. Just wait. |
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| *Programmer* |
Jan 27 2006, 10:50 PM
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You must remember most men that you find are still little boys at heart..and you scare them away when you want more then a friendship for one reason. THEY ALREADY KNOW HOW IT WILL END UP SO THEY AVOID IT FOR AS LONG AS POSSIBLE... TILL YOU FORCE THEM...then well...you can figure out the rest...in some cases
 ...... in other cases the guy just doesn't feel....the same way..and once you tell somone somthing like that..the freindship changes because he then knows your true feelings...towards them...and begin to feel uncomfortable...around you...it's a normal thing...and it happens all the time...don't feel bad... 
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Jan 27 2006, 11:20 PM
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the [blunt] truth hurts.
hunny, he's just not interested in you so just forget about him. guys constantly put up a nice front when it comes to girls they aren't interested in just to save face. they don't want to be known as "that jerk that rejected so and so" so they swallow their pride and try to come out as the "nice guy." pshh 
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Jan 28 2006, 01:50 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
One thing you shouldnt do, is keep on telling him you like him over and over again. He was probably ignoring you because you made him uncomfortable and were stifling him with always telling him you like. It sounds like his realationship with his gf is sort of rocky. Ask him to the ball. You cant wait around for him to take the first step.
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Jan 28 2006, 01:54 PM
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 When the sun sleeps. Group: Member Posts: 532 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,628 |
because its deff akward for him. Im doing that right now to a girl and im trying to get her to see i dont lyke her.
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Jan 28 2006, 01:56 PM
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 I love my babyboy Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,367 |
What is wrong with that guy? If i were you id talk him up a storm, and really connect then ask him. But its strange because if I told him that i liked him and he ignored me? Well that wouldve NEVER happened to me. Because when I let you know something like that you have to tell me, do you or do you not. If you dont no hard feelings, (I'll either MAKE you like me. Or just move on, Im sure there'll be someone else to appreciate me. So i think you should do that, and if he says no, or he's going with his on/off gf. then you now what, Im sure that there HAS to be someoe who would love to go, or wouldnt mind going with you.
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Jan 28 2006, 05:28 PM
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i think you should move on..
if he ignores you, then he probably doesn't feel the same way.. and is trying to hint it to you he doesn't like you. i guess u can always be just friends with him right? yeah.. it hurts to be ignored so my advice is to move on with this guy. |
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Jan 28 2006, 06:06 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
if i were you i would try to move on. i would never put myself through so much pain and have feelings for someone who doesn't show any sign of emotion towards me. i'm sorry to sound mean but if he ignores you like that he doesn't deserve your attention. if he ignores you, you can do the same thing and ignore him too!! that karma is just going to come around and smack him dead in the face! and it should! he has no right to treat you like that. i don't know..thats just me...thats how i would deal with it. i think the only reason you're unable to move on is because you're not allowing yourself to move on. does that make sense? i mean you date other guys but you don't REALLY give them a chance to capture you. you know what i'm saying? you just keep this guy in your heart and you need to just berid of him. there's plenty of guys out there that will treat you far better than he does. good luck!
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Jan 28 2006, 06:42 PM
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 Band Geek. Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 |
Sounds like he's unsure or doesn't like you. Keep talking to him, and if he seems to be liking you back take a chance and ask him to the ball.
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Jan 28 2006, 06:50 PM
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 o.x Group: Member Posts: 89 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,026 |
I think you should go for it and ask him.
If you don't, you'll just end up regretting it because nothing happened. The worst thing that can happen if you do ask him is he'll say no, or go with you for pity. If he says no, then it's no big deal. Play it off like some random guy and ask someone else. If it's pity, bring him with you, have the time of your life and show him what an amazing girl you are. |
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Jan 28 2006, 07:17 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
maybe he just really doesnt like you at all. and your obsessive-ness scares him so he tries to avoid you
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Jan 28 2006, 10:10 PM
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You should jut leave him alone. He obviouly does not like you and it makes him feel awkward. If I were you, I would just let it go. You'll get over it eventually. If he's ignoring you liek this, then he aint worth it hun
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Jan 29 2006, 02:45 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 129 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 320,404 |
because he's not interested.
but, at least he's not leading her on. or told her off in a jacked up way. so yeahh. you told him you liked him like 3 times. he should know by now. seeing as how he's in a struggling relationship, maybe you should ask somebody else instead of risking it and ending up hurt again. maybe just try to move on? :\ |
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