erotic massage, is it cheating? |
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 Jan 26 2006, 07:24 PM
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 Seisuke  Group: Member Posts: 289 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,523  |
Your dating a guy, John. Who really likes massage. Thoughyou dont like recieving massages from people even your boyfriend, John wants to continue his massage because he likes giving massages. Its like hobby and loves massage.
if he were to give other peopole massage it wouldn't be cheating, its just massage. But if he were to give an "erotic" massage but not take it to extremees like "sex", would you be jelous or think its cheating? |
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Jan 26 2006, 07:28 PM
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 Band Geek. Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 |
Ummm. I guess it would depend on how violating the massage was, since it sounds pretty violating though, I would probably not like it if my bf got one. Unless it was me. I guess it depends on how the other person feels about it too.
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Jan 26 2006, 07:39 PM
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 you`re undeniable Group: Member Posts: 1,136 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,828 |
maybe not cheating, but being unfaithful. i know they're sort of like the same thing, but i think that if he's giving erotic massages to other people he's still being unfaithful in some way...
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Jan 26 2006, 07:58 PM
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Seisuke Group: Member Posts: 289 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,523 |
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Jan 26 2006, 10:15 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
^please don't do that
it's not really cheating unless ofcourse it gets too sexual |
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Jan 26 2006, 11:40 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,343 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,767 |
Yes. I'd be jealous.
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Jan 27 2006, 12:07 AM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
i think it's kind of cheating if it's en erotic massage. sure he isn't like making out or having sex with the person but it's still something.
but, is it an erotic massage or just a full body massage? there's a difference. |
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| *Zatanna* |
Jan 27 2006, 01:05 AM
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Based on this wikipedia entry:
QUOTE Erotic massage is the use of massage techniques for erotic purposes. For example, instead of draping the subject's body with towels, an erotic massage is usually conducted with the subject naked and undraped. Areas of the body such as the areas around the groin and intimate parts of the body, which are normally not touched in therapeutic massage, will be touched in ways that increase sexual arousal. Erotic massage can be used as part of lovemaking, and its techniques can be used to enhance other sexual techniques. Erotic massage may be utilized as a means of stimulating the libido, or increasing the ability of a person to respond appropriately to sensual stimulus. In some cases, erotic massage can be a form of foreplay without sexual gratification, intended to heighten the sensitivity of an individual prior to another engagement where sexual arousal and fulfillment is intended. In other cases, erotic massage may be used professionally to desensitize a man to the sensual touch of a woman, such that he may increase his sexual stamina and avoid premature ejaculation. It is also offered as a service by some massage parlours (not to be confused with establishments that offer only therapeutic massage). In this case, erotic massage may be considered to be a form of sex work, or a form of sex therapy. ...I'm going with cheating. That may be seemingly narrow-minded of me, but I'm thinking that someone involved in an exclusive relationship shouldn't be doing anything like this with anyone else but their significant other. |
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Jan 27 2006, 09:47 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
^ agreed.
I'd be REALLY jealous. How dare he give massages do other people besides his lovely girlfriend. |
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Jan 27 2006, 10:04 AM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
QUOTE(FoxBandCutie08 @ Jan 26 2006, 7:28 PM) Ummm. I guess it would depend on how violating the massage was, since it sounds pretty violating though, I would probably not like it if my bf got one. Unless it was me. I guess it depends on how the other person feels about it too.  Agreed |
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Jan 27 2006, 12:23 PM
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Seisuke Group: Member Posts: 289 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,523 |
CUZ MY GIRLFRIEND DOESN"T like massages , and i need to continue at my massage, i havn't done it forever and miss it.
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Jan 27 2006, 12:31 PM
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dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
are you actually giving an erotic massage? like what was described from wikipedia?
if so then it is cheating. if you're not, and it's only a full body massage it's not a big deal. people are legally paid to do full body massages. |
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| *Zatanna* |
Jan 27 2006, 12:34 PM
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Look, it's not as if she's asking not to play D&D or Magic the Gathering. She's not comfortable with you touching people in a sensual manner.
I figure it this way - would you massage your mom like that? If not, then it's wrong. |
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Jan 27 2006, 05:08 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
hell ill get mad if it was a normal massage to his sister.
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| *suddenly she* |
Jan 28 2006, 04:20 PM
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i'm okay with him hugging other girls when they're in a really poopy mood, but massages... ?! no. erotic massages, definitely not. but a regular massage to a family member, i don't thinkk i'd mind. |
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Jan 28 2006, 06:13 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
QUOTE(gr00vyswordsman @ Jan 27 2006, 12:23 PM) CUZ MY GIRLFRIEND DOESN"T like massages , and i need to continue at my massage, i havn't done it forever and miss it. whoa...you're giving EROTIC EROTIC massages?! YOU CHEATER CHEATER PUMPKIN EATER!!! hahahahahahhaa just kidding!  but yeah anyways.. i actually would consider that cheating if you're doing it like the wikipedia entry...but if you're not really giving an erotic massage and you only think you're giving an erotic massage then you're good...does that make sense? 
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Jan 31 2006, 02:49 AM
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Seisuke Group: Member Posts: 289 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,523 |
ah
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