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 Jan 22 2006, 12:48 AM
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Okay, I'm having boyfriend troubles. And I'd love some opinions, and I really need help making a descision.
Okay, my boyfriend and I got together at teh Winter Ball in December. We've been together for almost two months now, but I never see him. We both go to school on the same campus, but not in the same school persay. I'm in a new school placed at it's parent school. So we share the campus and teachers and such, but it's a different system. And he's in the Drama department, which means he stays afterschool until 4. Now, I would wait for him, but I can't. Because I have my rock climbing club thing to go to. And durring lunch we never see each other. We might pass each other in the halls, but he never stops and talks to me. He's always "Hey Kyle." and passes right by me. I feel like he doesn't want to be my boyfriend anymore, and I think I should just break it off. But I don't know. Help? |
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| *LaStiNg4EtErNiTy* |
Jan 22 2006, 12:59 AM
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do u guys even talk to each other? like on the phone or sumthin? cause if u do, i guess u can talk to him about it. can u guys go out on weekends? instead of just school time?
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Jan 22 2006, 01:01 AM
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we never talk on the phone or spend any time together whatsoever. It sucks.
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Jan 22 2006, 01:12 AM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
how can you date someone for two months and not talk to them on the phone or date outside of school? why don't you spend time with each other outside of school...?
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Jan 22 2006, 01:15 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 15 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 359,236 |
I don't know. It sucks though.
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Jan 22 2006, 01:44 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Err.. IMO i don't think it's a proper relationship. If you're not spending time with each other or even talking on the phone or IMing or texting, i don't know how you can call him your boyfriend
 Since he obviously doesn't care about you, you don't need to break up. Just push the thought "he's my boyfriend" out of your mind and you're all set. |
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| *shannonx1* |
Jan 22 2006, 02:16 AM
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^i agree o_o from what you've said, he barely seems like just a friend lol... maybe try getting a hold of him and talking to him o.o?...
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Jan 22 2006, 02:28 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 15 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 359,236 |
Yeah, I suppose. *sigh* Now I have to tell myself I"m single again.
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Jan 22 2006, 02:39 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
you don't sound like you care too much about him, or you would have talked to him already.
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Jan 22 2006, 09:06 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
he doesn't sound like a very caring person. i mean how can you guys consider yourself a couple if you don't hang out or go on dates or even communicate. you should just break it off, don't keep hurting yourself like that
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Jan 22 2006, 09:53 AM
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 ALLISON Group: Official Designer Posts: 3,372 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 310,259 |
try hanging out with him on the weekends
if you cant talk to him face to face, talk to him on the phone and hear what he really thinks about you. hopes this helps! |
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Jan 22 2006, 09:57 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 75 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 280,479 |
yea, its like the same with me and my girlfriend, she is a trainer (medical) at the school after school and then she usually has work afterwards (as well as me) until like 9:30-10:00. So friday-sunday we spend as much time possible together, and i go see her when she gets off her shift. i miss her too much if i dont get to see her/spend time with her (vice-versa).
it doesnt seem that way in your situation though....drop em'. |
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Jan 22 2006, 09:07 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
communication is KEY
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Jan 28 2006, 10:06 PM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
QUOTE communication is KEY i agree. |
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Jan 28 2006, 10:17 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 41 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 158,270 |
Maybe this jut isn't the right time for ya'll to be together. Try finding time together after school or something
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Jan 28 2006, 11:42 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 214,397 |
yeah , just talk to him about it..
the guy im supposily seeing now used to just go "hey" and stuff... and after i comfronted him.. it's different =) a lot different. 
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Jan 28 2006, 11:45 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 185 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 365,309 |
Get it over with, if he's not trying to make an effort of being with you he's obviously not interested. He'll just be wasting your time
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