ugly people calling people ugly?, that's fcuked up Options

[*Weird addiction*]

I stumbled accross someone's blog today (a girl to be more specific) and she said:
"I hate ugly people, they scare me..." I was like, wow she must be very pretty. But when i took a look at her picture, i almost choked...she's extraordinary UGLY. What the hell is that? Why in the world do people do that.

Take Seon Ho for example, he's one annoying dumbnut (according to him). When people who are not up to his so called "standard" post pictures of them, he's always like "eww or wtf or grandma boobs or whatever shit comes to his head". Why is that? He's definately not good looking himself... what the fcuk is that? Calling people ugly? Sure you can make comments like "wtf?" when people post weird pictures but don't get rude. He's gone from being blunt to being rude.

Sure, beauty is in the eye of the beholder but shut the fcuk up. Comment for the "beautiful" people instead and leave the "ugly" ones alone. You have no idea how bad it hurts, someone called my friend ugly and she's getting depressed and all that. It's wrong.

I have the feeling i'm the only one who noticed Seon Ho's behavior. The last time i checked it was "member picutres" not "beautiful ...".

Grr.

[racoons > you]

i love you, sandra.

although to be fair, there is such a thing as subjectivity

[*Weird addiction*]

Sure but keep all your rude comments to yourself. Especially if you know they'll hurt.

[racoons > you]

oh i agree.

there is funny, and there is hurtful.

and then there is just this frightful mess in between, where you just look like a fool

[*disco infiltrator*]

This is a bit of member bashing...

And really, no one should call anyone ugly...you're not better than the next person if you're more attractive to yourself than another. Maybe Seon Ho's just confident and knows that he doesn't need to exude physical beauty to have opinions on others? Besides, he's usually joking and not really trying to be mean. I'm not justifying what he does, I'm just saying...just because YOU think HE'S ugly doesn't mean he can't think the same thing about others.

But you shouldn't put others down because you have a certain quality that they don't. That's the most absurd thing to think. You can't just call everyone ugly if you're attractive yourself, and you're really "allowed" to call anyone anything you want.

I'm not the greatest singer in the world, but I still know when people sound bad. Just because I'm not a perfect singer doesn't mean I can't tell when people are off-pitch or don't have a good voice.

This is ridiculous...

[*Weird addiction*]

This is a bit of member bashing...

And really, no one should call anyone ugly...you're not better than the next person if you're more attractive to yourself than another. Maybe Seon Ho's just confident and knows that he doesn't need to exude physical beauty to have opinions on others? Besides, he's usually joking and not really trying to be mean. I'm not justifying what he does, I'm just saying...just because YOU think HE'S ugly doesn't mean he can't think the same thing about others.

But you shouldn't put others down because you have a certain quality that they don't. That's the most absurd thing to think. You can't just call everyone ugly if you're attractive yourself, and you're really "allowed" to call anyone anything you want.

I'm not the greatest singer in the world, but I still know when people sound bad. Just because I'm not a perfect singer doesn't mean I can't tell when people are off-pitch or don't have a good voice.

This is ridiculous...

Don't you think it's member bashing when he calls them ugly? Sure, you can say lindsay lohan sucks or hilary duff sucks but they are celebs and are meant to be judged. I don't think you'll like to be called ugly.

There's a difference between your point and my point. Saying people suck at singing doesn't hurt as much as calling someone ugly. Wow, talk about bringing down someone's self confidence just to boost up yours.

[*Azarel*]

And really, no one should call anyone ugly...you're not better than the next person if you're more attractive to yourself than another. Maybe Seon Ho's just confident and knows that he doesn't need to exude physical beauty to have opinions on others? Besides, he's usually joking and not really trying to be mean. I'm not justifying what he does, I'm just saying...just because YOU think HE'S ugly doesn't mean he can't think the same thing about others.

So then go bitch at Seon Ho for member bashing than Sandra for bringing it up. Hypocritical much? Just because he is friends with Jusun and was formerly admin doesn't exempt him from the rules. And a lot of us are sick with it. Even the people who used to be his friends.

[fameONE]

Before this gets closed...

you're not the only one who notices Seon Ho's behavior.

[*Weird addiction*]

... Anna.

Brandon, i know this is going to get closed. But pheww...he needs to stop.

[racoons > you]

whether or not seon ho's intent is to be funny, he is still hurtful at times.

which means that waht he does should not be allowed

[NoSex]

Does that girl call someone ugly in her post and then continues on to say how bad it is to call people ugly?

Big deal. It's all a very subjective matter. If being called ugly "destroys your self-esteem" you never had much self-esteem in the first place. Get over it.

[*Weird addiction*]

Does that girl call someone ugly in her post and then continues on to say how bad it is to call people ugly?

Big deal. It's all a very subjective matter. Ff being called ugly "destroys your self-esteem" you never had much self-esteem in the first place. Get over it.

What the hell are you talking about.

I said seon ho wasn't good looking himself and i have every reason to say it. He's done worse.

And what's that about self esteem?

[fameONE]

Does that girl call someone ugly in her post and then continues on to say how bad it is to call people ugly?

Big deal. It's all a very subjective matter. If being called ugly "destroys your self-esteem" you never had much self-esteem in the first place. Get over it.

Who are you?

[racoons > you]

who is isnt really important. as nothing he said requires him to know any cb member personally, and is still relevant

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

lol this is funny. I love reading all of your arguments [end of spam]

[*disco infiltrator*]

It's NOT allowed....plenty of us have bitched at him plenty of times. He's been warned much more than once and I think suspended as well. I'm not being a hypocrite; I don't think anyone should do that. It's not like we just let it pass by. Go check his warning level; it's at 40%. Why would you think nothing's been done?...

Who is that? That's Nate. Nate, meet Brandon, Brandon, meet Nate.

[NoSex]

What the hell are you talking about.

I said seon ho wasn't good looking himself and i have every reason to say it. He's done worse.

And what's that about self esteem? 

So, wait? Do two wrongs make a right now? Awesome.

[*tweeak*]

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by the way, Sammi, other people CANNOT check warning levels

[*disco infiltrator*]

They can't? Well, I said what it was anyway.

[Smoogrish]

Well. Yes, that girl is pretty stupid for calling people ugly, but I guess it shows how little people care for each other's feelings these days. It makes it sound like she's trying to make herself feel better by saying all the other people around her are ugly, you know what I mean? I'm not saying it's right to bash people (because it most definitely is not), but it's not right to bash her back for being "ugly" either.

[racoons > you]

It's NOT allowed....plenty of us have bitched at him plenty of times. He's been warned much more than once and I think suspended as well. I'm not being a hypocrite; I don't think anyone should do that. It's not like we just let it pass by. Go check his warning level; it's at 40%. Why would you think nothing's been done?...

Who is that? That's Nate. Nate, meet Brandon, Brandon, meet Nate.

because we can read him geting away with it in member photos?

[*Azarel*]

It's NOT allowed....plenty of us have bitched at him plenty of times. He's been warned much more than once and I think suspended as well. I'm not being a hypocrite; I don't think anyone should do that. It's not like we just let it pass by. Go check his warning level; it's at 40%. Why would you think nothing's been done?...

Because, you know, that's completely evident to the rest of the community--his warning level being visible to only moderators, and all. Honestly now, his behavior warrants more forty percent, and you all know it. But y'all (not just moderators, the community as a whole) praises his idiocy, so he's encouraged to continue it. Sure, moderators may not "just let it pass by," but obviously not enough is being done to stop him.

[i_liek_sushi]

but Seon Ho isn't really ugly... (from a guy's prespective)


edit: oh great, brownsugar and mzkandi's here, this topic will probably get closed now.

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

Well. Yes, that girl is pretty stupid for calling people ugly, but I guess it shows how little people acre for each other's feelings these days. It makes it sound like she's trying to make herself feel better by saying all the other people around her are ugly, you know what I mean? I'm not saying it's right to bash people (because it most definitely is not), but it's not right to bash her back for being "ugly" either.

exactly I was kinda thinking the same thing. Weird Addiction, you said how Sean ho is calling other people ugly or something and yet you criticize him too. (wow what I just said was totally obvious) A lil hypocricy? Let's just make fun of celebrities instead if you guys want =)

[*mipadi*]

because we can read him geting away with it in member photos?

Some things are handled publicly; some things are handled via PM.

[*lolita kitty*]

I have the feeling i'm the only one who noticed Seon Ho's behavior. The last time i checked it was "member picutres" not "beautiful ...".

TRUST ME, you aren't.
It's pretty obvious, but most of the community is just scared of him. That's why they don't want to point out anything.

as for the ugly people thing, girls at my school do that.
if you know what I mean.

[*tweeak*]

Well how exactly does one stop someone from being mean? It's not like we want him gone altogether, and we can't exactly ban him from the pictures forum

[racoons > you]

but Seon Ho isn't really ugly... (from a guy's prespective)

big picture...

Some things are handled publicly; some things are handled via PM.

well if it is being handled, why does it continue?

[fameONE]

I hope everyone realizes how his popularity is beginning to skyrocket.

[*disco infiltrator*]

Seon Ho's posts.

How come I don't see the word "ugly" anywhere in his most recent posts?

And did I warn Sandra for calling him ugly?
Did I close the thread?

Yea, maybe I am hypocritical, since I've warned Seon Ho for it and not Sandra.

[*Azarel*]

I hope everyone realizes how his popularity is beginning to skyrocket.

I was just about to mention it.

I absolutely love how this thread is bringing him more attention. No, really. I do.

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

Well I guess when he reads this topic, maybe he'll understand the damage he does and how much people are annoyed with it? I mean have you guys ever member bashed him back? (I doubt you guys did though since it's against the rules).

[i_liek_sushi]

big picture...

what?

Well I guess when he reads this topic, maybe he'll understand the damage he does and how much people are annoyed with it? I mean have you guys ever member bashed him back? (I doubt you guys did though since it's against the rules).

uh, I have...

but it's not because I don't like his behavior, at least he's being real. we already have too many over sympathetic people. (no offense)

[*mipadi*]

well if it is being handled, why does it continue?

People don't always respond well to censure.

As has been pointed out by Azarel (I believe), it's not entirely a failure of the staff. If the community as a whole disapproves of behavior, the community as a whole should respond accordingly. However, generally speaking, the community as a whole not only approves of his behavior, but encourages it through reward.

[*tweeak*]

I hope everyone realizes how his popularity is beginning to skyrocket.

No it isn't.

If anything, it's had an overall decline

[*incoherent*]

http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?act=Search&nav=au&CODE=show&searchid=f87c4a6745bb8c6691093f0e74b34c8b&search_in=posts&result_type=posts]Seon  Ho's posts://http://www.createblog.com/forums/in... Ho's posts.

How come I don't see the word "ugly" anywhere in his most recent posts?

And did I warn Sandra for calling him ugly?
Did I close the thread?

Yea, maybe I am hypocritical, since I've warned Seon Ho for it and not Sandra.

just because he isnt calling someone ugly doesnt mean that he is being rude in other ways.

[*tweeak*]

Well I guess when he reads this topic, maybe he'll understand the damage he does and how much people are annoyed with it? I mean have you guys ever member bashed him back? (I doubt you guys did though since it's against the rules).

it's not likely. it'll just amuse him

what?

as in, you missed the point

[Smoogrish]

exactly I was kinda thinking the same thing. Weird Addiction, you said how Sean ho is calling other people ugly or something and yet you criticize him too. (wow what I just said was totally obvious) A lil hypocricy? Let's just make fun of celebrities instead if you guys want =)

Yeah. I don't think it's right to engage in calling people who call other people "ugly" just to make it seem worse. It's bad enough that they're calling people "ugly" already, no need to make it an all-out "YOU'RE UGLY!" war.

edit//

And now this is beginning to be some sort of "Seon Ho sucks" thread, no?

[*disco infiltrator*]

Brandon, of all people to talk about popularity skyrocketing and it being a bad thing, it would not be you. Please.

Just like Seon Ho, you're a perfectly nice person on AIM or on the phone if I remember correctly, but on the forums, you present yourself as a very cocky person, quite similar to...hmm...Seon Ho!

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

^I totally agree

Seon  Ho's posts.

How come I don't see the word "ugly" anywhere in his most recent posts?

And did I warn Sandra for calling him ugly?
Did I close the thread?

Yea, maybe I am hypocritical, since I've warned Seon Ho for it and not Sandra.

No you obviously haven't closed the thread. And I guess Sean ho doesn't directly flat-out say, "You're ugly" but he criticizes. And just to be fair, I guess Sandra deserves a warning too.

[fameONE]

No it isn't. 

If anything, it's had an overall decline

Everyone is talking about him. Member who don't even know Seon Ho will try to figure out who he is. The same thing happened with Steven when he first got blocked.

If I had a thread where people were spending this much time mentioning my name and my actions, regardless of what I had done, I'd feel pretty good. He's now the focal point of CreateBlog. Congrats everyone.

[i_liek_sushi]

^^ yup, that's true..

[*tweeak*]

Attention isn't quite the same as popularity.

[*disco infiltrator*]

You did have a thread like that, Brandon. You made it yourself.

[*Azarel*]

Just like Seon Ho, you're a perfectly nice person on AIM or on the phone if I remember correctly, but on the forums, you present yourself as a very cocky person, quite similar to...hmm...Seon Ho!

Oh, please, spare me the bullshit. We all know that Brandon isn't like Seon Ho. Sure, he might be cocky, but he's never fucking rude.

[*tweeak*]

^she was making an analogy, not saying they were exactly the same

You did have a thread like that, Brandon. You made it yourself.

Which I must say, is far tackier.

[fameONE]

Brandon, of all people to talk about popularity skyrocketing and it being a bad thing, it would not be you. Please.

Just like Seon Ho, you're a perfectly nice person on AIM or on the phone if I remember correctly, but on the forums, you present yourself as a very cocky person, quite similar to...hmm...Seon Ho!

Ohhh, so there's something personal behind this? Did you really need to state that in the thread? Is there something you're trying to prove? Please, since its a public issue and a piece for entertainment, I'd like to enjoy the show I'm now a part of. Please, enlighten me on the different facets of my own personality.

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

^I won't feel pretty good when I realize the whole thread was saying I'm ugly.

[*AngelicEyz00*]

This is so hilarious.

[fameONE]

^she was making an analogy, not saying they were exactly the same
Which I must say, is far tackier.

So its tacky because I was bored and did something for fun? Get over yourself. Its not that serious.

Kids, its the internet.

[*disco infiltrator*]

There's nothing personal. Remember, we used to be friends? It's not like I hate you because we don't talk anymore. That's not what this is about. But you're sitting here criticizing Seon Ho for criticizing others and getting a lot of attention when you do it yourself.

And the internet is serious business.
I've been waiting a while to actually use that seriously.

[*mzkandi*]

* sits back with popcorn*

[*tweeak*]

So its tacky because I was bored and did something for fun? Get over yourself. Its not that serious.

Kids, its the internet.

Nothing I said made it sound like I was into myself. God, if anyone needs to take the internet less seriously, it's people getting insulted by Seon Ho or making threads to be worshipped in. Seon Ho insults people for fun.

[Smoogrish]

Yes, let's all bash each other! What fun!

I think this is getting.. a little bit too hard on everyone?

[*disco infiltrator*]

Kiera, I'm stealing your popcorn. It is movie theater butter? It's only good that way.

Make it Orville Redenbacher, too. Hometown boy!
And I do too, OK, I'll close it...

[i_liek_sushi]

* sits back with popcorn*

you're a good mod.

[*mipadi*]

* sits back with popcorn*

Can I snag some, too?