the first guy i get tongue-tied with, mmhmm i just gotta rant i guess... Options

[teeners4]

okay so there's this guy. haha and well i like him. it's kinda obvoius i think. i'm pretty sure he knows. but then again maybe he doesn't. but my friend told his best friend. and im pretty sure the best friend would tell him.

anywho. so i like him. and hes like the nicest guy around. so like even if he doesnt like me back, i would not be able to tell would i? unless u guys know some signs..

and well i'm naturally a bit flirty anyways. but when i talk to him i dont know what to say. like we act retarded with each other. giving stupid stares and random smiles...and we talk. but then again...maybe thats just how our friendship is. when do these "little things" cross over the line to liking me too?

i dont want to get into the details. i COULD though haha if you wanna help i'll pm you i guess.

and like sometimes i just wanna tell him! but then sometimes im like no thats stupid what if i get rejected. but then again like if i just tell him i like him its not like im asking him out right? so....its all up to him.

i pretty confused. im pretty sure it isn't an average crush, cause i know how that feels. but then i mean if we don't usually talk about things then how are we even going to start something? i mean we talk, but they're never like..half hour conversations.

so yea just tell me some signs and stuff like that i guess...

for spring break. we're both going away with the school. hes going to the cuba trip and im going to the europe trip. i was thinking of maybe telling him the day before we leave from our trips.... is that a good idea?


k thanks. and yes i know my grammer sucks =)

[topsyturvy]

Signs:

- you catch him looking, he looks away, looks back, then blushes
- goes out of his way to Accidentally Bump Into You
- wherever you go, he's there (he follows you!!)
- he blushes a lot when you're around

Then there's the basic ones..

- staring
- stalking
- teasing

I think telling him before the trip is a pretty good idea (so that you don't have to face him for a while in case it gets embarrasing), but it would be better to tell him before some major holiday (eg. Sprink Break) in case he starts blabbering and guess what, the people going on his trip are right there with their eager ears wide open.

It happened to me once. End of love story.

[teeners4]

haha well u know what i notice? recently he's been dressing a lot nicer. like WOW haha and he's in a lot of my classes and his locker is like a few away from mine. so that part is kinda hard to tell.

and the blushing part? haha one thing about my guy he has a red-face like he's always blushing. ALWAYS its adorable hehe

[FoxBandCutie08]

I think telling him before the trip is a good idea, then you both can think about it over the trip, and you can act accordingly when you both get back, whether he likes you or not. Sounds good.

[*Blow_Don't_SUCK*]

I agree with the other people! and for some reason I get the feeling either he's shy around you cuz he thinks you like him or he likes you back. If you want you can tell him. Just follow what you want (I don't want to say heart). If he rejects you, don't make a big deal and move on.