help w/ guy trouble, getting mixed signals |
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| *LaStiNg4EtErNiTy* |
 Jan 20 2006, 09:15 PM
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ok i have this guy friend and lately we've been hanging out a lot. i really like hanging w/ him and everything. Also, i'm getting mixed signals from the dude. my friend said she can sense that he likes me. he does give me gifts and offer me stuff. but there are other times when i feel like he's ignoring me or doesnt really care about me. truly, i only like him as a friend and my friend told me that if i keep accepting his gifts and hugs, i will lead him on. what am i suppose to do? i'm not even sure how he feels about me...
ok further explanation: the thing about hugs: he never hug anyone, ever. only like his ex. and he never pay for other ppl's food. i dunno...i guess he's just super nice to me lately. but i notice he's been trying to put his arms around me when we hang out together. maybe i'm hanging w/ him too much or something...he's just kinda different...sometimes he would look at me for a really long time...it's awkward. i really dont know anymore..the more i try to explain it, the more confuse it get. lol. thanks guys |
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Jan 20 2006, 09:23 PM
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ask him if he has hair on his genatiles..
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Jan 20 2006, 09:38 PM
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 i <3 peter Group: Member Posts: 744 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 125,986 |
^^wtf? lmao...
accepting hugs?? why would that lead someone on?? or am i just crazy...? |
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| *LaStiNg4EtErNiTy* |
Jan 20 2006, 09:49 PM
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QUOTE(KERP1UNK @ Jan 20 2006, 7:38 PM) ^^wtf? lmao... accepting hugs?? why would that lead someone on?? or am i just crazy...?  maybe ur rite, my friend's just crazy... |
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Jan 20 2006, 09:51 PM
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i <3 peter Group: Member Posts: 744 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 125,986 |
well i'm not saying that she's crazy...but hugging someone i wouldnt consider to be leading on..unless u like hold on r like "TOUCH" him r something r yeahh...
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Jan 20 2006, 10:23 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
errr, i don't get how he's sending you mixed signals? what exactly is he doing? is the only thing he's doing is giving you gifts and what not? lols.....please do explain more =]
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Jan 20 2006, 10:35 PM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Agree with ^, please give more information.
If you don't like him, you can accept his gifts as gifts of friendship but if he starts giving you rings and necklaces and stuff then it's time to speak up. |
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Jan 21 2006, 12:02 AM
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 chocolate luva Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,450 |
we really cannot tell you because we do not know you and your friend so i think it would be best to just ask him
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Jan 21 2006, 12:06 AM
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 I love Havasupai Group: Member Posts: 1,040 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 163,878 |
QUOTE(LaStiNg4EtErNiTy @ Jan 20 2006, 10:15 PM) i'm not even sure how he feels about me... Why don't you ask him before your overactive mind kills what might be a good friendship? |
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Jan 21 2006, 09:26 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
QUOTE(LaStiNg4EtErNiTy @ Jan 20 2006, 9:15 PM) ok further explanation: the thing about hugs: he never hug anyone, ever. only like his ex. and he never pay for other ppl's food. i dunno...i guess he's just super nice to me lately. but i notice he's been trying to put his arms around me when we hang out together. maybe i'm hanging w/ him too much or something...he's just kinda different...sometimes he would look at me for a really long time...it's awkward. i really dont know anymore..the more i try to explain it, the more confuse it get. lol. thanks guys how is it possible the he is sending you mixed signals, it's pretty obvious that he likes you from what you've been saying, the best is to ask him yourself, if you really want to know so bad. but do you like him? stop over reacting, you're gonna make the whole situation harder than it's suppose to be and probably make it worst |
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| *Blow_Don't_SUCK* |
Jan 21 2006, 09:31 AM
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^I agree.
If you don't like him more than a friend then you might as well not worry about it (but you can start worrying if he confesses to you...) Your friend is crazy. Acecpting hugs and gifts and offers don't lead on. You're just showing your friendly affection and politeness. Your friend is really stupid to make those kinds of assumptions. I won't be surprised when she spreads rumors. |
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Jan 21 2006, 12:45 PM
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 Band Geek. Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 |
If you don't want the relationship to go further than friends, let him know. Talk about another guy you like, or you think is cute, and ask his advice on him.
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