Players..., Why is it? |
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| *Programmer* |
 Jan 15 2006, 12:05 PM
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In my time of living i've noticed...that many girls/guys are very reluctant to mess with a guy/girl in fears or rumors that he/she is a player....I mean yeah there some guys/girls that are...but why do guys/girls automatically think that you are...hmm....maybe...because of the way your style?, dress?, walk?, talk?...flirt? what is it? why do you guys automatically assume that people are?...
 These question is are directed towards..both Genders |
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| *Weird addiction* |
Jan 15 2006, 12:31 PM
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HAHAHAHAHAHA. Rico, you look like a player even though you're not. Your style of dressing, the way you talk. I mean, if you talk like an educated boy, dressed like an harvard kid i'm sure people won't think you're a player.
People think i'm a player, just because i've never really been in a long relationship and i hardly fall in love. Boys fall in love with me and when i say i don't love them, yay for Sandra the player...the truth is that i'm in love with someone else so it's hard to actually be in a serious relationship... Bleh. Yay for "assumed players"... |
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Jan 15 2006, 01:15 PM
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 Band Geek.  Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 |
If you constantly talk like one or say things that hint to that, joking or not, people will begin to associate that image with you. If they think that, just hang out with them a little more until they get to know you and know that you're not.
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| *Programmer* |
Jan 16 2006, 08:21 PM
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so do you think think it's all those things together?
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| *nightmare4taki* |
Jan 16 2006, 08:31 PM
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Im not a player I just crush a lot.
There was a show a while back having to do with players competing for a girl, I forgot what it was called but it was on the same station as that show Beauty on the Geek when it came on. Anywho I think it just depends on the person, some girls are attracted to the player type. Its weird for instance a while back this girl I liked didn't like me until I started talking to her best friend. Im confused man. =/ |
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| *Weird addiction* |
Jan 17 2006, 11:50 AM
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QUOTE(Programmer @ Jan 17 2006, 3:21 AM) so do you think think it's all those things together?  That's what we said. You get judged by the way you talk/flirt/dress/present yourself... |
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Jan 17 2006, 02:47 PM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
QUOTE(Weird addiction @ Jan 15 2006, 12:31 PM) I mean, if you talk like an educated boy, dressed like an harvard kid i'm sure people won't think you're a player. That's me that's why no one knows about my secret life. Although I don't do many serious relationships at the same time, much rather I have flings. |
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Jan 17 2006, 03:27 PM
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 you`re undeniable Group: Member Posts: 1,136 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,828 |
i'm not a player, but actually i noticed the opposite. most of the girls and guys i know are always crushing on the players. i think it's because they have that confidence and that attitude that just makes a person more attractive you know?
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| *hello moto* |
Jan 17 2006, 03:28 PM
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well if you hear they cheated, like a lot of people tell you that.. you shouldn't be messing around with them in the first place unless you want to get hurt. i don't think its how they look, just maybe the attitude they carry. word gets around fast. wouldn't you listen to your friends if they told you this one guy/girl was bad news?
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Jan 17 2006, 07:30 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
i'd assume a guy was a player if he was... really flirty, and was popular. that combination almost always equals player. other wise, i'd assume they were if they've had lots of girlfriends or didn't show his feelings towards girls at all even if he went out with them (like jason from laguna beach or something)
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Jan 18 2006, 04:06 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
^ agree
If a guy flirted a lot, i would assume he's a player. |
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