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what quality do you, value most in people?
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post Jan 9 2006, 11:03 AM
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hm...I searched and there weren't any polls that asked for the best charectoristics of people in general (only guys/girls) but yea if i missed something feel free to close this

i had sooo much trouble picking one...what do you think?
 
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post Jan 9 2006, 11:29 AM
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Well, the choices were hard, but I went with intelligence because I think humor and intelligence go hand in hand for the most part. =)
 
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post Jan 9 2006, 02:29 PM
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hmmmmmmmm....

out of all of those i voted for loyalty, but i noticed the poll said people and i was thinking about friends. so i REALLY choose honesty.
 
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post Jan 9 2006, 02:38 PM
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If you are intelligent, you should know when to use all the above except for sense of humor maybe.
 
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hmmm...
that's a toughie.

i'd say honesty. :]
 
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post Jan 9 2006, 03:20 PM
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your right, this is tough, my top 4, probably honesty, caring/loving, loyalty, and sense of humor, in that order. its hard just to pick one...
 
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post Jan 9 2006, 03:36 PM
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i really admire people who are openminded and accepting. people who can get along with everyone flowers.gif
 
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post Jan 9 2006, 04:00 PM
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Confidence. Everything about a person and his interactions with others is derived from his own self-confidence. Humor, personality, friendliness, intelligence (and ability to discuss intelligent things), honesty, and open-mindedness all comes from a person being sure and comfortable with himself.
 
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post Jan 9 2006, 04:04 PM
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QUOTE(mipadi @ Jan 9 2006, 2:00 PM)
Confidence. Everything about a person and his interactions with others is derived from his own self-confidence. Humor, personality, friendliness, intelligence (and ability to discuss intelligent things), honesty, and open-mindedness all comes from a person being sure and comfortable with himself.
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i never thought about it like that. i guess i would have to change mine to confidence then
 
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post Jan 9 2006, 04:17 PM
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Honesty is the most important quality to me. Without a moral compass to guide a person through life, all else is irrelevant. Integrity and character are the most enduring elements of successful relationships of all kinds.
 
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post Jan 9 2006, 04:33 PM
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Everyone, thinks i'm funny, and just real. I speak my mind. And it tends to make people laugh. so i'd want someone like that, too.
 
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post Jan 9 2006, 04:47 PM
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honesty takes the cake =)
 
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post Jan 9 2006, 04:56 PM
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Hmm. I was going to choose intelligence but I'm leaning toward self-confidence due to what Michael said.

Honesty has the lead right now, but I'm usually (brutally) honest. Hmm.
 
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post Jan 9 2006, 05:01 PM
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For me, openmindedness.
 
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post Jan 9 2006, 05:27 PM
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i picked openminded because i think that with that trait, people can go a long way in trying to understanding each other better. i've known too many people who have gotten upset over something because they didn't see the other side to the situation.

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post Jan 9 2006, 05:42 PM
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intelligences,
n besides it comes in the package with all the other qaulities.
 
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post Jan 9 2006, 06:30 PM
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I like intelligence, openmindedness, independance, and loving at the same level.
 
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post Jan 9 2006, 06:35 PM
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Well, they have to have intelligence. Otherwise, they'd be (no offense), not interesting to talk to. They have to be funny. And then caring/loving, which if they were, they would also be honest and loyal and yeah. All that good stuff.
 
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Sense of humor.

I would say intelligence, or at least thinking, but I can at least talk to people who aren't that smart and be OK with it. I really can't stand talking to people who don't know how to laugh.
 
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post Jan 9 2006, 06:42 PM
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Humor and Intelligence.
 
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post Jan 9 2006, 07:38 PM
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QUOTE(mzbbc @ Jan 9 2006, 3:36 PM)
i really admire people who are openminded and accepting. people who can get along with everyone flowers.gif
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I 100% agree. I value those who are openminded. That quality is seriously very hard to come by and very important to have.
 
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post Jan 9 2006, 07:41 PM
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it's between confidence, open mindedness, and intelligence.
 
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post Jan 9 2006, 10:40 PM
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i'd say modesty/manners in people...that's important to me because i don't like people being rude or crude to anyone....i mean i like honesty...but sometimes the truth hurts...and some things are better left unsaid...

but really...i dont honestly LOOK for these things...haha not when finding a friend anyways wink.gif
 
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post Jan 9 2006, 11:24 PM
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i voted open-mindedness
cuz if its just people, then i dont want some random ppl yelling at me if i disagree with them... _dry.gif
 
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post Jan 10 2006, 11:58 PM
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modesty/manners

-intelligent people are know-it-alls.. annoying as hell
-sense of humor is good and all but being funny guy everytime gets old real fast
-confidence is a good thing.. but dont be confident if you got nothing to be confident about.. that'll only get you ridicule or better yet, your ass kicked
-independent people don't need you
-loyalty will only go so far.. we're all human, if it came down to it, most of us will choose to help ourselves first and foremost
-caring/loving.. aww how sweet -_- but most people can't trully care for someone they don't love
-honesty.. if millions were on the line, would you be honest? if you liked someone but that person liked your friend, would you be honest? i didn't think so.. but dont feel bad, most people would do the same thing
-success has a tendency to give people "big head syndrome".. really annoying as well unless you're one of those spineless suckups
openmindedness.. wonder if thats even a word.. but who cares, there are worse things/traits

dang.. i think thats just about the most i've ever typed here
 
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post Jan 11 2006, 03:00 AM
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I'm torn between sense of humor, intelligence, and of course, modest/manners. I mean, I'd like someone who's modest and has manners. :]

Intelligence.. that's a must as well. Sense of humor--definitely. It's tough when they don't. I mean, I remember when my boyfriend used to be soooo mellow.. actually he still is. He'd have no emotion on his face and barely laughed at anything... I mean, SOMETIMES he's like this. So a sense of humor is a must....
 
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post Jan 12 2006, 12:10 AM
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caring, intelligence, sense of humor, loyalty and openmindedness. manners too... somewhat. all of those things are important
 
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post Jan 12 2006, 12:21 PM
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I would say just personality in general.
 
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post Jan 12 2006, 06:51 PM
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I said caring and loving because people who are caring and loving tend to be honest and loyal. But I do think intelligence, openmindedness, and a sense of humor are also important qualities in people.
 
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post Jan 12 2006, 07:03 PM
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_smile.gif Loving and caring
 
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post Jan 12 2006, 07:54 PM
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Tough choices.

intelligence
sense of humor
loyalty

i'm sorry, i chose three.
 
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post Jan 13 2006, 02:56 AM
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that was tough. i'd have to go with honesty but most of the choices are pretty important too. if you combine those, you get the perfect guy. rawr
 
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post Jan 13 2006, 12:54 PM
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^ thats how I came up with the choices. tongue.gif

Keep voting and responding please! this is really interesting. And I think its important to think about what you want to see the most in people you are in relationships with. friendships and romantic involvment too.
 
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post Jan 13 2006, 02:06 PM
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I definitely choose honesty. Honesty is the basis for all progress in a relationship, as if there is no trust, there is no progress.
 
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post Jan 14 2006, 03:06 AM
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i value open-mindedness becuz ppl who arnt open to new and different things just arn't fun.....
 
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post Jan 14 2006, 06:53 PM
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Even though I chose caring/loving, I wanted to choose honesty also. But if you think about the honesty thing.. people still end up lying.. about SOMETHING.
 
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post Jan 18 2006, 07:22 PM
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I chose SENSE OF HUMOR.

But, also friendly,caring,loving,open-minded
 
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post Jan 22 2006, 07:21 PM
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QUOTE(hello moto @ Jan 13 2006, 1:56 AM)
that was tough. i'd have to go with honesty but most of the choices are pretty important too. if you combine those, you get the perfect guy. rawr
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I just realized how much I enjoy your avatar.


Anyway, I agree with Michael yet again. =]
 
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post Jan 22 2006, 09:44 PM
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caring....and loyalty
 
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post Jan 23 2006, 02:21 PM
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intell. and honesty and if they are freethinker like thats really cool
 
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post Jan 24 2006, 01:40 AM
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Very hard to choose...
Honesty.
I find that really important for some reason...
 
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post Jan 24 2006, 01:45 AM
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Honesty. Blunt, straightforward, allballsnobullshit, "Honesty."

Don't beat around the bush, don't say what you don't mean, don't tell me half truths, be upfront.

Love or hate someone, I'll always respect someone who's straight up.
 
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post Jan 24 2006, 12:26 PM
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QUOTE(BrandonSaunders @ Jan 24 2006, 7:45 AM)
Honesty. Blunt, straightforward, allballsnobullshit, "Honesty."

Don't beat around the bush, don't say what you don't mean, don't tell me half truths, be upfront.

Love or hate someone, I'll always respect someone who's straight up.
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agreed.

lol.

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post Jan 24 2006, 12:32 PM
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I can't talk to stupid people
 
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post Jan 25 2006, 01:23 AM
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Hm, I would say open-mindedness.
 
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post Sep 1 2006, 02:40 AM
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Openmindedness goes hand-and-hand with intelligence, so I pick intelligence. I am bored so easily by people, so I require interesting and intelligent conversation to stimulate me. All of the other attributes are also needed for a strong friendship, but intelligence comes first, in my opinion.

Ah, I'm such an intelligence snob. -_-
 
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post Sep 1 2006, 02:46 AM
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Caring. I don't know why but I am a sucker for people who actually care.
 
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post Sep 1 2006, 07:02 AM
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i went with honesty
you dont want someone lying to you
 
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post Sep 1 2006, 07:18 AM
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I'm stuck between loyalty, love/caring, and honesty.
 
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post Sep 1 2006, 11:52 AM
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It's a tie between confidence, intelligence and a sense of humor. I think they all kind of happen if you have confidence.
 
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Intelligence, because there has to be something we can converse about.
Then honesty and caring/loving.
A sense of humor would be cool too.

But basically personality. If you have a good personality, then you're cool :)
 
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post Sep 1 2006, 12:34 PM
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Intelligence Confidence and Caring and Loving .
 
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post Sep 1 2006, 05:37 PM
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Hard to choose just one.
I'd say intelligence, loyalty, caring/loving, & honesty.
Openmindedness would be nice too.
 
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post Sep 2 2006, 08:45 AM
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Yeah that's a big one^

It's fun to have everything out in the open. I dunno maybe that's just me.

I like a sense of humor too. thumbsup.gif

Seems like intelligence is a big one here also.
 
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post Sep 2 2006, 12:43 PM
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i picked honesty :)

although i think caring/loving is very important too.
 
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caring/loving because if you care about someone, then you would be loyal, open minded and honest to them :) intelligence is sort of nice too, but i guess it depends if it's the booksmart intelligence or the wisdom kind intelligence. i don't care that much about book smartness. comman sense is best, anyway. sense of humor is nice too. i'm sure if you care and love someone you'll be able to laugh with them easily
 
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Some of these go hand in hand but of course there are always exceptions.
 
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post Sep 2 2006, 09:25 PM
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definitely honesty, loyalty && open-mindedness
 
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Intellegence or Honesty

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post Sep 3 2006, 12:53 AM
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honesty is the quality i value in people.
i like it when people are able to tell me the truth
whether it's good or bad.
 
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Tough one..
I vote honesty.
Lying is one of the worst things a person can do do someone.
I never lie, SO I expect to have my freinds not lie to me either.

Just one of the best qualities I can think of,
That then caring/loving and open mindedness
 
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caring/loving and honesty [:
 
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post Sep 3 2006, 02:40 AM
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id say humor for me :]
 
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post Sep 3 2006, 07:34 AM
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I chose sense of humor because a person's sense of humor tells a lot about their personality. :P
 
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I'm torn between the first three... I chose intelligence at first but now that I think about it, openmindedness seems like it could be better.
 
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i chose sense of humor. i cant stand to be with someone who cant joke around with me.
 
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its to choose between what quality but for me its intelligence, sense of humor, loyalty and confidence..
 
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post Sep 3 2006, 10:11 PM
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QUOTE(brownsugar @ Sep 2 2006, 10:24 AM) *
I think it's hard to be a lot of those things up there if you're not honest. Like how could you be confident in yourself if you're not honest with yourself? How can you be loyal to someone you lie to?

yea your right , but if only people in the whole world could tolerate there differences .it would be hard for everyone to be honest about every single thing ...because of there flaws attributes ...and other negative views in that nature ....everyone might just hate each other .....Tolerance is the Key to settle out differences .... .....open-mindness and honestly should coincide and intertwiine .
 
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The choices were actually hard. I chose Intellegence.
 
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I like it when a person has a sense of humor.
 
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LOYALTY. yeeuh!
 
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Loyalty.
 
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honesty for sure, because that's the hardest thing t overcome for most people other than the other choices. and it effects everyone not just yourself/themselves.
 
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post Sep 17 2006, 06:22 PM
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i voted honesty because i hate liars and fakes and that's one of the things i can't tollerate with a person.
 
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Intelligence.
Loyalty.
Trustfulness.
Success.
Manners.
 
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post Oct 23 2006, 09:24 PM
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huh,...interesting that none picked success. Success is what drives your life, and id value that with my friendships.
 
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post Oct 28 2006, 12:38 PM
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I love when people don't bullshit, get to the point with blunt, sometimes ill-advised, honesty. It's an amazing trait that few people have.
 
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i like honest people i hate people who are cocky and/or annoying
 

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