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| *Weird addiction* |
 Jan 2 2006, 03:31 PM
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Is it me or do you find it SICK when a 19 year old girl can't go out after 6:00 PM?
A friend of mine is like that, she's from Vietnam (if that contributes to anything) and her parents won't let her go out after 6:00 PM...We hardly see eachother on weekends... 
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Jan 2 2006, 03:34 PM
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 YEA? ILL EAT YOUR FACE OFF =]  Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,087 |
well, shes 19. shes an adult..so shouldnt she be able to do whatever she wants?
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Jan 2 2006, 03:36 PM
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maybe they don't want the vc's to get her >.> lol
6:00 curfew is ridiculous though, i guess she has to live with it cuz of the "my house, my rules" rule |
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Jan 2 2006, 03:40 PM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
^But shouldn't she be in college or moving out?
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| *Solipsist* |
Jan 2 2006, 03:40 PM
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I SEE CHARLIE IN THE BUSHES LONGANISA_
okay enoughofthat She should move out. IMHO - Solipsist |
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Jan 2 2006, 03:43 PM
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wut wut in the butt? Group: Human Posts: 2,108 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 227,723 |
QUOTE(andromeda_90 @ Jan 2 2006, 1:40 PM) ^But shouldn't she be in college or moving out?  well for the time being she has to live with it, unless she does move out, then she's free to do watever |
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Jan 2 2006, 04:45 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
mm mm.
STRICT strict S t R i C t |
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| *stephinika* |
Jan 2 2006, 04:49 PM
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^^
lol frankie, you make me laugh.  and yeah dude, that sucks. worse than my parents - something i thought imaginable. |
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Jan 2 2006, 04:49 PM
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My dad said I couldn't go out after 6 one time... he forgot though :x that is bull shit. If she's over 18 she should be able to go out whenever, right? Meh...
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Jan 2 2006, 05:01 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
that's crazy. but i guess it's cause her parents want to protect her? shouldnt she be in college or something?
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Jan 2 2006, 05:07 PM
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 I love Havasupai Group: Member Posts: 1,040 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 163,878 |
I'm sure her parents have a good reason. Maybe she got into trouble and is being restricted.
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Jan 2 2006, 05:08 PM
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should someone move this to GLR?
NE ways. yes i would feel sick too but i dont think my parents can stop me from stay out late when im past 18 |
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Jan 2 2006, 06:14 PM
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That is just like me, but the only difference is my age, I am 15, not 19. Well, in this case, it is quite strict for Asian parents to do that to an adult.
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Jan 2 2006, 06:33 PM
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Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
^That's kinda not true. My parents are asian and they're extremely strict (I dont get to date till Im in college, cant go to parties unless it's birthday party, never curse, never say shut up, speak tagalog or you get a beating, etc) i have every rule set up on me EXCEPT FOR A CURFEW...i can stay up late anytime i want
--------------- I don't find it sick, I find it weird. But she really needs to move out. |
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Jan 2 2006, 06:35 PM
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 Another ditch in the road... you keep moving Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
QUOTE(peggysturr @ Jan 3 2006, 12:14 AM) That is just like me, but the only difference is my age, I am 15, not 19. Well, in this case, it is quite strict for Asian parents to do that to an adult. its quite strict for parents of any race to do that to an adult. but while she's under their roof... their rules, i guess |
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Jan 2 2006, 06:51 PM
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QUOTE(peggysturr @ Jan 2 2006, 6:14 PM) That is just like me, but the only difference is my age, I am 15, not 19. Well, in this case, it is quite strict for Asian parents to do that to an adult. not really, i never had a curfew. well i did once cause i stayed out too late. but i still come home by 10 11 just in case. ouch  i guess she'll just have to deal with it for awhile til she gets out of the house. but six?! that's abit too strict
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Jan 2 2006, 06:54 PM
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Her parents might be very strict.
Or perhaps she has a bad past, and her parents can't trust her that much anymore. Or perhaps her parents were brought up that way so they just reat her the same way they were treated when they were young. |
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Jan 2 2006, 07:20 PM
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 i'm 11,386. back off BITCHES!! Group: Member Posts: 1,596 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,386 |
how is that bull?
she's 19 y/o and still living with mommy and daddy? LOL if she's still living with her parents, then she should follow their set rules, yeah? |
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Jan 2 2006, 07:40 PM
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thats WAY strict... am i ever glad im not her =P
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Jan 2 2006, 08:03 PM
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That must suck for her. 6:00PM curfew is mad crazy..
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Jan 2 2006, 08:11 PM
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that's not strict, that's like...over the edge. she's an adult now and can make her own decisions. if i was her i'd talk to my parents about it and threaten to move out if my curfew isn't extended.
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Jan 2 2006, 08:54 PM
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That's pretty strict.
I'm only 13 and I've been out 'til 1 A.M. at the movie theatre with friends. Though. If she's 19 and still living with her parents. I guess she deserves it. 
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Jan 2 2006, 08:58 PM
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 when you smile, i melt inside Group: Member Posts: 1,325 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 267,089 |
That's crazy. >.< Even my parents arn't that strict. But I guess, she should move out..
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Jan 3 2006, 06:55 AM
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QUOTE(andromeda_90 @ Jan 2 2006, 10:40 PM) ^But shouldn't she be in college or moving out? Well normally she should be out of school but she's re-doing few classes. She failed... She can't move out...if she does, her parents said they'll send her to Vietnam to get married... 
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Jan 3 2006, 08:22 AM
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QUOTE(Weird addiction @ Jan 2 2006, 3:31 PM) Is it me or do you find it SICK when a 19 year old girl can't go out after 6:00 PM? A friend of mine is like that, she's from Vietnam (if that contributes to anything) and her parents won't let her go out after 6:00 PM...We hardly see eachother on weekends... I think that is a little too strict, her parents should go a little easy on her. She's old enough to handle herself. |
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Jan 3 2006, 09:06 AM
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It is too strict, but maybe an incident in the past caused this strictness
-(That's right, I'm back and back posting  )
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Jan 3 2006, 09:36 AM
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Wow, her parents must be way strict.
Maybe she just lacks the trust between her and her parents. 
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Jan 3 2006, 11:33 AM
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Another ditch in the road... you keep moving Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
QUOTE(Weird addiction @ Jan 3 2006, 12:55 PM) Well normally she should be out of school but she's re-doing few classes. She failed... She can't move out...if she does, her parents said they'll send her to Vietnam to get married... well that's upsetting. |
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Jan 3 2006, 04:35 PM
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QUOTE(racoons > you @ Jan 3 2006, 11:33 AM) well that's upsetting. Well said. But back to my earlier point, unless they are just plain evil parents, she must have done something/ got something done to her in the past. |
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Jan 3 2006, 08:28 PM
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Whoa.. that's pretty.. sad. I'd just sneak out of my house ;)
Assuming my parents wouldn't freak out and call the police on me :O |
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Jan 3 2006, 11:28 PM
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their house..their rules. It's wierd, but they're her parents, and she has to respect that. If she wants change, she either has to prove to her parents she should be let out after 6, or move out.
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Jan 3 2006, 11:35 PM
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unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
their house..their rules. It's wierd, but they're her parents, and she has to respect that. If she wants change, she either has to prove to her parents she should be let out after 6, or move out.
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Jan 3 2006, 11:36 PM
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it's not sick..i'ts just...sad
her parents need to give her a LIFE...if they let her in all the time..she is going to grow up to be a WILD child |
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Jan 3 2006, 11:56 PM
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i have vietnamese parents so i can understand ur point of view...
they are overprotective than most parents... but my parents are less strict..=] |
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Jan 4 2006, 12:41 AM
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yeah... the being from vietnam thing does kinda contribute to that topic... i mean, i have crazy asian parents... not from vietnam, but it's just the fact that they're asian. they've got all these crazy ideals. my parents assume that i do all kinds of crazy shit even if i don't. the other day, my mom was like "PSH! I'VE SEEN WHAT YOU STUPID TEENAGERS DO ON TV!!! I KNOW IT FOR A FACT! ALL THAT DRINKING AT 7! YOU THINK I DON'T KNOW YOU, BUT I DO!!!" -.-' wtf. yeah... if she's been watching those college drinking party videos and whatnot... goddamn...
 yeah, it's crazy crap like that that makes my mom goes all crazy make up all these irrational assumptions about things she really doesn't know. I mean yeah, there are teenagers that go drinking. oh well. she just doesn't need to label those bad stereotypes on everyone in our age group. 
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Jan 18 2006, 08:20 PM
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19 years old. LEGAL.
She can even move out. Anyways. My friend Yumi HAS TO COME HOME before 6:00pm. She's 17, soon to be 18. But that's BS. |
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Jan 18 2006, 09:14 PM
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Whoa, crazy. I don't know what I'd do if my parents were like that. When I can drive..in like 9 months, my curfew is midnight
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Jan 19 2006, 04:19 AM
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QUOTE(Weird addiction @ Jan 3 2006, 7:55 PM) Well normally she should be out of school but she's re-doing few classes. She failed... She can't move out...if she does, her parents said they'll send her to Vietnam to get married... that's horrible. and i thought my parents were strict. |
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Jan 19 2006, 04:26 AM
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shes an adult. If she wants to go out, she should. That liek my friend. hes in college, but when he comes home all of a sudden I'll and be like, lets go do bla bla, oh I cant my mom doesnt want me out past yadda ya. I'm like dude youre 20!! Start acting like it!! And her parents can't send her to vietnam to get married. She legally cannot be forced to anywhere unless shes here illegally. So if they want to send to to get married, she can pick up and go somewhere else. Period. That like my boyfriend, his dad keeps threatening to send him to bot camp for diciplinary reason (not making as in college) and its like dude, youre 22, he cant send you anywhere.
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Jan 19 2006, 01:19 PM
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QUOTE(Tribal J_Rome @ Jan 2 2006, 3:36 PM) 6:00 curfew is ridiculous though, i guess she has to live with it cuz of the "my house, my rules" rule 6:00 is INDEED ridiculous.... but like you said "my house, my rules" QUOTE(andromeda_90 @ Jan 2 2006, 3:40 PM) ^But shouldn't she be in college or moving out? I know a guy who is 25 and lives with his rents 
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Jan 19 2006, 02:24 PM
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QUOTE(andromeda_90 @ Jan 2 2006, 6:33 PM) ^That's kinda not true. My parents are asian and they're extremely strict (I dont get to date till Im in college, cant go to parties unless it's birthday party, never curse, never say shut up, speak tagalog or you get a beating, etc) i have every rule set up on me EXCEPT FOR A CURFEW...i can stay up late anytime i want --------------- I don't find it sick, I find it weird. But she really needs to move out. your parents' rules don't really make much sense, what's the point in making all those rules if you can just break them once you're out the door? QUOTE(Weird addiction @ Jan 3 2006, 6:55 AM) She can't move out...if she does, her parents said they'll send her to Vietnam to get married... if she saves up enough money and gets a stable job, she can move out. if she moves out, she's independant and on her own. unless they track her down, kidnap her, somehow ship her off to vietnam and force her to stay there and get married, which hopefully isn't too likely. i will be 18 soon and the only reason i'm allowed to stay out until 9:30 is because of my school schedule, which started a few months ago in september. it used to be 8 and my mom would still complain that 8 is way too late for any girl to stay out. it's not that my parents are strict, it's just that they're closed minded and kind of blind. we live in new york city and they don't believe that girls stay out later than 8pm! |
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Jan 19 2006, 04:47 PM
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That's pretty lame.
Seriously. I'd like, run away. Have her consider it. |
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Jan 19 2006, 09:48 PM
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Actually, I thought more about it after seeing this post again, and I think she did something to deserve it. I mean, sure, her parents might be old, senile, cynical freaks, but I highly doubt that.
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Jan 19 2006, 11:02 PM
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QUOTE(Chii @ Jan 19 2006, 3:24 PM) your parents' rules don't really make much sense, what's the point in making all those rules if you can just break them once you're out the door? Why won't you ask them? I asked them once but I got grounded for "protesting"
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Jan 20 2006, 05:18 PM
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QUOTE(The_AZN_Godfather @ Jan 2 2006, 9:54 PM) That's pretty strict. I'm only 13 and I've been out 'til 1 A.M. at the movie theatre with friends. Though. If she's 19 and still living with her parents. I guess she deserves it. 1 A.M.???  i wish i could stay out that late...sigh..but unfortunatelly i'm 13 still. she's 19...her parents shouldnt be giving her rules now.she's old enough to do whatever she wants. but then again, she still lives with them. |
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Jan 20 2006, 09:03 PM
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 im NO ordinary! akO ay taO! Group: Member Posts: 385 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 314,294 |
19? she must shout "FREEDOM!!"
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