Snap out of it..., He's not your god! Options

[*NatiMarie*]

Ok, haha, weird title I know. Anywhoo: I have this friend (my best friend actually) who just got a boyfriend. She moved too fast into the relationship and she makes him sound so godly and stuff. Sometimes it can irritate me so bad. Like when I played against him and I smashed the birdie (badminton) into him, she was like: Don't hurt my baby! I was disgusted. Now suddenly, he's not treating her with the same attention as before yet, she still wants to go for it. Hm...that didn't make sense. What I mean is, that she always goes to him, but he gives the least effort to go to her?

What can I say to her to make her see that he doesn't really care for her without hurting her feelings?

I've tried telling her to not go to him because he doesn't seem to care to even say hi to her, I don't know, I want to be a good friend, but I don't want to be so blunt about the situation, what can I do to not have her feelings hurt even more than they already are?

Sincerely,
Confused-person-ready-to-slap-the-bazookadoodles-out-of-her-friend

[Just_Dream]

Wish I can give advice but I act like my bf's my god too lol. Like if someone hit him, I'd be alll "HEY, back off! noo, hit me instead!" ahahs maybe cause I believe that I should protect him.. idk... and yea, sometimes, my bf treats me like that lol... cause he's not the one to show much emotion in public, but I'm the opposite, I act all lovey dovey to him lol it';s funny =P

[Winter]

It's true when they say love is blind. I personally thinks she is in denial. I used to be like that. But one day, a friend of mind started shaking m and screaming at me. That put some sense into my head. It's not a very nice thing to do, but it;s something that has got to be done...

[*NatiMarie*]

I think she's in denial too. I mean, he obviously never shows affection for her (first he was like: oh, the dream came true, now he's like: *silent*). They haven't talked since Tuesday and they see each other every day. I want to be straight out with her, but I don't even know how she is going to react. Hmm...I mean, the same thing happened w/ my sis. I told her that she had to get over the guy she liked before, and I guess I hurt her feelings...I don't want to hurt anybody else's feelings.

[Note]

man. she just wana bring out stuff and show off cause she has a bf. in other words i think shes bragging about him

[tinababy143]

eww OMGOSH! one of my ex-friends is EXACTLY like that..it makes me sick and shes lost a lot of friends because of the way she acts towards him..she doesnt care about anything BUT him and he even talks crap about her and yells at her stuff but shes still like "i love you" blah blah blah

[inthemudhole]

Agreed.
One of my friends is currently acting like that..

[Skyline Drive]

He must have her wrapped around his finger. I'm not sure if there is way to tell her without hurting her. You can tell her straight up in a nice manner and hope she doesn't get mad. I'm sure she will realize it sooner of later. Or you can let her take the fall and let her learn from her own mistake.. its iffy.

[Shattered_Hope]

don't wry so much, i mean for one she loves the guy so i suggest you let her find out herself or she'll get mad and think youre jealous and umm...hmm...just stop talking to you...wait a while longer, and let her realize on her own.