would u tell?, if u get in luv for a "forbidden" boy. |
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well...i was thinking...my friend is in luv with her friend's (not me) boyfriend.
she dont kno wut 2 do! should she tell him she likes him or not? pls help. p.s.: if a thread like it already exists, pls give me the url and im sry |
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Jan 1 2006, 05:22 PM
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why the hell should she tell the boyfriend of her friend that she likes him???
For one: she knows he's taken and most important of all: it's her friends boyfriend! Of course she shouldn't tell him, he's not available, so she has no right to interfere in the relationship like that, especially not if is girlfriend is her friend for god sake...  . That's a big no !!
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Jan 1 2006, 05:24 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
No. She shouldnt tell. Its her Friends boyfriend.
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Jan 1 2006, 05:26 PM
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 you`re undeniable Group: Member Posts: 1,136 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,828 |
no. she shouldn't even consider telling.
 she should just try and forget about him because he's definetly off limits.
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Jan 1 2006, 05:27 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
tell her to get over it. he is taken and she shouldnt make herself look like a slut and let the couple live their lives. If she continues to take him, tell her shes a life ruiner.
tell her to move on |
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Jan 1 2006, 05:29 PM
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definitely not. she shouldn't even consider losing a friendship and ruining her friends relationship all over a boy that she probably isnt "in love" with anyway.
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Jan 1 2006, 05:32 PM
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 Dragonfly_babe Group: Member Posts: 274 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 337,380 |
NO! NO! NO! NO! She would ruin her relationship with her friend!! I've had similar things happen to me like that. There are other boys like him out there
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Jan 1 2006, 05:35 PM
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 ...who created this mess...? Group: Member Posts: 451 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,244 |
Tell her that there are many other boys, and that she can't fall for a boy who's already taken by her friend. It would cause problems for her friend's relationship and she will feel bad afterwards if she tells him.
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Jan 1 2006, 06:07 PM
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NO.
a. he's already taken b. she'll ruin her friendship ._. Yeah. Just...don't let her do it. She'll screw everything up. |
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Jan 1 2006, 07:20 PM
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Definately not. She shouldn't be trying to break up her friend's relationship with her boyfriend. She'll ruin a good friendship. She should just stay out of it. Tell her to move on.
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Jan 1 2006, 07:22 PM
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okay well...your friend should not tell him but her friend who going out with him
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Jan 1 2006, 07:30 PM
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she should know that if she told him, she's going to go through alot of drama. and he's already taken.
tell her to move on |
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Jan 1 2006, 09:15 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
No.
Its not right. If she does tell him, he will probably tell the friend, and the friend will be mad. So no, shouldn't tell him. Because most likely she'll be rejected and the friend will be mad. So she'll lose most likely in the end. |
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Jan 1 2006, 11:58 PM
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BY now the answer is quite obvious. If it was meant to be . He would be with her and not the other friend? Apparently it is not looking like that.
Boys are whatever but friends are forever. |
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Jan 2 2006, 12:23 AM
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 Hi, I'm Leslie Group: Member Posts: 1,404 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,349 |
hahh sounds kind of like what my BEST friend's doin to me, but it's an ex-boyfriend, whom i still love
she loves him, but she's COMPLETELY open with it, she puts it all over her AIM profile, and on her myspace. the thing is, she has a boyfriend, and it's not my ex-boyfriend.. sad, huh? yeah, i don't think she should tell the, 'cause it'll screw up their friendship. she needs to get over him |
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Jan 2 2006, 03:04 PM
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Definately not. No matter how much she loves this boy, it isn't worth it. Even if she isn't the boyfriend's girlfriend's friend, it's still wrong. So it would definately be wrong for her to tell him that she loves him. She should consider how the two couples would feel because obviously, the dude would feel uncomfortable. Then her friend would notice and would feel hurt if she finds out or if worse, her boyfriend doesn't tell her the truth.
Love is important and all, but friends are just as important. Does your friend really think that it's worth ruining a friendship? & even if she does tell him, he doesn't like her back that way and it would ruin her friendship with him. As a result, it may cause problems with their friendship to the extent that people would start noticing that something must have happened. Not good if people get the wrong impression as well. |
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Jan 2 2006, 03:22 PM
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QUOTE(SirSmellie @ Jan 1 2006, 5:22 PM) why the hell should she tell the boyfriend of her friend that she likes him??? For one: she knows he's taken and most important of all: it's her friends boyfriend! Of course she shouldn't tell him, he's not available, so she has no right to interfere in the relationship like that, especially not if is girlfriend is her friend for god sake... . That's a big no !! I AGREE  DUDE SHE SHOULD STOP THINKING ABOUT HER FEELINGS AND KEEP IT T HERSELF ...she should move on |
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Jan 2 2006, 09:17 PM
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Sorry to say, I think you should keep this to yourself for a while. I would wait until something went wrong between them, it's most likely going to happen. If you really can't keep it to yourself, then just pick one person and talk to them about it. Telling too many people will ensure that it gets back to the friend and her boyfriend.
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Jan 2 2006, 09:45 PM
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I was in love with a friend.
I never told him. He was off limits. I'm over him now. It's just weird when ever I do see him. I think to myself, "Why did I spend so much time loving you?" He is a jerk, self centered, and gay.... no really, he is gay. |
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Jan 2 2006, 10:02 PM
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 dismantled desire Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 339,497 |
Exactly what everyone has already said, theres a huge 'No' right now. She should move on - or atleast try.
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Jan 2 2006, 10:17 PM
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Just because there's a goalie doesn't mean you can't score. Lala.
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Jan 3 2006, 04:42 AM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
It's really simple. If it's her FRIENDS boyfriend then stay away.
Why can't girls get that through their heads? Seriously. And I highly doubt that she is in love with him. She needs to respect him and her friend, and stay out of it. And I would advise her to not go near him even if they break up later on. It can cause even more trouble. Man, i sound mean. lol, i just really feel strongly about this situation. Being the girl that had her friends go for her boyfriends, you don't forget that stuff easily. |
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