friendship to a higher lvl, defenitly yes or defenitly..... |
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 Dec 24 2005, 12:44 AM
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 Seisuke  Group: Member Posts: 289 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,523  |
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ok well, the ones who had read earlier know what this topic is about, and i edited it out cuz i dont want it to get tobig on cb...well, thanks for ya'lls opinion, I've made my mind up too, and its a wise decision... |
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Dec 24 2005, 12:57 AM
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 Amberific. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,913 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,772 |
If you're both ready to take that step, more power to you. I'm certain being with a friend would make both of y'all comfortable as opposed with someone you just met. I don't mean "just met" as in one night stand, but "just met" as in someone without the history the two of you have. I'm not sure, however, how having sex will affect your relationship. I mean, do you want to stay friends or is sex your way of taking it to a committed boyfriend/girlfriend type thing?
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Dec 24 2005, 02:23 PM
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 Peggy. Group: Member Posts: 2,508 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 214,025 |
If you think you can do it, then so be it.
But be ready for commitment. |
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Dec 24 2005, 05:41 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
it's up to you, if you're ready then go for it, but you have to remember the consequences too
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Dec 24 2005, 07:56 PM
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Seisuke Group: Member Posts: 289 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,523 |
QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Dec 24 2005, 6:41 PM) it's up to you, if you're ready then go for it, but you have to remember the consequences too  hmm...consequences like what ? |
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Dec 24 2005, 07:59 PM
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^like losing a friend...period.
 is 15 min to 2 hours of pleasure really worth your friendship? if so please evaluate your priorities trust me....you don't want that...  i know cause it happened to me... girl i knew from like kindergarden...best of friends....never to say a word to one another again... 
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Dec 24 2005, 08:01 PM
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 "my girls rock balenciaga and smoke mad marijuana" Group: Member Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,049 |
go ahead and do it i dont get whats holding you back.
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Dec 24 2005, 10:16 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
if ur talking about being friends with benefits, it's ur call. if u both are completely 100% comfortable with it, then yeah. but remember, it can really scar ur friendship with her. think about what's more important: sex or a friend.
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Dec 24 2005, 10:39 PM
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 ::Purrr:: Group: Member Posts: 99 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,825 |
if ur sure that it wont make things weird between u guys then do it...otherwise awkwardness may occur afterwards
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Dec 24 2005, 10:43 PM
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Senior Member Group: Duplicate Posts: 459 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 308,469 |
yeah do it, why not. whys everyone saying that sex is gonna ruin the friendship wtf? that only happens when you sleep with other people. dont do that, ever... ever ever. under no circumstances.
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Dec 24 2005, 10:49 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 330,741 |
Sex is serious. You must be in college right? The time everyone explores their boundaries. I depends on your view of sex. I also know that you and your best friend are in the stage of your relationship that you can become closer. Its different with a best friend. You known him for so long .. you skip the first dates and you get to the real stuff .As long as you know that after this it may be different. Completely different. It's not a one night stand thing .. SO YEAH .. that's my view .. it might be incomplete .. but i tried.
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Dec 24 2005, 10:52 PM
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whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
QUOTE(innocentwinky @ Dec 24 2005, 11:49 PM) Sex is serious. You must be in college right? The time everyone explores their boundaries. I depends on your view of sex. I also know that you and your best friend are in the stage of your relationship that you can become closer. Its different with a best friend. You known him for so long .. you skip the first dates and you get to the real stuff .As long as you know that after this it may be different. Completely different. It's not a one night stand thing .. SO YEAH .. that's my view .. it might be incomplete .. but i tried. he said that he's known her since 7th grade, which was 6 years ago. which means he should be a freshman in college. |
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Dec 26 2005, 10:58 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Wait. IMO it sounds like the two of you don't care about the relationship but just want to get into bed. Are you even together??
If not please use proper contraception. If the biggest consequence happens -- a baby -- then i don't know what you can do. |
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Dec 26 2005, 11:30 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
-Topic Closed-
Topci is closed because the creater of this topic wants it closed. |
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