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 Dec 12 2005, 11:18 PM
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 WOAH I CAN TYPE STUFF IN HERE?~!~  Group: Member Posts: 110 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 274,826  |
After we entered high school, me and my best friend never really talk much anymore. We used to be really close but now our relationship is hanging by like a string. I really dont know what I'll do if i lose her but everyday our relationship gets worse. Recently, this junior guy (we are freshman) walked up to her and hes like hey, i always see u around, whats ur name? and like she never really talks to me anymore and when she leaves, she doesnt say bye to me but she walks up to the junior guy and i see her saying bye to him and stuff.
 she doesnt even know him but hes like a ladies man. The junior dude just gave her a rose today and he has a girlfriend too. wow how messed up. what can i do????????
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Dec 12 2005, 11:20 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Try inviting her places on the weekends, to spend time with her. Try to spark up something that would make her remember how much fun you two can have. And, about that junior boy. No harm in giving a rose, although i know if i was the girlfriend I'd be mad. Just remind her, hes taken, then wait it out and see what happens.
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Dec 13 2005, 03:14 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Spend more time with her and show her you can be more interesting than the junior guy. Looks like it's time to prove yourself
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Dec 13 2005, 06:17 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
people change when they get to highschool, why not try to bring up a conversation or ask her if she wants to hang out afterschool. just talk to her, tell her she's different and you're losing her.
as for the junior guy, don't worry about him, if he keeps flirting like thta he'll probably end up losing his gf and her. O_o |
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Dec 13 2005, 09:44 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
talk to her more, and ask her to hang out with you more.
or, you can make new friends. |
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Dec 13 2005, 02:33 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
try to reconnect the bond that u have with her...if ur having problems in any kind of relationship conversation is the first step to a solution
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Dec 13 2005, 07:54 PM
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 "my girls rock balenciaga and smoke mad marijuana" Group: Member Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,049 |
i agree with everyone else, spend more time with her, invite her places. do stuff together!
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Dec 14 2005, 12:19 AM
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Member Group: Validating Posts: 14 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 282,753 |
Well...she's kind of like a suck up to that junior dude...eh?
i mean, according to my experience...Suck ups aren't good friends. Have you tried warning her about him being a ladies man? Try talking to her after school, in a park or something...somewhere you know where she won't get distracted and you can get a good talk with her about your friendship. Hope she has the ears to listen. Good luck |
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Dec 19 2005, 07:54 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 127 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 324,352 |
why dont chu just call her up n confront her about everything.
ur thoughts n feelings. n if she doesnt seem to kare, than watever. a friendship like that isnt worth tryin to hold onto. |
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