when you feelinG doWn..., who's the first person to cheer u up |
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when you feelinG doWn..., who's the first person to cheer u up |
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![]() Jus Sweet Chocolate ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 739 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 216,959 ![]() |
soo when feeling down or your just having a bad day, who is that person who is always the first person to support you.
- i would have to say...my MOM. she's my idol! she is always there for me no matter what. ![]() |
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#2
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![]() Wow, i dont know whats going on... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,439 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,977 ![]() |
Friends.
Although that talking, might help your feelings. They don't help the real life died. Say your boyfriends dies in a chicken accident. Sure your mom cheers you up. But is your boyfriend coming back? Hellllllllllllllllllll no. In the end, if you think about. It's just a waste of time. |
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*lolita kitty* |
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My mom, or my friend Courtney. i can rant with anyone, but they've always been the only ones to actually comfort me and give me advice. The rest of my friends just go "Oh. That sucks and stuff. Yeah."
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#4
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![]() hi. call me linda. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 ![]() |
My boyfriend, most definitely <3. He's always there for me whenever I'm feeling down and he always knows how to make me feel better.
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*mzkandi* |
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#5
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My mom or my best friend.
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#6
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![]() <3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 ![]() |
my best friend. he's always there when i need him
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#7
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![]() Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 ![]() |
A piece of paper. Or headphones.
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#8
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![]() Being happy...is all that matters ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 ![]() |
my close friend. talking bout it with her helps.
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*stephinika* |
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#9
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my best friend/boyfriend.
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#10
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c[: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 ![]() |
my friends are always the first to cheer me up...rarely do my family ever help...X_____X
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#11
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 180 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 200,365 ![]() |
My boyfriend.
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#12
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![]() hulagurlie413 ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 83 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 259,963 ![]() |
i wish i could say my boyfriend but i'm getting tired of him cuz HE is always the cause of a lot of my problems, so i turn to my closest friends and/or cousins to talk to them and try to feel better.
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#13
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![]() Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 ![]() |
Linda Belle. She's the only person i know who hasn't been dramatically depressed in front of me.
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#14
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![]() You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 ![]() |
my close friends definitely. they understand what's going on usually... or at least can imagine
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#15
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 ![]() |
definitely my mom. I could tell her just about anything, and she says the right things to cheer me up. With my best friend, I'm limited on what I tell her. My dog can cheer me up too. She gives me this look when I'm sad or crying like "It's ok, Nicole. Everything will be okay." Pathetic, I knoww
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#16
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![]() naďvety ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 ![]() |
^ aww that's why i always wanted a dog.. they know exactly when you're feeling the worst and can give the best cuddles :) Only they can lick me and get away with it :D
I hate people who say "Aww, that really sucks" and walk away.. and then later on when they're having the worst day, they come to you and expect you to be right there passing out TLC and cookies. Topic reply: My best guy friend. I find it hard to tell my girl friends my sorrows without them digging into the root of the story, which is usually a screw-up which they'll lecture me hours about. |
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#17
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 ![]() |
whichever family member or friend who sees me cry first.
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#18
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My friend Sarah or my best guy friend.
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#19
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 127 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 324,352 ![]() |
my friends.
they appoarch me, askin me whats wrong n try to comfort me. they're the best =] |
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#20
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 35 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,259 ![]() |
my best friend.
he's seriously amazing. |
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#21
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![]() "my girls rock balenciaga and smoke mad marijuana" ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,049 ![]() |
my audin` ashley& my girl Shina & my homeboy Tony. sometimes my husband.. other times he makes the situation worse.. =]
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*xcaitlinx* |
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#22
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my boyfriend corey and my best friends becca and alex.
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#23
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![]() skaters gonna skate. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 6,861 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 ![]() |
i think most of the time i cheer myself up. then friends and family.
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#24
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![]() i've never wanted anything rationale. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 ![]() |
Meh, probably myself.
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#25
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![]() Some 1 plz find me, help me find my way..my way bak 2 bliss ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 288 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,748 ![]() |
my best friend... i love him.. he's always there for me
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#26
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 ![]() |
the love of my life; my boyfriend =)
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#27
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![]() banangst ♥ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 727 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 237,399 ![]() |
boyfriend=bestfriend.
music,writing,sleeping. |
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#28
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![]() Yawn ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 ![]() |
Sometimes it's my mom or Trish to cheer me up. They usually can tell when somethings wrong.
I can always count on Kaylyn cheering me up, there is something about her that makes you wanna smile, and she inspires you to get up and do something completely fun and crazy lol. If it's at rehearsal, then Miguel always cheers me up. I just need to see him smile, and then I start laughing, and we start dancing or something. Elliott cheers me up when we hang out together. He's the best at that. I've got some great friends |
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#29
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![]() can't touch this ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 174 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 323,184 ![]() |
My best friend!
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*Solipsist* |
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#30
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Myself. I don't like people comforting me.
- Solipsist |
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#31
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![]() Call me Elsie Mae ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 936 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 207,655 ![]() |
i go to my best friend. He is lyk the only person that i can express my "sadness" to and then always makes me feel way better.
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#32
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Duplicate Posts: 459 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 308,469 ![]() |
i dont have anyone to cheer me up. i have to do it myself. everyones too busy, and im done asking for help.
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#33
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 102 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 288,931 ![]() |
close friends and my wonderful mom. Its so strange I don't tell her anything about my personal life really (except for academics and music stuff) and yet she always knows when somethings up. But I guess thats what a mother is suppose to be like. And my friends get me through everything. I couldn't live without them. Im such a lucky lucky girl...so thankful.
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#34
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 ![]() |
mmm, sleep <3
i don't really have a best friend, and my mom/dad aren't really people worth talking to. the close friends i lost, and the new friends aren't close. i don't really like to share things with others unless i know that they're people who will help me, but i've lost those people and other people just don't help. |
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*iNyCxShoRT* |
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#35
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My friend Juliana; sometimes the things she advises I don't want to do, but I listen to her anyway because I know that she's right =\
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#36
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![]() whaaaaaaat? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 ![]() |
no one.
i tell myself to shut the fcuk up and stop being such a wuss about it. i get over whatever i'm being pissed off/sad/hurt about and i move on. the way i see it, no point in remaining all down and what not. might as well move on and make the best of it all. if my friends ask me what's wrong, i generally tend to put on a face and pretend like everything's perfectly fine. and they usually believe me, except for one of my friends, who ends up yelling at me and poking and prodding until i tell her. tadaa. |
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#37
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![]() Para ti... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 139,983 ![]() |
my boyfriend well...my ex now
but he still does it as a best friend |
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#38
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![]() ^-^ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 ![]() |
hmm...myself? haha. I don't go to anyone for help when I'm sad really...unless I'm really, REALLY sad in which case sometimes I go to my mom. But that only happens like once a year or something. I occasionally complain to friends on msn if I'm feeling down, but they're hardly ever availible in real life when I'm sad so ya...I just cry by myself till I get over it.
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#39
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 ![]() |
Actually, i can't say i've stayed happy for a while now. Like i would get a momentary rush of happiness but a few minutes after the cause of it is gone then i return to my sober state.
I think i'm suffering from mild depression, and im pretty sure i'm suffering from anxiety, seeing as how i can't shut my brain off at night, and i feel nervous at randome times of the day for no particular reason. When im down...i usually rely on either sugar, or dancing around my room for relief. Crying works too. but the afterfeeling of stuffyness isn't always so pleasant. |
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#40
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![]() Like i care. ♥ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 780 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,706 ![]() |
me.. i keep things to myself.
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#41
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my boyfriend<33 and my best friends<33
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#42
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![]() YEA? ILL EAT YOUR FACE OFF =] ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,087 ![]() |
pshh, nobody.
jk people. |
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#43
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![]() Infinite's End ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 180 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 193,597 ![]() |
My boyfriend...i dont cry infront of anyone else, like really cry
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