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is your bag tired? |
Dec 5 2005, 06:21 PM
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sacred beauty-- ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 152 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 131,432 |
I live in New York right.. So I take public transportation (bus/trains) all the time. It frustrates me whenever it's a day when the bus/train is so packed and there's a long way back home..I'm tired.. and I see a seat open and a person put their bag there. Now it's not fair to people who are really tired and need to sit..especially the elderly or handicapped.. Well what do you think?
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Dec 5 2005, 06:23 PM
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![]() This bitch better work! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
i agree. i mean, it's just a bag.
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| *StanleyThePanda* |
Dec 5 2005, 06:25 PM
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Seriously, put the bag in your lap!!!
yeah I hate that....... Ask them nicely to move it so you can sit or something. |
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Dec 5 2005, 06:29 PM
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dripping destruction ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
" oh no, but my bag has my diabeties medicine that's in glass, and i'm afraid i'll drop it if i don't put it on a chair"
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Dec 5 2005, 06:53 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
I set my bag in my lap and sometimes in the seat next to me but if it's full, then of course I'll move my bag. That's a little inconsiderate for those who don't.
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Dec 5 2005, 07:08 PM
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![]() hi. call me linda. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Well, that's why they have the new rules from the MTA about that kind of stuff... even though it is common sense. I usually put my bag in my lap or on the floor. The only time I put it on the seat next to me is usually when there's no one else, or barely any people on the bus/train.
Besides, you could always ask the person to please remove their bag so you can take the seat. |
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| *jooleeah* |
Dec 5 2005, 07:19 PM
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Yeah, it's inconsiderate. I always either put my bag on my lap or on the floor.
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| *Programmer* |
Dec 5 2005, 07:24 PM
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i threw a ladies briefcase to the ground once...and i said "stop being so stuck up B*tch this isn't burger king you can't always have it yoor way"
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Dec 5 2005, 07:27 PM
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Lauren loves YOU. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,793 |
^ I'd say that's ruder than leaving the bag in a chair.
Usually I carry my purse in my lap. Sometimes, if I'm carrying a bigger bag, I do that absentmindedly. But, if someone asks if they can sit there, I always move it. |
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Dec 5 2005, 07:28 PM
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![]() Amberific. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,913 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,772 |
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| *Programmer* |
Dec 5 2005, 07:33 PM
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yup...sat right next to her..shhiiit it's called public transportation for a reason
she looked at me like i was crazy when i asked her to move it nicely... |
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| *grrfield* |
Dec 5 2005, 07:36 PM
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You could always ask them, not that big of a deal.
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Dec 5 2005, 07:37 PM
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![]() you`re undeniable ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,136 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,828 |
i think that ppl do it so that they won't have some weird dirty person sit next to them. because you know how public transportation seats are like THAT close together? right so well i think ppl just don't want to be close with a random stranger.
it is really rude though when the train is all crowded and shit. |
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Dec 5 2005, 07:51 PM
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
Well I think it's rude when there's a lot of people. But say you're the only person in your row of seats and the floor was wet because it was raining out?
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Dec 5 2005, 07:56 PM
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![]() in a matter of time ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,151 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 191,357 |
Uh, ask them to take their bag off the chair? Most civilized people will let you. If they don't, then just move on.
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Dec 5 2005, 08:03 PM
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dripping destruction ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
sit on thier bag if they dont' move it.
say you didn't see it and thought they had moved it. |
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Dec 5 2005, 08:08 PM
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Newbie ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 310,457 |
I think it's ok to do that if there is no-one standing up or anything. If there are other spare seats they can sit there. but if there are no spare seats than i move my bag...btw im talking about a bus. I can't exactly relate cos i don't live in america and i live in a reasonably small city
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Dec 5 2005, 08:39 PM
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![]() Toria ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 177 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 207,588 |
yea I think its f*ed up...... I'll do it at school cause there are plenty of seats but I dont take busses to places.
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Dec 5 2005, 09:16 PM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 643 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 146,564 |
when the person is not looking...
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Dec 5 2005, 09:18 PM
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![]() crushed. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,432 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,026 |
I know what you mean..if I were tired, I would just go up to that person and politely ask if I could take that seat. Hopefully, they would say yes
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Dec 5 2005, 09:36 PM
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![]() Cockadoodledoo Mother Fcuka!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,438 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 296,088 |
i carry my bag everywhere and i walk and take the train a lot since icant drive so after an hour of walking to the train station, and standing and waiting for the train, its nice to be a able to put your stuff down on the seat next to you. It is pretty impolite not to move it if somebody asks tho.
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Dec 5 2005, 09:44 PM
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![]() Too slow. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,730 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,320 |
I would just tell them to move their bag nicely. It is rude if they see that there isn't much room and don't even bother to move their bag. I would get pissed off.
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Dec 6 2005, 01:52 AM
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mood: content ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,063 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,325 |
I put it in my bag or lap. I've never been a situation where the train was packed and the person kept their bag on the floor. But I was on the 7 train and the train was packed and this guy was sitting INBETWEEN two seats and he wasn't fat or anything, he purposely sat inbetween them so someone couldn't sit. I thought that was so selfish. But if someone kept their bag on the seat, I'd shove it off and sit. lol, just kidding, I would ask them to take it off.
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Dec 6 2005, 01:59 AM
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![]() Amberific. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,913 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,772 |
QUOTE(mocassinsx29 @ Dec 6 2005, 1:52 AM) I put it in my bag or lap. I've never been a situation where the train was packed and the person kept their bag on the floor. But I was on the 7 train and the train was packed and this guy was sitting INBETWEEN two seats and he wasn't fat or anything, he purposely sat inbetween them so someone couldn't sit. I thought that was so selfish. But if someone kept their bag on the seat, I'd shove it off and sit. lol, just kidding, I would ask them to take it off. Oh god, I've seen people do that too. I must admit, I've done that before. But it was because this lady wouldn't scoot over a bit and I didn't want to be all up on her. |
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Dec 6 2005, 02:06 AM
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![]() dakishimetainoni... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(Programmer @ Dec 5 2005, 7:24 PM) i threw a ladies briefcase to the ground once...and i said "stop being so stuck up B*tch this isn't burger king you can't always have it yoor way" i hate it when people have no consideration for others and take up all that damn space. or when like parents let their kids have like freaking 3 seats to themselves to climb all over. i know it can be hard to control your kids but come on, there are tired people who need to sit i always put my bag in my lap or on the floor...when the train is kind of empty i put my feet up on the side of the seats. it pisses me off that everyone else gets away with taking up so much space. once, it was easter and i made this really nice easter basket and it was heavy and i didn't want it to get damaged so i put in on the seat next to me. there was like 6 extra seats on that train and this policeman made me put it on the floor. |
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Dec 7 2005, 01:16 AM
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![]() wut wut in the butt? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Human Posts: 2,108 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 227,723 |
i take the bus everyday to school too, it annoys me when ppl do that OR they sit in a way that takes up the whole spot so nobody else can sit next to them. if the bus crowds up i put my bag on the ground or my lap. sometimes the bus gets so full there'll be ppl standing right next to the bus driver it's crazy
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Dec 7 2005, 04:43 AM
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![]() yan lin♥ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
i think it really depends. for example, if you're carrying an instrument, a sports bag, a backpack and a piece of artwork, it doesn't necessarily all fit on your lap.
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Dec 7 2005, 04:55 AM
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Newbie ![]() Group: Member Posts: 6 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 146,331 |
dude hell yeah i hate it when people don't move their bag. one time, i was on my way into town and there was this guy across from me who had his bag in the seat beside him. Soon, all the seats got filled up. At the next stop, the old lady came inside and looked at all the filled seats. i think she saw the seat with the guy's bag on it. I KNOW he saw her but he didn't move it. so fricken' rude! he just sat there listening to his cd player. so i got up and gave her my seat. i sent mean glares at him the rest of the way. i doubt he saw though...to stupid to notice probably haha.
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Dec 7 2005, 08:39 AM
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![]() cB Assassin ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
QUOTE(sin_lagrimas @ Dec 5 2005, 6:21 PM) I live in New York right.. So I take public transportation (bus/trains) all the time. It frustrates me whenever it's a day when the bus/train is so packed and there's a long way back home..I'm tired.. and I see a seat open and a person put their bag there. Now it's not fair to people who are really tired and need to sit..especially the elderly or handicapped.. Well what do you think? I heard from a friend that it's not illegal to put a bag on a seat. Although it's done so much that people really ignore it. I live in New Jersey but I'm in New York everyday since I go to college there. |
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Dec 7 2005, 11:27 AM
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![]() Blasian, Asian, INVASION! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
Well u can always just tell them to move their bag nicely or you will move it yourself. tht is somethin i would do
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Dec 7 2005, 11:42 AM
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![]() spiritual sister #2 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 135 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 252,919 |
That's annoying. Well I always ask them nicely to move their bag and sometimes I don't even have to, they do so by their own when seeing me approaching.
I also hate when they sit on the way-side seat so nobody can sit next to them. People really need to learn how to behave with others. |
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Dec 7 2005, 09:47 PM
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![]() hi. call me linda. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
QUOTE(xnofearx @ Dec 7 2005, 8:39 AM) I heard from a friend that it's not illegal to put a bag on a seat. Although it's done so much that people really ignore it. I live in New Jersey but I'm in New York everyday since I go to college there. It is illegal, the MTA has all these new rules, and one of them is to not put your bags on other seats. |
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Dec 7 2005, 10:02 PM
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I hate it when people just sit there while an elder has to stand. When the bus is full, I always give my seat away. I'm not gonna let them stand. It also annoys me when the bus is full and people just hog seats. Like they put one of their legs up to take up more room, or sit right in the middle of seat. Annoyssss.
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Dec 7 2005, 10:07 PM
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dripping destruction ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
i hate it when we take trips on a bus and it's full and then someone spills a coke on a seat and runs off so that the last person is stuck with a seat covered in coke.
that pisses me off, expecailly when i was the last person. of course, i refused to sit down,which ment the bus couldn't leave... i like to share my frustrations. |
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Dec 7 2005, 10:14 PM
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![]() team late night queen ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,602 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,861 |
when the bus was empty last week, i was with my friends and i put my bag on the seat next to me and a bunch of people were on the bus. but i was talking to my friends across from me so i didnt notice. i felt bad, but when i realised it, i was like "omg! sorrryy" and let them sit.
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Dec 7 2005, 10:15 PM
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omnomnom ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,776 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 180,688 |
That's bloody annoying.. it's like do your bags walk and need a rest?
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Dec 7 2005, 10:16 PM
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![]() with.much.love <3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 286,943 |
ask them to move it, if they don't... oh well. i dont really care for that cuz if i got tired and everything, i feel like i'm getting an exercise or something. but for the elders and hadicaps?? if the person still leaves the bag there, yeah. the person is a b*tch
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| *wind&fire* |
Dec 7 2005, 10:17 PM
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but i like standing up on the bus... its an excuse to push people over that you dont like when the bus stops
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Dec 7 2005, 10:43 PM
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![]() say maydayism. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,447 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,344 |
Oh I hate that too. Especially if I'm taking the bus with a friend, then we can never find two seats that are next to each other.
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Dec 7 2005, 10:49 PM
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![]() Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
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Dec 7 2005, 11:16 PM
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![]() durian ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
QUOTE(StanleyThePanda @ Dec 5 2005, 3:25 PM) Seriously, put the bag in your lap!!! yeah I hate that....... Ask them nicely to move it so you can sit or something. I know what you mean! I mean, my half sister is like that, but not in a bus or anything, but in a car. She would put her purse in the front passenger seat and I'd move it to the side next to me, but she would tell me to hold it. Then she would tell me initially when she used to not have anyone in the passenger seat, her seat was for her bag. But yea, I loathe it when people do that. I mean, sometimes I do that ONLY to SAVE A SEAT for a friend. I do that in theaters and stuff. But that's it, since I have an intention for it. Bleh.. |
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Dec 8 2005, 01:05 PM
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![]() Diana =] ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,318 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,147 |
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Dec 9 2005, 03:18 PM
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![]() I'm with Stupid. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 410 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,973 |
Gosh, what rude people. Well, I do that too sometimes in the cafeteria. But that's when I'm saving a seat for someone. xD
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Dec 9 2005, 04:33 PM
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![]() ladybugs are hot <3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,169 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,802 |
omgsh i think those people are losers. seats are for people. not for bags. gosh i live in new york too and i take the bus to skool everyday and its always packed. ugh i hate it especially when people put their backpacks on their seats they can just put it on their laps.
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Dec 9 2005, 05:43 PM
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![]() cB Assassin ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
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Dec 9 2005, 10:43 PM
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QUOTE(o0olaalaa @ Dec 9 2005, 1:33 PM) omgsh i think those people are losers. seats are for people. not for bags. gosh i live in new york too and i take the bus to skool everyday and its always packed. ugh i hate it especially when people put their backpacks on their seats they can just put it on their laps. so ... what do you do to them ? |
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| *[Filp]Essence* |
Dec 9 2005, 10:46 PM
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lmao, I oughta jack that bag up.
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Dec 9 2005, 11:13 PM
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![]() What a hypocrite. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,754 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 128,150 |
It would irk me, yeah. The bag should stay in their lap or on the floor, to give others a chance to sit down.
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